I am happy for you. and don’t take credit for it it is from God.
My kids had all the right stuff, desks, lamps, own rooms, pencils, Scouts, church stay at home mom. One led a charmed life and one had a very hard time. I am not yet a grandparent. I am still trying to shepherd the one.
Don’t fret about maniac. My observation is that 1 out of three kids from a good family is common sense challenged and struggles in their own clueless-ness for years.
Your children and grand children will be just fine.
I think maniac’s proudness of his children got
a little clouded with my kids are better than yours mentality.