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TEAR JERKER! Dead Daughter's Voicemails Erased by Phone Company
ABC News ^ | March 23, 2012 | By ASHLEY JENNINGS

Posted on 03/23/2012 12:06:48 PM PDT by US Navy Vet

For 51-year-old Faron Butler, the thing he cherished most after his daughter's death was being able to hear her voice.

"Every time I had a bad day or just wanted to listen to her I'd go through my old voicemails," Butler told ABCNews.com through tears. "I had one that I'd play over and over again. She'd be saying 'Daddy, I love you and I miss you.'"

He said he was shocked when a few weeks ago he went to hear that familiar voice, only to find out the voicemail had been erased

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To: Norm Lenhart

Hey I completely understand Norm and I’m sorry to hear about your loss. I was just stating my opinion that it might be a beneficial thing for him as far as accepting what happened.

Grief is a complicated thing so I understand if people disagree with my opinion. Folks like you make good points while others just hurl profanity because they FEEL instead of THINK.


21 posted on 03/23/2012 12:41:13 PM PDT by libdestroyer
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To: US Navy Vet

Oh, look! The family has photos, even video of the dear departed. It’s not like the family doesn’t have other ways to remember her.

But if you watch the story at the link, what is really at issue is the wireless phone company failed to tell the man that switching calling plans might cause the old voicemails to be deleted. The company has since apologized for not mentioning this and I’m sure if any backup recording of this still exists, they will find it.

Otherwise, this seems like a lot of drama over nothing. The daughter has passed on. The family certainly has other treasures of her they can continue to remember her with (note to dad - make backup copies!).

But Daddy really needs to buck up and move on, not hire lawyers and try to find a jackpot. If the recordings meant so much to him, there are quick and dirty ways to make a recording even if the phone company wouldn’t offer them.


22 posted on 03/23/2012 12:41:54 PM PDT by OrangeHoof (Obama: The Dr. Kevorkian of the American economy.)
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To: Shark24

I don’t understand this. I have a cell phone and Verizon is my provider. I have a voice mail from an old buddy of mine who sadly passed away back in September. I hit the ‘’play’’ button anytime I want to listen to it and hit the ‘’save’’ button and it’ll be there forever.


23 posted on 03/23/2012 12:46:20 PM PDT by jmacusa (Political correctness is cultural Marxism. I'm not a Marxist.)
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To: US Navy Vet

I feel sorry for the boob, but this is ridiculous. You buy a cassette tape recorder and record them.

Learned helplessness. Then when you do something stupid or fail to do something smart you sue.


24 posted on 03/23/2012 12:46:29 PM PDT by Cheburashka (It's legal to be out at night in spacesuits, even carrying a rag dolly. Cops hauled us in anyway.)
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To: US Navy Vet
OK I'm sorry but suing? A trip to radio shack, ten bucks for patch cords and the use of a free application provided on any PC running windows and he could recorded the voicemail to wav file then converted to MP3 and backed it up and then put it on his phone forever.

There are Waaaay to many lawyers in this country sitting around thinking up shit to sue over.

25 posted on 03/23/2012 12:48:29 PM PDT by Mad Dawgg (If you're going to deny my 1st Amendment rights then I must proceed to the 2nd one...)
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To: US Navy Vet

Very sad for this to occur... It’s unfortunate he didn’t know to coordinate with the phone company to hold the voice mails until he could somehow get them duplicated.

I don’t know what he believes a lawsuit will accomplish, whatever, since the company said the v-mails weren’t retrievable.

My heart goes out to him and his family.


26 posted on 03/23/2012 12:49:58 PM PDT by ScottinVA (A single drop of American blood for muslims is one drop too many!)
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To: ScottinVA

whatever=however


27 posted on 03/23/2012 12:50:45 PM PDT by ScottinVA (A single drop of American blood for muslims is one drop too many!)
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To: Cheburashka
I feel sorry for the boob...

A little rough there, don't you think?? People aren't always going to do fully rational things when they're going through the loss of a child.

28 posted on 03/23/2012 12:54:17 PM PDT by ScottinVA (A single drop of American blood for muslims is one drop too many!)
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To: US Navy Vet
A sad lesson for those who put too much trust in "cloud" computing. If data isn't on your system you have no real control over it.
29 posted on 03/23/2012 12:54:24 PM PDT by KarlInOhio (You only have three billion heartbeats in a lifetime.How many does the government claim as its own?)
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To: ScottinVA
I don’t know what he believes a lawsuit will accomplish, whatever, since the company said the v-mails weren’t retrievable.

