Skip to comments.‘I stared and stared at my son’: mom screamed for abortion workers to call 911 after baby born alive
Posted on 05/07/2013 2:26:02 PM PDT by NYer
May 7, 2013 (LiveActionNews.org) - In previous articles, Live Action has covered cases where babies born alive after abortions were denied medical care and allowed to die, or, in some cases, were killed by direct action. The recent trial of Kermit Gosnell shows that these incidents continue to occur. The sheer number of cases we know about leads one to wonder how often babies are born alive, but no one outside the abortion clinic ever knows.
In April of 2005, a pregnant woman named “Angele,” decided to abort her 22 week old unborn baby. She was in her 30s, divorced, and already had two children. She did not want a third child. She chose Orlando Women’s Center, also called EPOC Clinic operated by Dr. James Pendergraft. The abortion clinic’s website advertises “3 minute pain-free abortions.” The Orlando Women’s Center has published newspaper ads offering abortions up to 28 weeks.
Angele had named her baby Rowan. She chose a method of abortion that she hoped would cause the child a minimum of suffering - an injection of digoxin in the heart to kill him, rather than dismemberment by D&E.
The abortionist first had to insert laminaria, small sticks that expand inside the woman and dilate the cervix, making the abortion procedure easier. Before the insertion of laminaria, Angele was given a sedative. In her own words:
“The injection burned a lot as it went in. … The discomfort was distracting. I still felt the ‘lams’ as they were being inserted. Dr. Perper told me to relax my muscles and noted that my cervix was slightly soft. I asked him what that meant and he said it was good.”
Angele says the clinic workers discussed injecting the digoxin, but they never did. She described the doctor Harry Perper, MD, as “a very fast moving, hyperactive type of person.”
When Angele went back to the hotel, she continued to feel her baby kick. This confused her because she had been led to believe that the baby would be dead. At one point, in the middle of the night, while the baby was still kicking, she considered calling the clinic’s after-hours line, but decided not to.
The next morning, Angele took the pills meant to cause her body to expel her baby. She arrived at the clinic around 9 am. She was ushered into a room and told that her doctor would not be in the clinic until 2pm, and that if she delivered before then, without him present, she would have to stay and be examined by him. Angele was given a blanket and a heating pad, and left alone to go through labor.
The contractions began. At one point, the pain became intense and she asked clinic worker “Violene” if she could be given anything to ease the pain. She also told Violene that she thought she was about to deliver. Violene told her she was not ready, and left her again. In Angele’s own words:
“I came back to the sofa, (they both really smelled awful), wrapped up in the wet and sour-smelling blanket, then decided it was better without it. I rocked back and forth on my hands and knees, trying to hold the heating pad to my stomach to both relieve the pain and try to stay warm. I was looking down and saw little smears and spots of dried blood on the floor and an old cotton ball with blood on it by the fabric-covered sofa across from me. Noticing how dirty it was and how no one was in the room or even nearby in the hallway began to make me nervous and uncomfortable. I went right back to the powder room and began to try to push a lot. I thought it might help since I was told I was not nearly ready to deliver.”
“In one agonizing push, I felt and heard something come out. Then immediately another push. I was weak. I just held my head in my hands for a moment. Then I decided to stand up. I looked. There was my baby, the whitish cord and what I thought surely must be the placenta. “I started sobbing and lay down in the floor. I stared and stared at my son. I was horrified that I had just had him in a commode.” “His right leg moved. He curled up a bit like he was cold; I screamed for Violene! No one came. I managed to get to the doorway, pants down, blood everywhere and yelled again. I went back to my baby. I heard her say she’d be right there.
“I showed her Rowan, told her he was alive and moving and to call 911! She took a quick look, said he’s not moving now and she’d be back to take care of things while walking out. I called her again. I was touching Rowan softly and he moved again. I called her back. Rowan jumped, I think startled by the loud sound of my calling for help. I showed her that he was moving and alive. I begged her to hurry and call 911, now!”
The clinic worker took one look at the moving baby and told Angele that she would get her supervisor. But the minutes ticked by, and no one came. It became clear to Angele that Violene was not going to summon help. She grabbed her phone and quickly dialed her friend, pleading with her to call 911 and send paramedics to save her baby. Listen to the call here.
Angele continued to be left alone with her son, who she said reacted to her voice. All she could do was try and comfort him:
“I stayed beside Rowan talking to him, telling him how strong he was being and how proud I was of him. I told him God must really want us to be together for him to make it through everything he had just been through and that Mommy was so sorry but so happy to have a chance to love him. I told him he was a strong little miracle and that I couldn’t wait for him to meet his brother and sister. I just kept touching him, trying to warm him with my hands and talking to him so he would not feel any more afraid than he already must.”
