My approach will be to keep the gun concealed whenever possible. Don't draw it until you are ready to shoot. Re-holster when the need to shoot has passed.
I don't intend to obey any "lawful order" to touch my gun in the presence of armed officers. My hands will be high over my head and my fingers spread until the risk of being shot by the police has long passed.
No matter what is coming out of a LEO’s mouth, if his eye’s are seeing compliant subject, it should be enough. Hands up, no sudden moves, prone your self out if able.