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THE EVOLUTION OF PARENTING..
CookingWithChefCarlo ^ | March 26, 2014 | Carlo3b DAD/CHEF/AUTHOR

Posted on 03/26/2014 6:10:11 AM PDT by carlo3b

THE EVOLUTION OF PARENTING..


The 40’s.. THE EYES.. If an adult looked at you, you froze..

The 50’s.. THE SILENT TREATMENT.. If they stopped talking, you stopped asking, or else..

The 60’s.. THE COMMAND.. Sit down and Shut up, and that was the last straw..

The 70’s.. THE DISCUSSION.. Let’s talk about this. The compromise..

The 80’s.. THE PAY-OFF.. If you stop, I’ll buy you..

The 90’s.. THE THREATS.. You told the school councilor WHAT?

2000’s.. ..  THE END.. You could do time Behind Bars for placing your kid in TIME OUT! YIKES
Does anyone have the number to a Bail bondsman?


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Government; News/Current Events; Politics/Elections
KEYWORDS: children; culture; government; liberalism; parenting; society
Where are the GOOD OLE DAYS? Long gone.. ugh
1 posted on 03/26/2014 6:10:12 AM PDT by carlo3b
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To: carlo3b

I learned to float in mid air at the end of my Dad’s left arm, running from the right one that had the belt in it. 50’s!


2 posted on 03/26/2014 6:23:28 AM PDT by Dusty Road
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To: Dusty Road

Or the merry-go-round as you ran in the tight circle around them.


3 posted on 03/26/2014 6:28:49 AM PDT by Resolute Conservative
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To: carlo3b
THE EYES.. THE SILENT TREATMENT.. THE COMMAND.

These still work for me.

4 posted on 03/26/2014 6:30:16 AM PDT by kevkrom (I'm not an unreasonable man... well, actually, I am. But hear me out anyway.)
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To: Dusty Road; carlo3b

Stardate: Late ‘60’s...

Well, I was just gonna post I screwed up, I got My A$$ Whipped.

The only option was: Go get Me a belt.

The problem: Dad had about 40 belts- wide, thin, in between.

The answer: No matter what “I” picked He always went back and picked a different one.

Result: I NEVER did the SAME screw up twice.


5 posted on 03/26/2014 6:32:23 AM PDT by mabarker1 (Please, Somebody Impeach the kenyan!!!!)
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To: mabarker1; Dusty Road; carlo3b
"Boy!...go get me a switch!"

I learned real quick not to get a branch off of the apple trees...like a whip they were. Peach branches would break pretty easy...which meant they were quickly put on the "no go" list by Pop.
6 posted on 03/26/2014 6:40:43 AM PDT by Tainan (Cogito, ergo conservatus sum -- "The Taliban is inside the building")
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The liberals have made child rearing more difficult. In some places, I understand you can be brought up on legal charges of assault if you physically discipline your children such as by spanking.

Teachers and others in schools are not allowed to physically touch a student. And the out of control kids know it. Arguably we have worse discipline problems in schools today, because we banned corporal punishment.


7 posted on 03/26/2014 6:45:18 AM PDT by Dilbert San Diego (as)
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Kids Post 'How To Get Your Teacher Fired' Tutorials On YouTube
8 posted on 03/26/2014 6:52:40 AM PDT by C210N (When people fear government there is tyranny; when government fears people there is liberty)
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Kids Post 'How To Get Your Teacher Fired' Tutorials On YouTube

AWE.. Kids just being kids, I guess.. Insidious little monsters.. :)

9 posted on 03/26/2014 7:13:38 AM PDT by carlo3b (Corrupt politicians make the other ten percent look bad.. Henry Kissinger)
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To: carlo3b

“THE EVOLUTION OF PARENTING”

More like the Devolution of parenting.


10 posted on 03/26/2014 7:35:59 AM PDT by Brooklyn Attitude (Things are only going to get worse.)
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To: Dilbert San Diego

Arguably we have worse discipline problems in schools today, because we banned corporal punishment.

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No, we have worse discipline problems because parents have fallen down in their duty of teaching children the proper behavior for a civilized society.


11 posted on 03/26/2014 8:25:31 AM PDT by Bigg Red (1 Pt 1: As he who called you is holy, be holy yourselves in every aspect of your conduct.)
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To: carlo3b

Parenting is hard... especially if your kid is moody.


12 posted on 03/26/2014 8:32:06 AM PDT by diamond6 (Behold this Heart which has so loved men!" Jesus to St. Margaret Mary)
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To: Bigg Red

and why have so many parents today failed in their job in disciplining their children? Is part of it that today’s parents were brought up with lax standards themselves, in the 70s and 80s? So that each generation coming of age since the 60s is more and more screwed up????


13 posted on 03/26/2014 8:41:00 AM PDT by Dilbert San Diego (as)
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Yes, I think that is correct. Part of the problem, IMO, is that mothers decided that it was better to enter the work force and pay strangers to care for their children.

Anyone can replace you at your paid job, but nobody can replace you in your child’s life. Children need a parent’s supervision, nurturing, and teaching.


14 posted on 03/26/2014 8:59:15 AM PDT by Bigg Red (1 Pt 1: As he who called you is holy, be holy yourselves in every aspect of your conduct.)
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