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Posted on 06/04/2014 10:19:50 AM PDT by Iced Tea Party
Cultural civil war can be avoided by getting government out of marriage
There is no question that the media, political, and cultural push for gay marriage has made impressive gains. As recently as 1989, voters in avant-garde San Francisco repealed a law that had established only domestic partnerships.
But judging by the questions posed by Supreme Court justices this week in oral arguments for two gay-marriage cases, most observers do not expect sweeping rulings that would settle the issue and avoid protracted political combat. A total of 41 states currently do not allow gay marriage, and most of those laws are likely to remain in place for some time. Even should the Court declare unconstitutional the Defense of Marriage Act, which defines marriage as between a man and a woman for federal purposes, we can expect many pitched battles in Congress. The word spouse appears in federal laws and regulations a total of 1,138 times, and many of those references would have to be untangled by Congress absent DOMA.
No wonder Wisconsins GOP governor Scott Walker sees public desire for a Third Way. On Meet the Press this month he remarked on how many young people have asked him why the debate is over whether the definition of marriage should be expanded. They think the question is rather why the government is sanctioning it in the first place. The alterative would be to not have the government sanction marriage period, and leave that up to the churches and the synagogues and others to define that.
Governor Walker made clear these thoughts werent anything Im advocating for, but he gave voice to many people who dont think the gay-marriage debate should tear the country apart in a battle over who controls the culture and wins the governments seal of approval. Gay-marriage proponents argue that their struggle is the civil-rights issue of our time, although many gays privately question that idea. Opponents who bear no animus toward gays lament that ancient traditions are being swept aside before the evidence is in on how gay marriage would affect the culture.
Both sides operate from the shaky premise that government must be the arbiter of this dispute. Columnist Andrew Sullivan, a crusader for gay marriage, has written that marriage is a formal, public institution that only the government can grant. But thats not so. Marriage predates government. Marriage scholar Lawrence Stone has noted that in the Middle Ages it was treated as a private contract between two families . . . For those without property, it was a private contract between two individuals enforced by the community sense of what was right. Indeed, marriage wasnt even regulated by law in Britain until the Marriage Acts of 1754 and 1835. Common-law unions in early America were long recognized before each state imposed a one-size-fits-all set of marriage laws.
The Founding Fathers avoided creating government-approved religions so as to avoid Europes history of church-based wars. Depoliticizing religion has mostly proven to be a good template for defusing conflict by keeping it largely in the private sphere.
Turning marriage into fundamentally a private right wouldnt be an easy task. Courts and government would still be called on to recognize and enforce contracts that a couple would enter into, and clearly some contracts such as in a slave-master relationship would be invalid. But instead of fighting over which marriages gain its approval, government would end the business of making distinctions for the purpose of social engineering based on whether someone was married. A flatter tax code would go a long way toward ending marriage penalties or bonuses. We would need a more sensible system of legal immigration so that fewer people would enter the country solely on the basis of spousal rights.
The current debate pits those demanding marriage equality against supporters of traditional marriage. But many Americans believe it would be better if we left matters to individuals and religious bodies. The cherished principle of separating church and state should be extended as much as possible into separating marriage and state. Ron Paul won many cheers during his 2012 presidential campaign when he declared, Id like to see all governments out of the marriage question. I dont think its a state decision. I think its a religious function. I am supportive of all voluntary associations and people can call it whatever they want.
Supporters of traditional marriage know the political winds are blowing against them. A new Fox News poll finds 49 percent of voters favoring gay marriage, up from just 32 percent a decade ago. And among self-described conservatives under 35, Fox found support for gay marriage is now at 44 percent. Even if the Supreme Court leaves the battle for gay marriage to trench warfare in the states, the balance of power is shifting. Rush Limbaugh, a powerful social conservative, told his listeners this week: I dont care what this court does with this particular ruling. . . . I think the inertia is clearly moving in the direction that there is going to be gay marriage at some point nationwide.
But a majority of Americans still believe the issue of gay marriage should be settled by the states and not with Roe v. Wadestyle central planning. It might still be possible to assemble a coalition of people who want to avoid a civil war over the culture and who favor getting government out of the business of marriage.
John Fund is national-affairs columnist for NRO.
We have a winner!
The people are the government and the people should control marriage. Otherwise, anyone can claim to be a church and then marry gays or any other combination you can think of.
Someone could start a church called the Gay Church of Christ and marry all the gays they wanted and without a government regulation on marriage, there would be nothing we could do to control it.
Thus, we end up with marriage as a contract between 2 to n people of any sex, blood status or age.
I wish the gay “marriage” proponents would be honest about that being the end game.
The government shoud be in the business of issuing a license that recognizes the civil partnership of two consenting adults. They should further offer the services of a notary to complete and file the license once both partners sign it.
If you want a religious celebrant to recognize your marriage at a joyous celebration, the state shouldn’t be involved.
Yes this sucks but the genie isn’t going back into the bottle.
Secondly, the people of each state need to decide to leave marriage out of state government's hands. Same issue: flat tax solves state meddling in martial and other personal status.
If it were only an issue about money, then problem solved.
Homosexual marriage isn’t about tax status.
I’ve tried to explain this for 30 years. Your preacher marries you. This is what marriage is: a contract between two people and God. The fact that the state chooses to recognize this arraignment is secondary. But, even preachers are ignorant of the concept of marriage, and most won’t even perform a ceremony without a marriage “license.” People are just plain stupid, and that is why we suffer.
If that happened today the black robed tyrants on the Federal bench would declare the voters' actions to be unconstitutional and reinstate the law. Like everything else that has happened in this country for the past 25 years it has been done against the will of the people.
