Your lack of personal integrity is disgusting.
Your efforts to slander the rest of mankind with your own failings is even more disgusting.
The only group who thinks like you are the Muslims, who regard women as property and dress them like sacks.
So either join Islam, or get psychiatric help before you hurt someone. Because either way, you're sick.
No "group" thinks, individuals alone do. Think for yourself, but please do so from SOME foundation of research and scholarship. The Chinese have a developed tradition that is wiser than your short-tempered remarks, regarding the relationships between men and woman. Have you studied them at all?
In the midst of a shared cultural delusion -- a cultural madness -- a sane man may appear insane to those who are the afflicted. We have such a shared cultural delusion it is clear about matters of sexual modesty, about the rules for propriety of relationships between coaches or group leaders and youth. And we have a cultural breakdown, a true harsh madness, about matters of human sexuality.
Such a madness does not afflict a whole society from just one side, it is two sided. We have the "teachers" who foist perverse sexual ideals upon the young, such as homosexuality. But we also have those who would be good, but whose ideal of goodness is so unrealistic and delusional that it is unable to counter the fierceness of cultural attack by the profane and perverse.
Our American Founding generations came here and succeeded here not because they had horribly unrealistic views of what men were, but because they had very realistic views of human nature.
They would be astounded at how easily we place our dear children in harm's way so casually. That is, we so easily place our children at moral hazard, hazards such as this easy to see exploitation of youth by "high-performance" sports establishments and sports coaching near-priesthoods.