Not just 'no', but 'HELL NO!' Don't let them do it to you. They are blaming their actions on you, and then asking you to make it OK for them. Screw 'em. Tell them you are living by their rules, and if they have a problem with it, then they need to do away with the rules that caused the problem to begin with.
The insurance companies, like everybody else in this country, are both confused and scared. They probably thought they were going to make an easy bundle by “administering” Obamacare, but I think that this is way beyond anything they imagined and now they are probably seriously worried about having their business nationalized out from under them.