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As Same-Sex Marriage Becomes Legal, Some Choices May Be Lost (Gays: Be Careful What You Wish For!)
New York Times ^ | July 8, 2011 | Tara Siegel Bernard

Posted on 07/09/2011 1:01:31 PM PDT by lbryce

Now that same-sex marriage has been legalized in New York, at least a few large companies are requiring their employees to tie the knot if they want their partners to qualify for health insurance.

Should companies require gay employees to marry if they want health coverage for their same-sex partners?

Corning, I.B.M. and Raytheon all provide domestic partner benefits to employees with same-sex partners in states where they cannot marry. But now that they can legally wed in New York, five other states and the District of Columbia, they will be required to do so if they want their partner to be covered for a routine checkup or a root canal.

On the surface, this appears to put the couples on an even footing with heterosexual married couples. After all, this is precisely what they have been fighting for: being treated as a spouse. But some gay and lesbian advocates are arguing that the change may have come too soon: some couples may face complications, since their unions are not recognized by the federal government.

“Even with the complications, many people will want to get married for the reasons people want to get married,” said Ross D. Levi, executive director of the Empire State Pride Agenda. “But from our perspective, to hinge something as important as insurance for your family to what is still a complicated legal matter for same-sex couples doesn’t seem to be a fair thing to do.”

He said that there were a variety of reasons — legal, financial and personal — that companies should keep the domestic partnership option at least until gay marriage was recognized at the federal level. Legally speaking, getting married could create immigration issues or it could potentially muddy the process of adopting a child.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society; Government; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: abomination; depravity; fdrq; gayrights; gays; homosexualagenda; marriage
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“But from our perspective, to hinge something as important as insurance for your family to what is still a complicated legal matter for same-sex couples doesn’t seem to be a fair thing to do.”

Gays apparently can, will never be satisfied. What a sniveling fruity flock of pusillanimous namby-pamby, pantywaist hypocrites.

1 posted on 07/09/2011 1:01:38 PM PDT by lbryce
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“Corning, I.B.M. and Raytheon all provide domestic partner benefits to employees with same-sex partners in states where they cannot marry. But now that they can legally wed in New York, five other states and the District of Columbia, they will be required to do so if they want their partner to be covered for a routine checkup or a root canal.”

That seems reasonable.


2 posted on 07/09/2011 1:07:23 PM PDT by trumandogz
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To: lbryce

What difference does it make if they go through some sham ceremony? It doesn’t mean anything. It’s not marriage.


3 posted on 07/09/2011 1:10:15 PM PDT by Christian Engineer Mass (25ish Cambridge MA grad student. Many conservative Christians my age out there? __ Click my name)
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To: lbryce

LOL! A gay friend of mine, years ago, said that what he really liked about being gay was that he didn’t have to get married or make any commitment and he hoped the gay lobby never pushed this.

It’s going to be extremely complicated. Gay men change partners about every full moon or less, so they’re obviously going to have to decide on the legal implications of marriage and work out the cost/benefit analysis.


4 posted on 07/09/2011 1:10:36 PM PDT by livius
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To: lbryce

It’s often difficult to think things through ahead of time.

For men and women, they must be married to claim spousal benefits. They can’t just live together or be boyfriend and girlfriend. Legal documentation is required, i.e., the marriage certificate, when proof is necessary. Otherwise, people could willy-nilly claim spousal benefits whenever they wanted. Spousal benefits can’t be based on nothing and simply there for the asking.

So if sodomites are allowed to marry in a given State, they will have to have the same documentation that a man and woman are required to have.

Allowing sodomites to marry opens up many logical “cans of worms”, but in the rush to garner votes, legislators rarely pause at all to consider unintended consequences. After all, their job is only to get re-elected, right ?

Like the kids say... duh.


5 posted on 07/09/2011 1:10:36 PM PDT by PieterCasparzen (It's not difficult.)
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To: trumandogz

The whole gay thing is so fantastically UNreasonable that it boggles the mind.

