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Bishop tells hostile crowd at gay marriage debate: my secretary was murdered by a gay activist
LifeSite News ^ | 6/5/2013 | John-Henry Westen

Posted on 06/06/2013 5:05:25 AM PDT by markomalley

In what is being acknowledged even by liberal Catholics as a courageous move, Springfield, IL Bishop Thomas Paprocki debated dissident nun Sr. Jeannine Gramick on the topic of gay “marriage” before a decidedly gay-friendly crowd on Friday. In a shocking revelation in his opening remarks, the bishop told the crowd that his former secretary was brutally murdered by a gay activist simply for suggesting that he change his lifestyle.

Heckling and insults from the crowd and were expected and received as the bishop lay out the argument in favor of traditional marriage, after which he concluded, “some of you may be sneering, and I might be lucky if you said you were willing to hear me again on this topic some other time… In the end, I hope that at least a few of you will agree with my remarks.”

Moderated by journalist Robert Blair Kaiser, the event was held at Shadow Rock United Church of Christ Church.

The Jesuit alumni of Arizona, which organized the event, called it “Two Catholic Views on Marriage,” but in his remarks Bishop Paprocki was quick to point out that was a misnomer. “I corrected that, since there is only one authentic Catholic view,” said the bishop. “There are two views being presented here tonight by two people who are baptized Catholics, but only one of those views, the one I will present, is consistent with Catholic teaching, while the other view clearly dissents from Catholic teaching.” 

Bishop Paprocki began his address to the crowd powerfully noting the media discrepancy in covering the Matthew Shepard murder and that of his own former secretary, a mother of four, who was killed by a homosexual man for urging him to change his gay lifestyle.

"A Google search on the Internet for the name 'Matthew Shepard' at one time produced 11,900,000 results," said the bishop. "Matthew Shepard was a 21-year-old college student who was savagely beaten to death in 1998 in Wyoming. His murder has been called a hate crime because Shepard was gay."

He continued: 

A similar search on the Internet for the name “Mary Stachowicz” yielded 26,800 results.  In 2002, Mary Stachowicz was also brutally murdered, but the circumstances were quite different. 

Mary, the gentle, devout 51-year-old Catholic mother of four urged her co-worker, Nicholas Gutierrez, 19, to change his gay lifestyle. Infuriated by this, as he later told police, he allegedly beat, stabbed and strangled her to death and then stuffed her mangled body in a crawl space in his apartment, located above a Chicago funeral home, where they both worked.

I know about Mary Stachowicz, not from the Internet, but personally, because Mary was my secretary at the parish where I was pastor before I was named a Bishop.

She worked part time at the funeral home and part time at the parish. One afternoon, she didn’t show up at her usual starting time. This was unusual because she was always on time. A call to the funeral home disclosed that her car was still in their parking lot and her purse with her car keys was still at her desk, but there was no sign of Mary. 

As Mary’s family and friends prayed and worried about her disappearance, Gutierrez prayed with them. Three days later, her mutilated body was discovered in a crawl space in his apartment. 

Both murders were senseless and brutal, and I condemn them both unequivocally. However, the fact that there are over eleven and a half million more Internet stories about Matthew Shepard than Mary Stachowicz indicates where popular sentiment lies today on the question of same-sex relationships. Shepard’s story has received such widespread attention because his homosexuality was the chief motive for his murder.

Mary’s murder was widely ignored by the media, despite the fact that she died as a martyr for her faith. 

Bishop Paprocki was unabashed in saying, “the Church’s teaching on homosexuality and marriage is Catholic because it is true, not true because it is Catholic. “

He said: “In other words, the conclusion that same-sex relationships should not be afforded legal status is because it is based on the truth, not just on Catholic teaching. Yet, saying that makes this conclusion all the more controversial. If it were based simply on Catholic teaching, opponents could say in our pluralistic context, ‘You Catholics are entitled to your opinion, but that is not binding on others.’ Instead, saying that truth is the reason that same-sex relationships should not be afforded legal status is offensive to those who deny the existence of truth, who prefer to live in a world dominated by what Pope Benedict XVI termed a ‘dictatorship of relativism.’”

Bishop Paprocki’s full address is available here.


TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; Extended News; Government
KEYWORDS: catholic; gramick; homosexualagenda; matthewshepard; paprocki; stachowicz
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I fundamentally disagree with the Bishop's assessment that Matthew Shepard was killed because he was homosexual. He was killed in a drug dealer gone bad.

Having said that, the bishop's essential point remains very valid: homosexual poster-boy killed = 11,000,000 hits. Christian killed by homosexual activist = 27,000 hits.

Shows exactly how far this culture has descended towards hell.

1 posted on 06/06/2013 5:05:25 AM PDT by markomalley
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To: markomalley
Heckling and insults from the crowd and were expected

Tells us a lot about the faggots and their enablers ...

