Sounds like a typical Middle Eastern Male mentality to me. Males can sleep around,smoke,drink,talk loudly like roaring animals, and never feel like they need to justify their actions. BUT, if you are a Middle East Woman, prepare yourself to justify every aspect of your life when asked.
That’s because women are property in that religious culture and as property their actions affect the man’s standing with Allah.
The “men” do as they please and figure they’re good with Allah if the women are held to the strict rules.
Personally I think muslim “men” are a bunch of hypocrites, morons and cowards.