Fortunately for my children their mom was able to be at home with them when infants.
There are no doubt many in the groups you list with many of the problems you cite. As to the mothers poisoning their babies I am not very forgiving. Take the children from them.
arrogantsob, meet Drango. Drango, meet arrogantsob.
When public service campaigns just don't satisfy our itch to control others, we must band together to make them BEHAVE!