2 posted on 06/06/2013 5:08:17 AM PDT by ArrogantBustard (Western Civilization is Aborting, Buggering, and Contracepting itself out of existence.)
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To: markomalley

When the Bishop said, “...Shepard’s story has received such widespread attention because his homosexuality was the chief motive for his murder” he’s wrong. Shepard was killed for money and nothing else.

Either way the Bishop is great in my book.


3 posted on 06/06/2013 5:18:56 AM PDT by vladimir998
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To: markomalley

I have NEVER heard about this good lady’s murder...not one word.


4 posted on 06/06/2013 5:24:04 AM PDT by Ann Archy (Abortion.....the HUMAN Sacrifice to the god of Convenience.)
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To: markomalley

The event was named incorrectly. There is only one Catholoc view of marriage.


5 posted on 06/06/2013 5:24:34 AM PDT by Lurker (Violence is rarely the answer. But when it is it is the only answer.)
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To: markomalley

Still, it was a wonderful thing for this Bishop to be so upfront. Gay activists are some of the craziest people on earth and he could have been attacked just for telling this sad story. Bravo.


6 posted on 06/06/2013 5:27:28 AM PDT by miss marmelstein ( Richard Lives Yet!)
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To: miss marmelstein

The bishop knows there are killers in the crowd.


7 posted on 06/06/2013 5:30:34 AM PDT by muawiyah (Git yer Red Arm Bands here - $29.95 - NOT SOLD IN STORES - TAX FREE)
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To: muawiyah

I just read his wonderful, insightful speech. I have to google this event.


8 posted on 06/06/2013 5:35:04 AM PDT by miss marmelstein ( Richard Lives Yet!)
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To: Lurker

The Bishop corrected the title during the course of his speech.


9 posted on 06/06/2013 5:35:53 AM PDT by miss marmelstein ( Richard Lives Yet!)
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To: miss marmelstein

Glad to hear it. Thank you.


10 posted on 06/06/2013 5:37:25 AM PDT by Lurker (Violence is rarely the answer. But when it is it is the only answer.)
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To: markomalley

It’s amazing how intolerant the LGBT “community” is concerning those who don’t yield to their agenda of “tolerance.”


11 posted on 06/06/2013 5:40:23 AM PDT by CASchack
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To: Lurker
If you google this event, you will not find one positive article on it. The Bishop was harassed with questions for the entire time. Gays kept bringing up polygamy as a divergence from monogamy. I'm glad they are finally acknowledging the connection between gay “marriage” and polygamy.
12 posted on 06/06/2013 5:42:58 AM PDT by miss marmelstein ( Richard Lives Yet!)
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To: narses; little jeremiah

ping


13 posted on 06/06/2013 6:06:26 AM PDT by markomalley (Nothing emboldens the wicked so greatly as the lack of courage on the part of the good -- Leo XIII)
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To: CASchack

“It’s amazing how intolerant the LGBT “community” is concerning those who don’t yield to their agenda of “tolerance.”

The Illinois Comprehensive Sex Education Act that is awaiting a veto or the signature by the governor is yet another example of homosexuals forcing their lifestyle on others. This is just the iceberg. Read the story of Lot in the book of Genesis.


14 posted on 06/06/2013 6:12:47 AM PDT by stars & stripes forever ((Blessed is the nation whose God is the Lord!))
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15 posted on 06/06/2013 6:33:29 AM PDT by narses
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To: markomalley

Notification Regarding Fr. Nugent and Sr. Gramick

NOTIFICATION OF THE CONGREGATION
FOR THE DOCTRINE OF THE FAITH

May 31, 1999

Concerning Sr. Jeannine Gramick, SSND, and Fr. Robert Nugent, SDS

Sister Jeannine Gramick, SSND, and Father Robert Nugent, SDS, have been engaged in pastoral activities directed toward homosexual persons for more than twenty years. In 1977, they founded the organisation New Ways Ministry within territory of the Archdiocese of Washington in order to promote "justice and reconciliation between lesbian and gay Catholics and the wider Catholic community". They are the authors of the book Building Bridges: Gay and Lesbian Reality and the Catholic Church (Mystic: Twenty-Third Publications, 1992) and editors of the volume Voices of Hope: A Collection of Positive Catholic Writings on Gay and Lesbian Issues (New York: Center for Homophobia Education, 1995).