Finally, the baby stopped moving as Angele waited for help.
She cradled the dead baby and began to pray, filled with remorse for choosing to undergo the abortion. A staff member came and demanded that she give her the baby. Angele refused, and continued to hold on to Rowan. The clinic workers left her alone briefly but returned to pressure her to give up the body of the child.
Meanwhile, the police (not the paramedics) showed up at the clinic. It was later found out that the paramedics had come, but a clinic worker, thought to be Violene, told them that a patient had merely “passed some tissue” and that “the physician had the situation under control.”(1) She convinced them not to enter the clinic. (The physician was not in the clinic at all when Violene told them this)
When Violene came back after talking to the police, Angele said:
“I spoke to her telling her how little I appreciated them telling the police my child was not alive. I stared hard at her and said, ‘Violene you saw him moving. That is when you were supposedly going to get your manager and “take care of it.” You stayed away until Rowan died. I don’t care what you say, you and I both know he was very much alive. We know the truth.’ She said nothing and turned away.
Although the doctor had never arrived and Angele had been told she had to be examined by him, the clinic workers seemed to want nothing more than to get her (and her friend, who had arrived) out of the clinic. They gave her a bag with medicine in it and ushered them both out the door.
Angele wanted an autopsy to be performed to prove Rowan was born alive. The local coroner refused to do it. Eventually, an autopsy was performed by Chief Medical Examiner Dr. Jan C. Garavaglia. The medical examiner was unable to determine whether Rowan had been born alive, because she did not find air in his lungs. However, she also found that, as Angele had said, the baby had most likely never been injected with Dixogin (there were no needle marks anywhere on the baby’s body, which would have been left had the injection occurred.) Dr. Garavaglia stated that it was “probable” that Rowan’s heart had been beating and that, therefore, he had been born alive. Without air in the lungs, however, it could not be officially proven. You can see Rowan’s autopsy report here.
No action was ever taken against the clinic for Rowan’s death.
Angele later wrote a letter to Operation Rescue’s Troy Newman in which she said in part:
“Thank you very much for your kindness. It is amazing the out pour of kind words and support I am receiving after Rowan’s death.
I wish that I had such a network and support before, I would still be pregnant. …I hope that women will see my humiliation and remorse and seek forgiveness if they are post abortive.
I want to do everything in my power to see that this does not happen to other babies or mothers.
I want women in crisis pregnancies to see that whether they are of 6 weeks or 28 weeks gestation, that abortion will haunt them for the rest of their lives. I would like for them to know that no matter how little you want the pregnancy itself, you will want, love and cherish your child. Those 9 months of crisis are the toughest. If you make it through that, the rewards come 1000 fold!…. It is very shameful to step forward and admit publicly that I have been so wrong as to “choose” to take the life of my child. On the other hand if it will accomplish any or all of the above, then it is my duty, isn’t it? That is so long as I protect the children I have here first and foremost. I know God wants me to put them first, just as I should have with Rowan.”
1. Lynn Vincent“Death By Drowning” World 6/18/05
Note: This is part 6 of a series about how babies are born alive during abortion procedures:
Part I: ‘This baby is alive!’: the heartbreaking story of Baby Hope
Part II: ‘That’s not a baby. That’s an abortion!’: clinic workers describe babies born alive
Part III: ‘This is so hard. Oh, God, it’s so hard!’: nurses tell of aborted babies born alive
Part IV: ‘Hey, he’s trying to live, help him!’: Pro-choice pastor saw ‘aborted’ baby born alive
Part V: Baby born alive was tossed into a bag and thrown on the roof of the abortion clinic
These stories need to be told. They are very hard to read though.
It’s kind of hard for me to have pity on a woman who went to an abortionist to kill her baby. Wonderful that she had a kind of epiphany, but who doesn’t think she’d do it again?
Too bad she didn’t have a cell phone.
I know she wouldn’t do it again after her description of what happened in this one and what she went through.
Knowing what she didn’t know before makes the difference.
But if the clock were turned back to that day and she had never gone through what she did, of course she would do it. She did it in the first place, but did not expect what she got.
Understatement of the day. It was agonizing to read this story .. a roller coaster of emotions ... but what emerges from the story is the confusion from poor education, so many women have with regard to abortion. They begin the process anticipating it will be innocuous and invisible, thus sparing them any emotional involvement. When the procedure becomes "interactive", they are then confronted with the reality of their decision. At that point, there is no longer anyone else to hold responsible but themselves. The natural instinct of the woman to reach out to nurture her child, takes hold.
Each day, I offer up prayers for these women who are "victims of abortion". Once again, as you pointed out on the other thread, society's legal system endorses her initial decision. Afterwards, though, it is the pro-life community that comes to her rescue.