But straights have to legally commit if they want family coverage; gays should too.


6 posted on 07/09/2011 1:11:35 PM PDT by I still care (I miss my friends, bagels, and the NYC skyline - but not the taxes. I love the South.)
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To: lbryce

Should companies require gay employees to marry if they want health coverage for their same-sex partners?

IMO, yes. But this should be the company’s decision. The government should stay out of it.


7 posted on 07/09/2011 1:13:12 PM PDT by birdsman (NAAWP)
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This nation will reap as a ‘whole’ what we have allowed to be perverted. Marriage has always meant man and woman established by God who is the source of all blessings and protection. The ‘sewer’ level is hip deep and the majority mob cannot see what their mushed minds and spines are willingly allowing. (oh for the sewer rats I personally could care less where you wallow, but it is a sin against the very one who said the activity is an abomination, so deal with the consequences.)
8 posted on 07/09/2011 1:13:33 PM PDT by Just mythoughts
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“Ha ha...”


9 posted on 07/09/2011 1:14:39 PM PDT by Zeppo ("Happy Pony is on - and I'm NOT missing Happy Pony")
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To: Christian Engineer Mass

Exactly. Most of these “marriages” will be on paper only. Open (in terms of partners) and probably different addresses too. Of course, the one with the $$ will have to watch out in case the (poorer) partner opts for divorce. No quotes around divorce, because that will be REAL (as in $$$).


10 posted on 07/09/2011 1:15:24 PM PDT by rbg81
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To: Christian Engineer Mass

It will be a boon for divorce lawyers.


11 posted on 07/09/2011 1:21:14 PM PDT by glock rocks (Wait, what ?)
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Between gay marriage laws and laws prohibiting discrimination based on sexual orientation, companies may legally be required to either give only married gays family benefits or open up benefits to straights who are just shacking up.
12 posted on 07/09/2011 1:22:46 PM PDT by KarlInOhio (Extremism in the defense of liberty is no vice! Tea Party extremism is a badge of honor.)
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To: lbryce; Chode

13 posted on 07/09/2011 1:28:37 PM PDT by Morgana (I never said a thing.....................)
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Gee, they whine about equality, then whine when they get it, since they lost preferential treatment.


14 posted on 07/09/2011 1:37:08 PM PDT by 5thGenTexan
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To: livius

Isn’t that something? Gay men get all the sex they want from their partners, and it still doesn’t keep them monogamous.


15 posted on 07/09/2011 1:37:24 PM PDT by TheDingoAteMyBaby
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To: glock rocks

What do they call themselves? Husband 1 and husband 2? Spouse 1 and spouse 2? Catcher, pitcher?


16 posted on 07/09/2011 1:40:16 PM PDT by ilovesarah2012
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To: lbryce

It’s quite simple. Queers want their many, interchangeable, revolving door butt buddies to be covered by insurance.


17 posted on 07/09/2011 1:46:30 PM PDT by Scotsman will be Free (11C - Indirect fire, infantry - High angle hell - We will bring you, FIRE)
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Just wait until they have a domestic dispute....

They’ll have to charge them both with a hate crime and mandatory jail time!


18 posted on 07/09/2011 1:54:28 PM PDT by esoxmagnum (The rats have been trained to pull the D voting lever to get their little food pellet)
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It will be a boon for divorce lawyers

Great observation. Makes me suspicious the whole thing is all an evil lawyer plan.

19 posted on 07/09/2011 2:00:11 PM PDT by The Good Doctor (Democracy is the only system where you can vote for a tax that you can avoid the obligation to pay.)
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To: lbryce

Homosexuals are attention hungry, money hungry, lawsuit hungry, drama queens, with the relationship attention span of gnats, introducing all this law, codification of relationships, and legal baggage into their carefree, sex based pick-up world is going to be a bitter wake up call for them.


20 posted on 07/09/2011 2:08:01 PM PDT by ansel12 (America has close to India population of 1950s, India has 1,200,000,000 people now. Quality of Life?)
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