From the beginning, in presenting the Church's teaching on homosexuality, Father Nugent and Sister Gramick have continually called central elements of that teaching into question. For this reason, in 1984, James Cardinal Hickey, the Archbishop of Washington, following the failure of a number of attempts at clarification, informed them that they could no longer undertake their activities in that Archdiocese. At the same time, the Congregation for Institutes of Consecrated Life and for Societies of Apostolic Life ordered them to separate themselves totally and completely from New Ways Ministry, adding that they were not to exercise any apostolate without faithfully presenting the Church's teaching regarding the intrinsic evil of homosexual acts.  Despite this action by the Holy See, Father Nugent and Sister Gramick continued their involvement in activities organised by New Ways Ministry, though removing themselves from leadership positions. They also continued to maintain and promote ambiguous positions on homosexuality and explicitly criticised documents of the Church's Magisterium on this issue. Because of their statements and activities, the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith and the Congregation for Institutes of Consecrated Life and for Societies of Apostolic Life received numerous complaints and urgent requests for clarification from Bishops and others in the United States of America. It was clear that the activities of Sister Gramick and Father Nugent were causing difficulties in not a few Dioceses and that they were continuing to present the teaching of the Church as one possible option among others and as open to fundamental change.

In 1988, the Holy See established a Commission under the Presidency of Adam Cardinal Maida to study and evaluate their public statements and activities and to determine whether these were faithful to Catholic teaching on homosexuality.

After the publication of Building Bridges, the investigation of the Commission focused primarily on this book, which summarised their activities and thinking. In 1994, the Commission issued its findings, which were communicated to the two authors. When their responses to these findings were received, the Commission formulated its final Recommendations and forwarded them to the Congregation for Institutes of Consecrated Life and for Societies of Apostolic Life. While not overlooking the presence of some positive aspects in the apostolate of Father Nugent and Sister Gramick, the Commission found serious deficiencies in their writings and pastoral activities, which were incompatible with the fullness of Christian morality. The Commission, therefore, recommended disciplinary measures, including the publication of some form of Notification, in order to counteract and repair the harmful confusion caused by the errors and ambiguities in their publications and activities.

As the problems presented by the two authors were primarily of a doctrinal nature, in 1995, the Congregation for Institutes of Consecrated Life and for Societies of Apostolic Life transferred the entire case to the competence of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith. At this point, with the hope that Father Nugent and Sister Gramick would be willing to express their assent to Catholic teaching on homosexuality and to correct the errors in their writings, the Congregation undertook another attempt at resolution by inviting them to respond unequivocally to certain questions regarding their position on the morality of homosexual acts and on the homosexual inclination.

Their responses, dated February 22, 1996, were not sufficiently clear to dispel the serious ambiguities of their position. In these, Sister Gramick and Father Nugent demonstrated a clear conceptual understanding of the Church's teaching on homosexuality, but refrained from professing any adherence to that teaching. Furthermore, the publication, in 1995, of their book Voices of Hope: A Collection of Positive Catholic Writings on Gay and Lesbian Issues had made it clear that there was no change in their opposition to fundamental elements of the Church's teaching.

Given the fact that certain of the statements of Father Nugent and Sister Gramick were clearly incompatible with the teaching of the Church and that the wide dissemination of these errors through their publications and pastoral activities was becoming an increasing source of concern for Bishops in the United States of America, the Congregation decided that the case should be resolved according to the procedure outlined in its Regulations for Doctrinal Examination (chapter 4).

In the Ordinary Session of October 8, 1997, the Cardinals and Bishops who make up the Congregation judged that the statements of Father Nugent and Sister Gramick, which had been identified through the above-mentioned procedure of the Regulations for Doctrinal Examination, were in fact erroneous and dangerous.

After the Holy Father had approved the formal contestatio of the authors, the above-mentioned erroneous statements were presented to them through their respective Superiors General. Each was asked to respond to the contestatio personally and independently from the other, to allow them the greatest freedom in expressing their individual positions.

In February 1998, the two Superiors General forwarded the responses to the Congregation. In the Ordinary Sessions of May 6 and May 20, 1998, the Members of the Congregation carefully evaluated the responses, after having received the opinions of members of the Episcopate of the United States and of experts in the field of moral theology. The Members of the Congregation were unanimous in their decision that the responses of the two, while containing certain positive elements, were unacceptable. In each case, Father Nugent and Sister Gramick had sought to justify the publication of their books and neither had expressed personal adherence to the Church's teaching on homosexuality in sufficiently unequivocal terms. Thus, it was decided that they should be asked to formulate a public declaration, which would be submitted to the judgement of the Congregation. In this declaration they were asked to express their interior assent to the teaching of the Catholic Church on homosexuality and to acknowledge that the two above-mentioned books contained errors.

The two declarations which arrived in August 1998 were examined by the Congregation in the Ordinary Session of October 21, 1998. Once again, they were not sufficient to resolve the problems associated with their writings and pastoral activities. Sister Gramick, while expressing her love for the Church, simply refused to express any assent whatsoever to the teaching of the Church on homosexuality. Father Nugent was more responsive, but not unequivocal in his statement of interior assent to the teaching of the Church. It was decided by the Members of the Congregation, therefore, that Father Nugent should be given yet another opportunity to express unequivocal assent. For this reason, the Congregation formulated a declaration of assent and, with its letter of December 15, 1998, forwarded it to Father Nugent, through his Superior General, for his acceptance.