There's "really gone forever" and then there's "We would have to dig through backups for a couple of hours so it's cheaper for us to just apologize and shrug". Getting the lawyers involved suddenly makes digging through backups the cheaper alternative.

30 posted on 03/23/2012 12:58:46 PM PDT by KarlInOhio (You only have three billion heartbeats in a lifetime.How many does the government claim as its own?)
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To: jmacusa
Re: I hit the ’play’ button anytime I want to listen to it and hit the ’save’ button and it’ll be there forever.

Or maybe not. If you really want to keep it make your own copy.

31 posted on 03/23/2012 1:03:16 PM PDT by ken in texas
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To: Shark24
Sad yes but? I copied the voice mails I wanted to save off line.

Ditto. It's the only reason I bought this:

Plug it in between your (land-line) phone and the mic-in jack on a computer, a cassette recorder, or anything else with a mic-in jack, and save your precious phone messages before they disappear.

32 posted on 03/23/2012 1:05:00 PM PDT by newgeezer (It is [the people's] right and duty to be at all times armed. --Thomas Jefferson)
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To: SnakeDoctor
Years ago there was a situation within my family and I put a tap on my phone....easy to do to record phone calls and Radio Shack can set you up for under 50 dollars...(at that time, about 15 years ago it cost a little over 20 dollars to tap your own phone and its recorded. I also have a voice activated tape recorder the size of a cell phone. You could tape right off your phone with a voice activated recorder...

Some states both parties have to have knowledge that the phone is tapped. Some states only the person tapping their phone needs to know.

I had a friend that tapped his phone cause he was going through a divorce and thought the wife was also having an affair...She called the phone company to find out if her phone was tapped and they checked and said NO....but it was..

33 posted on 03/23/2012 1:06:12 PM PDT by goat granny
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To: US Navy Vet

If he didn’t try to keep them himself, they must not have been that important.


34 posted on 03/23/2012 1:06:33 PM PDT by AppyPappy (If you really want to annoy someone, point out something obvious that they are trying hard to ignore)
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To: US Navy Vet

A bit off-topic, but most phone companies have on-line access from which you can copy voicemails. I once received a misdirected threatening call, downloaded it as a .wav file and emailed it to the police. I was able to better hear what he was going to do to me (or in reality the person for whom it was intended) on my PC than on the phone, also.

A year ago I was cleaning up old emails on the phone. My wife likes to stack them up. I was deleting anything over 90 days without listening. Found out one was from my daughter calling from college that was special for my wife. After I was yelled at I hopped on line and found that I could restore it from the delete bucket. I assume that gets emptied often so it’s not fail safe.


35 posted on 03/23/2012 1:14:21 PM PDT by DonnDe
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To: US Navy Vet
When my kids were little they'd call and leave funny voice mail messages (their mom and I are divorced). I saved them for years and got scared that they'd get erased so I bought a micro-cassette recorder from Radio Shack. It had a suction cup deal you attach to the phone.

I saved them all to tapes and recently digitized them and saved them to CD.

36 posted on 03/23/2012 1:18:14 PM PDT by FReepaholic (Stupidity is not a crime, so you're free to go.)
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To: DannyTN
You think it would cost “$20 or $50” to go digging through backups of potentially hundreds of thousands of calls if backups exist at all?

More likely tens of thousands of dollars if it is even possible.

'Butler said. "Just complete negligence on their part."'

The negligence was on his part. He and is lawyer should be tossed out of court on their heads and billed for the courts time.

37 posted on 03/23/2012 1:38:35 PM PDT by DB
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To: coffeecup

My wife’s voice is on the company voicemail. She pasted away a year ago the 31st of this month.

I call it once in awhile. I also have lots of videos from all of our vacations.


38 posted on 03/23/2012 1:41:12 PM PDT by 23 Everest (When seconds count. The police are just 23 minutes away. 831 Bonnie)
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To: ScottinVA

So that gives him license to sue people because of his stupidity/negligence?

I’ve had enough of this crap of people suing others endlessly because they’re too stupid to responsibly take care of their own affairs.


39 posted on 03/23/2012 1:43:14 PM PDT by DB
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To: ScottinVA

Perhaps, but how many times did he listen to it? 5 times? 10 times? How often do you listen to it before you think, “Hey I ought to make a long term copy of this.” These things are not supposed to be his version of permanent storage. They’re supposed to be listen to the message once, then erase.

I hope his lawyer gets pounded hard for a frivolous lawsuit.


40 posted on 03/23/2012 2:42:54 PM PDT by Cheburashka (It's legal to be out at night in spacesuits, even carrying a rag dolly. Cops hauled us in anyway.)
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