As an adult heterosexual male who was molested by a pederastic sodomite at age 13, I'm calling BS on that, Bunny.
Are you basing that on projected anger, or experience?
I’m basing my opinion on years of group therapy, where I’ve come to the conclusion that men who were abused by men are on the other-side of the same coin as those of us who were abused by women.
There are different fundamental issues but many problems that are shared across the board: an inability to trust people, the pushing away of people who get too close, nightmares....panic attacks....severe depression....a nagging voice in the back of your head that inevitably asks of almost everyone you meet “What child is this asshole having sex with?”
But, there are big differences....people in your situation tend to develop knee-jerk hatred of - specifically - men. People like me don’t have that anger. We have distrust because men are adults but not because they’re men.
I could go on but, there’s really no point. You’ll have your belief and I’ll have mine.
We are “Brothers In Problems”, though.
Would you agree that adult women who prey upon boys sexually are not the most mentally balanced people to be introducing boys to sex with females? There is a huge power difference in these relationships that put boys at the mercy of the adult female. If the experience is dark, would this effect a boy's sexual imprinting and result in him not being comfortable or real with normal women sexually? But we agree that being molested by a female adult versus a male adult are totally different animals in consequence for the psychology boys.
One of the major problems I see for boys and girls today is that they are not socialized to understand that sex exists within a larger inspiration called love and caring. Sex can be a mechanical process of sexual expression but that kind of sex (I call it head sex - masturbation with or without another person involved) is different from real sex that involves, touches and entwines the spirit or soul of a male and a female. One produces physical satisfaction and the other produces physical satisfaction combined with an explosion of love known only to humans. It's a blessed thing that is really hard to put in secular terms but all young people should know that it exists. It is like trying to explain to people what it is like when the Holy Spirit embraces you.