His response, dated January 25, 1999, showed that this attempt had not met with success. Father Nugent would not sign the declaration he had received and responded by formulating an alternative text which modified the Congregation's declaration on certain important points. In particular, he would not state that homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered and he added a section which calls into question the definitive and unchangeable nature of Catholic doctrine in this area.

Given the failure of the repeated attempts of the Church's legitimate authorities to resolve the problems presented by the writings and pastoral activities of the two authors, the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith is obliged to declare for the good of the Catholic faithful that the positions advanced by Sister Jeannine Gramick and Father Robert Nugent regarding the intrinsic evil of homosexual acts and the objective disorder of the homosexual inclination are doctrinally unacceptable because they do not faithfully convey the clear and constant teaching of the Catholic Church in this area. Father Nugent and Sister Gramick have often stated that they seek, in keeping with the Church's teaching, to treat homosexual persons "with respect, compassion and sensitivity". However, the promotion of errors and ambiguities is not consistent with a Christian attitude of true respect and compassion: persons who are struggling with homosexuality no less than any others have the right to receive the authentic teaching of the Church from those who minister to them.

The ambiguities and errors of the approach of Father Nugent and Sister Gramick have caused confusion among the Catholic people and have harmed the community of the Church. For these reasons, Sister Jeannine Gramick, SSND, and Father Robert Nugent, SDS, are permanently prohibited from any pastoral work involving homosexual persons and are ineligible, for an undetermined period, for any office in their respective religious institutes.

The Sovereign Pontiff John Paul II, at the Audience of May 14, 1999, granted to the undersigned Secretary, approved the present Notification, adopted in the Ordinary Session of this Congregation, and ordered its publication.

Rome, from the Offices of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, May 31, 1999.

+ Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger, Prefect
+ Tarcisio Bertone, S.D.B., Archbishop emeritus of Vercelli, Secretary

Voices of Hope: A Collection of Positive Catholic Writings on Gay and Lesbian Issues (New York: Center for Homophobia Education, 1995) ix.

Cf. Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, Agendi ratio in Doctrinarum examine, art. 23-27: AAS 89 (1997), 834

Cf. Gn 19 1-11; Lv 18:22; 20:13; 1 Cor 6:9; Rom 1:18-32; 1 Tim 1:10; Catechism of the Catholic Church 2357-2359, 2396; Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, Declaration Persona humana 8: AAS 68 (1976), 84-85; Letter Homosexualitatis problema: AAS 79 (1987), 543-554.

Catechism of the Catholic Church, 2358.



16 posted on 06/06/2013 6:48:19 AM PDT by A.A. Cunningham (Barry Soetoro can't pass E-verify)
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To: muawiyah

Here is another not far from here.

Jesse Dirkhising

http://www.wnd.com/2002/09/15294/

I read the police report. This report link is accurate.

When the police arrived, the boy still had the cucumber in his rectum.


17 posted on 06/06/2013 7:07:13 AM PDT by Ruy Dias de Bivar (Sometimes you need 7+ more ammo. LOTS MORE.)
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To: markomalley
Here is another under reported murder of a young boy by two nambla homosexuals, only 1,540,000 hits.

Jeffrey Curley

Had a MASSPIRG homosexual knocking on my door a few years ago whining about helping homos, for example the plight of Matthew Sheppard. Told him screw and go read up on Jeffrey Curley.

18 posted on 06/06/2013 8:25:41 AM PDT by LoneRangerMassachusetts (The meek shall not inherit the Earth)
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To: markomalley

I believe the numbers would have been reversed if the media was not brainwashing the culture away from God and into satans realm.


19 posted on 06/06/2013 8:35:00 AM PDT by winodog
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To: markomalley

Although Matthew Shepherd was not murdered because he was homosexual, he did become a famous martyr of the left because he is homosexual. While the Catholic victim of homosexual hatred was ignored.

The Bishop deserves our thanks for his good work, appearing at this difficult gay forum to speak the truth. It is the job of bishops and pastors to reach out to homosexuals and speak the truth to them, in the hopes that at some future time, if not immediately, it may result in a conversion.

This bishop is truly doing his job. Not many are willing to risk their lives (and he has had some first-hand experience about that) for the sake of the Truth and the Faith.

As for Sister Jeannine Gramick, she should be Ex-Sister Jeannine, since she is, to speak frankly, a sinful and unrepentant heretic spreading lies wherever she can.


20 posted on 06/06/2013 8:39:13 AM PDT by Cicero (Marcus Tullius)
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