“I am a New Yorker, always have been, born and raised (want out but have NO idea where to go).”
Look into Oklahoma — good people, conservative values, easy to make friends, lots of land and house values are affordable. Prepare for a culture shock, but you’ll like it.
I’ve been through so much in my little 40 year lifetime span not too much can come as a shock to me.
I’ve been looking towards Montana. I’m not sure why, but Montana seems to be “pulling” me towards it. Perhaps, when the time is right, that is where I am meant to be.
But it’s always Montana that seems to draw me.