The contraception and abortion movement, and the attendant “sexual revolution,” can be viewed as an attempt to turn women into men. If men want a sexual partner who is always eager for sex, doesn’t want an emotional attachment, doesn’t ever have any physical complications, and never conceives a child or gives birth ... well, what they really want is another man, but they don’t want to admit that, or even find it aesthetically distasteful. Hence, the drive to “neuter” women by making them un-female, uncaring, life-destroying.
That’s why whey people say the number of gay men in the country is overestimated I have to disagree. There are many men who are ‘gay’ in exactly the sense you described.
You nailed it!