I guess you’re joking. If you were being real, you’re not allowed to take cell phones into a medical procedure type situation, even if you own one.
she wanted the baby dead. What did she expect?
She walked into that clinic with a viable, kicking infant in her body. She and she alone is responsible for the baby’s death. The abortionst’s motive is money, the politicians motive is power and votes, the mother’s motive is murder.
Obama and his friends call this a “women's health issue". In reality it is the murder of millions of innocent children.
Sorry, no pity for this wickedness.
She didn’t expect he would be born alive, that she would begin to bond with him as he moved and that she would talk to him and reach out to touch him, and apologize to him and scream for help because he was alive only nobody ever came to help.
She became an anti-abortion activist after this.
Can’t anyone read?
Exactly correct, but the re-paganization of Western Culture is going to legalize infanticide instead of halting abortion. It will continue from there to pederasty and then to slavery, as we see in Islam.
I think the dam is about to break!
“I stared and stared at my son: mom screamed for abortion workers to call 911 after baby born alive”
This has to be the dumbest woman every born. What did she think she was aborting; a cashew?
Nobody said she wasn’t responsible.
But go ahead and knock down that straw man.
What’s a wasted post, anyway?
There is proof that she changed her mind after the baby was born alive and she was left alone with him.
There is proof that after she went through this emotional experience she became an anti-abortion activist.
That she demanded a coroner’s examination to try to show that the baby was born alive before he was neglected to death.
But in all of this, nobody that I’ve seen ever said she didn’t make the original decision to have him aborted.
NOT even SHE claims THAT.
She admits what she did.
This isn’t about pity.
It’s about what actually happened.
I said nothing about pity.
I’m on the TRUTH trail.
Just start distorting, dude, and you’ll hear from me.
You’re still distorting. Nobody said a word about pity.
She knows it was too late.
What a waste, the posts of all you people knocking down stuff nobody ever said.
Se said she grabbed her phone and called her friend and asked her to call 911? Why didn’t she just dial 911 herself?
She was told he would die and not feel anything. Instead he was born alive and she was left alone with him to see and hear every move and sound until he died. She already had two children, so obviously she knew a baby from a cashew.
I just wish people would read. All of these worthless posts, knocking down straw men, trying to make points against some point that nobody ever made, is just distressing.
Reading, absorbing, thinking before posting would stop such wasted efforts and needless, barbed attacks on other posters.
The headline after reading it seems kinda humourous in a dark comedy sorta way....
I have this Monty Python-esque image of a women (monty python actor in drag) giving birth and then starting a staring contest with the newborn baby for a minute or two before screaming “Help, Help, the tissue is looking back at me” in a schrill fake female british voice.....
Yeah it is sad, and I have no pity for someone like this.
Again, you did not read. She thought he would be dead, then expelled. Instead he was born alive. She had two children already, therefore knew she had a baby in her. Again, read.
Read, absorb, think, then post.
Or maybe, just get jollies trying make somebody else who’s posting look bad?
Reading, absorbing and thinking before posting would interfere with that, eh?
I think she was more upset about the dirty conditions and that she wasn’t being helped when she asked for it. Read her account. She is a self-centered pig.
I grew up on a Farm, she is a SOW, a SOW, A SOW will lay down on top of their own piglets killing them and not give a crap about doing so, paradoxically if you try to give a piglet a shot and it squeals she will attack you with the full force of a craze jihadi.
SHE IS A SOW....
It isn’t about pity.
There’s nobody here that I’ve seen who expressed any.
I’m all about the story, the facts and details of what went on.
She already had two children. She knew she was carrying a baby. She decided to abort, no question she was responsible.
She was told the baby would become dead, then be expelled.
What blew her away is the baby was born very much alive. She was left alone with the alive baby for a long time. Changed her mind about the baby and screamed for medical help that never came.
That is not a statement of pity. That is a statement of fact.
The other facts are that she wasn’t shocked it was a baby, but that it was born alive and was functioning and she was with it and asked for help for it and none came.
If people would only read.
“Too bad she didnt have a cell phone.”
She did have a cell phone......that’s how she called her friend who then called 911.
I do look down on those who kill babies
We live in a "sound bite" society. People no longer read through articles; they skim them for sound bites. You are absolutely right ... and I totally appreciate your frustration with those who post comments based on thread titles or the introductory paragraph.
I’m not going to go into details here, but I delivered a friend’s aborted baby when she was sent home from the hospital to wait for labor to begin. The ambulance was late in coming. I didn’t know she was going in for an abortion when she asked me to watch her other two kids that night. She called me up later that night screaming for help. This was when abortion was newly legal in this county. It was one of the most horrifying memories of my life.