In the context of Korea, you are harshly judging those women who may have been set adrift by their parents in the first place, been subjected to date rape, or to false promises and seduction by irresponsible men. It may surprise you to know that, even before birth control was introduced in this country, fully one-third of brides were pregnant, back in the day when we had a majority Christian country.
Both the Korean culture and your harsh attitude casts all blame on the women. That's fundamentally unfair. They can't just make a man marry them, be a good father or a cooperative mate. Speaking as one who lived through an abusive marriage and had the freedom in the U.S.of A. to get a good job and offload the abuser. Which, in turn, made me a born-again conservative!
“Both the Korean culture and your harsh attitude casts all blame on the women. That’s fundamentally unfair.”
Unfair or not, it is women who get pregnant. So, they have to be personally responsible and not be sluts, due to the consequences.
That being said, those men who get girls pregnant and do not assume responsibilities need to be chastised themselves and locked up. Their irresponsible action causes the society to pay for the bastards.
The solution I see to this problem in any cultural context is:
1. Chastise both females and males to the point that their lives become living hell. They should be made an example out of.
2. Do not pay for any kind of welfare benefits to the slut mothers, so they think before spreading their legs again. (slut-mothers usually give birth annually)
3. Eliminate abortion so that the slut-mothers can’t kill their children.
4. With no abortion option and no welfare benefits, the slut-mothers will have to give up the children up for adoption. The children will have happy homes and the sluts will either have to improve themselves, or go through the process again.