I didn’t say I agree with adultery, I was playing the devil’s advocate, then mentioned why the bible says what it says. It’s a tall order to love your wife as Christ himself loves the church, but that’s what the men are commanded to do.
At the end of the day if we all followed God’s word, our world would be a much better place.
I am sorry I misunderstood where you were coming from. I don’t think we disagree at all. I also agree that it is a tall order for the men, they are to be the servant, the priest, the leader of the family. It is a lot, and so many young men are not being taught that it needs to be done or how to do it, just as young women are not being taught how to be good wives. Moving away from scripture as a basis for life has really messed us up.