Brian Brown and Maggie Gallagher are on record supporting the adoption of children by homosexuals and the repeal of DADT. They also seem to be somewhat ambivalent on granting “civil unions” to homosexuals. I’d hardly call that Thomistic.
Don’t get me wrong, I support NOM with my dollars because they are the powerhouse opposition to the attack on real marriage in all the states actively in play. But unless they move on to completely and unapologetically repudiating homosexuality and all its permutations, they are ultimately fighting a losing battle.
I actually was not aware of the adoption thing at all. Yes, I see your point, and would agree wholly.