RE: P.S. I never got why people go out of the country to adopt.
Adoption in the good old US of A is getting to be very complicated ( what with lawsuits a plenty ). Ever heard of the case where a child was adopted at her birth, grew up with the adoptive family ( whom she knew as her mother and father ) until the REAL biological mother changed her mind and wanted her child back after 2 years?
Guess what happened? The courts RETURNED the child to the biological mother with the baby CRYING for her adoptive mother !!
Who wants to go through that experience once again?
Now you understand why Americans go OUT of this country to adopt.
Our laws AND JUDGES stink in many regards.