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OP-ED: The single-mom catastrophe
Los Angeles Times ^ | June 3, 2012 | By Kay S. Hymowitz

Posted on 06/03/2012 6:46:35 AM PDT by Oldeconomybuyer

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To: Oldeconomybuyer

I feel rabid irrational feminism is the root cause for the socio-cultural break down of morals, ethics, tradition, family....on and on and on.

The role of ‘mother’ has been so diminished and morphed into ‘I am Woman hear me roar for MY needs...to hell with sacrifice for family and children.


41 posted on 06/03/2012 8:44:59 AM PDT by Dudoight
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To: Oldeconomybuyer

Single moms, drugs and crime, go together like a check on the first, a dime bag of crack, a forty, and a stolen flat screen.


42 posted on 06/03/2012 8:45:55 AM PDT by takenoprisoner (Constitutional Conservatism is Americanism.)
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To: Iron Munro

The author of this piece says nothing about the latter but is cheer leading the former. Again this is a retread of that “compassionate conservatism” bs (hence no mention about your policy subscriptions) which I had thought was flushed down the toilet along with Bush.


43 posted on 06/03/2012 8:51:32 AM PDT by KantianBurke (Where was the Tea Party when Dubya was spending like a drunken sailor?)
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To: Tax-chick

I hear you loud and clear. Condoms are available. That alone would also cut down on abortion as well.


44 posted on 06/03/2012 8:51:58 AM PDT by Ciganina
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To: Leep
The single-mother revolution shouldn’t need much introduction. It started in the 1960s when the nation began to sever the historical connection between marriage and childbearing and to turn single motherhood and the fatherless family into a viable, even welcome, arrangement for children and for society. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Translation: Social enginering once again, via OPM, broke up the family (particularly the black family) and turned otherwise healthy and productive people into dependent sadsacks. Probably created hirer crime rates because people have a justification. Its other rich people’s fault I am poor..etc

Plus, poor people, who suckled at the taxpayers' teat, were allowed to stay poor until they decided to get off their fannies and earn a better living.

45 posted on 06/03/2012 9:03:30 AM PDT by trebb ("If a man will not work, he should not eat" From 2 Thes 3)
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To: Carry_Okie

Thanks for the ping.

Reisman is a valiant truth finder and teller.

(I’m off ping listing for a while, got too dark for me. Evern now and then over the years I’ve been doing them, I take a break.)


46 posted on 06/03/2012 9:14:37 AM PDT by little jeremiah
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To: Iron Munro

There should not be one fed dime given to unwed mothers, medical care, subsidized housing, energy assistance, food stamps, etcetcetc.

If every woman knew that if she got pregnant and was not married, she’d be 100% On HER OWN other than family/church/other private charity help, she’d think twice before slutting around.


47 posted on 06/03/2012 9:17:56 AM PDT by little jeremiah
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To: SCalGal

50 years too late.


48 posted on 06/03/2012 9:34:53 AM PDT by Catmom
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To: Finny

Except divorce is not the primary cause of single motherhood, it is the non marital birthrates exceeding 70% among blacks and hispanics.

Divorce is not the problem, it’s never being married in the first place.


49 posted on 06/03/2012 10:20:27 AM PDT by Valpal1
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To: Gritty
Well I can't stay silent on this one. I remember when LBJ had the famous speech “I'm going to take from the Haves and give to the Have NOTs”.

I have the perfect solution to the “sadsack single mother issue”. For every child born out of wedlock, there is a daddy somewhere. Put a law into effect that states the new mother MUST determine WHO is the daddy by means of blood tests, paternity testing or just telling us. THEN HE and the new Mother pay for the upbringing of the child NOT me, NOT you. I only know of one immaculate conception and it wasn't these folks!

Also, offer them aid for say 3 months or so, but after that it's the daddy's and momma’s responsibility to raise the child and provide. NOT us. Especially NOT long term. AND if there is a second child out of wedlock..... NO MORE MONEY. End of problem.

Am I wrong here? I say no I am totally correct. I paid for my own children - so can they.

50 posted on 06/03/2012 11:03:33 AM PDT by WaterWeWaitinFor (If we don't help make a change, then who will? It starts with us.)
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To: Ciganina

A lot of people just want to make stupid choices, instead of smart ones. Some, perhaps, simply don’t have any experience in thinking about consequences, rather like people who were never taught about healthy diets.


51 posted on 06/03/2012 11:46:39 AM PDT by Tax-chick (Make sure you notice when I'm being subtly ironic!)
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To: WaterWeWaitinFor
Am I wrong here?

Nope. You are absolutely correct. I think you have a fine solution there.

The only problem is, many of them are going to spend whatever money they can borrow, hustle, or steal (forget "work" for) on crack, booze, and wide screen TVs instead of their kids and then the hue and cry will be for the government to step in again - for the sake of the children, of course.

Frankly, I think if they refuse to support their kids, we should bring back the whipping post, stocks, and dunking stool. Perhaps a bit of real pain and social opprobrium would do some good? At least if it didn't, we could get some entertainment out of our tax monies!

52 posted on 06/03/2012 1:51:59 PM PDT by Gritty (The question is: what other than Hitler are we prepared to make a moral judgment over?-Mark Steyn)
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To: Oldeconomybuyer

Babymamadrama ping.

It’s also about four generations worth, and no sign of abating.

How can you extol the virtues and benefits of being married when your mother and grandmother were single mothers?

It’s little wonder this nation is in the trouble it is in. No disrespect to women, but my father was the one who gave me my work ethic. He was around in my life daily to do it.


53 posted on 06/03/2012 3:17:14 PM PDT by Molon Labbie (Prep. Now. Live Healthy, take your Shooting Iron daily.)
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