Wait a minute: I wasn’t talking about Black-on-White violence; I was talking about interracial dating.
As a rule of thumb, in situations of interracial dating, sympathies should go to the black man dating a white woman, because odds are she is deeply nuts. While there are exceptions, typically she will make his life a living hell.
This rule is not so hard and fast with black women dating a white man. That gets a lot more complicated.