Part of every physical is to do an appropriate bit of observation.... not for signs of abuse but for signs that the child is growing in a healthy manner. I can remember being examined (visually) by my pediatrician and that was a hell of a long time ago. My mother was always in the same room. This was true for my child as well. Unless your doc specifically said he was looking for signs of abuse I would not be so quick to make that conclusion. If he did say that I would find a new doc
I do think the health and human services tyrants are requiring more than what is necessary.
Wow...I never experienced that. This is news to me that pediatricians are doing this to children. Not sure I’d find that necessary for my child.