FWIW, my gay acquaintances are among the most ardent pro-lifers I know.
But not the lobbyists for gay rights.
There are many who reject the group think of the activist "gay community." Unfortunately, they're often treated not unlike black conservatives: as traitors to their kind.
I've written a few times on FR about how that "community" is militant in demanding conformity. Reject everything else you are to be one of us; reject your faith, your values, your politics, your family
Fortunately they don't get to everyone as you've witnessed.
>>FWIW, my gay acquaintances are among the most ardent pro-lifers I know<<
Dollars to Donuts these are homosexual men and NOT lesbians.
If they are lesbians, they are beyond rare, in fact I would say that they are an anomaly.
Not a single lesbian I have known including my own sister is pro-life.
There were millions of anti-Nazis in Germany during WWII, or so they claimed later. Just like there are millions of moderate moslems who disapprove of jihad. For now.