I’m a white guy. I don’t care who tries to attack me and diminish me.
Just the other day a coworker was recoiling at some offensive thing she saw (I didn’t say it or write it). I told her bluntly that there’s a problem with her taking some deep offense at something and advocating corrective action.
It was simply that she didn’t have the power or influence to tell people what they could or couldn’t say.
She can attack all she wants, but that’s not to say she is effective.
Men got to stand up...
Case and point, myself and 3 others were accused of some trumped up BS and we all had to set across for HR people and some others high ups...guess what? All were women, so the scene was very surreal, big conference table, 4 men on one side, 5 women on the other.
In the end, we made our case and turned it all back on one of the 3 accusers....
Going in, didn’t think we had a chance even if we were in the right. Gotta fight, can’t cave or cower.