Cultural civil war can be avoided by getting government out of marriage.
Crap and Bull Crap. Just what one would expect from a liberal rag.
this is a nonsense argument pushed by the ABA.
It is by design, intended to remove children out of marriage and make them a separate legal issue and make probate rules default to the state inheriting all.
WE USED TO HAVE a non state recording system. It was full of fraud and abandonment. It does not work.
This is a junk argument for establishment republicans to find cover from those who do not support sexual fetish based “marriage”.
All voluntary makes anything goes. Marry your cat, all your cats, your refrigerator, one two three fifty people and things. Marry your real estate or pot plant or personal property. There is no rule against it.
So can the state then force a contractual spouse to testify against their contractual partner in court? Also, from the point of view of taxes then will my stay at home spouse then be nonexistent, i.e., I will be treated as if I am a single person perhaps doubling my taxes? If you want to really kill traditional marriage then treat the traditional man works/wife stays home the same as a single person enjoying life in SF.
It already IS a private right! Everything that is not delegated to the federal government by the Constitution IS a God-given right and is reserved to the states and people receptively (10th Amendment).
Quit trying to create a Soviet Stater where the state creates rights, the State then expands its power to enforce, and the State may take away at any time. America is exceptional becasue it acknowledges the beginning point in the affairs of man is the INDIVIDUAL's God-given (not man-given) unalienable rights.The Constitution is aimed at binding the federal government to ensure it stays within those LIMITED rights and powers DELEGATED by the Constitution via the states and the people.
How do you get marriage out of the government? Will the federal government still be treating, for example, in the armed forces, a perverted homo couple the same equivalent as a man-and-wife in regards to military housing?
“The fact that the state chooses to recognize this arraignment is secondary.” LOL!!!!!!!!!!
I’m not sure if it’s an
“I saw what you did there” typo,
but it sure is the most delicious Miss Spelling I’ve read in a LONG time!
This nonsense about getting the government out of marriage is just another libertarian ploy to advance the leftist agenda through appeasement.
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Without government involvement in marriage, what would that matter? Anyone can create whatever kind of church they like, and call it whatever they want. This is established under the First Amendment. If someone wants to form a church that conforms to what they personally believe and conduct marriages, how does that affect anyone outside of whatever congregation they may have?
I've known of divorced women not gay who wanted a civil union, not a marriage, so children and exes would not take over in times of emergency.
Ugh, a fundamentally dumb argument.
“If someone wants to form a church that conforms to what they personally believe and conduct marriages, how does that affect anyone outside of whatever congregation they may have?”
If the government is not able to control marriage, then any church that advocates the homosexual agenda can and will conduct gay weddings and we will all have gay married couples in our communities.
Tearing down a pillar and foundation of Western Civilization to appease immorality doesn't make a lick of sense.
You should know that calling for the government to exit the marriage business AND calling for civil unions is right out of the Queer Rights Playbook.
What other liberal agendas do you also endorse?
Yes, funny because it’s true for the most part. Thanks autocorrect!
But they will fight against that idea tooth-and-nail because it cuts out a lot of their power (esp. that which can be arbitrarily applied) and forces actual transparency.
But if they are only married in the eyes of their church, how will that make any difference vs. simply shacking up?
The people do control marriage. Obviously, one of the proper functions of government is to prevent people from being forced or tricked into marriages involuntarily.
Getting rid of the ridiculous complexities of the tax code would solve a lot of problems, including this one.
Then you’d have a government that only grants civil unions, and the homo-unions would be the equal to the man-and-wife unions?
That’s not a government I’d support.
That’s not a country I’d support.
You don’t get it do you? It’s the government that will ultimately FORCE your preacher to marry Danny and Frank to keep HIS job. Grow a brain. If a preacher starts marrying gays he won’t have much of a congregation left, and you are ALWAYS free to move to the next church. You want government in YOUR church? Really?
Good thing we put it into the hands of an unfailingly honest and conscientious organization like the government, huh?
In many places, VT for example, gays already had civil unions. They weren’t satisfied with that. I think at one point MA offered civil unions, but the gay activist groups weren’t satisfied with that. “The Playbook” has always been legal marriage, so their relationships were not a different category from gov-sanctioned marriage.
“But if they are only married in the eyes of their church, how will that make any difference vs. simply shacking up?”
Because then they can present themselves all over town as being married and they will be in our schools, neighborhoods, parks and workplaces and before you know it, gay marriage will be normalized and traditional marriage will marginalized.
A: The homosexuals and their supporters have gained a great deal of power in the last 15 years.
Yeah. The government wouldn’t be marrying anyone. Churches and social groups would provide that.
Yet that's what they libertarians try to do with everything. They claim to oppose the left's agenda, but at the same time they say it's not the government's place to be involved. This is the libertarian method for promoting drugs, prostitution, abortion and homosexuality.
And yes, I am well aware that libertarians will be along momentarily to tell me that I'm a "statist," while they declare that the STATES have the "right" to make these laws. They will also argue that government shouldn't regulate "morality," while they fail to recognize that ALL LAWS boil down to moral issues.
Since the days of Bill Buckley.
I’m a conservative. See tagline. I’ve no use for libertarians who want to destroy marriage.
I know a couple that got married in Belgium. Their big day consisted of two ceremonies. The first ceremony was in front of a judge, and that satisfied the legal requirements for the state to consider them bound by law. Then, they had the Church wedding with a priest and this is where they were spiritually bound. Had they only had the Church / priest ceremony, it would not have been legally recognized by the state.
Governments have a vested interest in encouraging from both a legal rights and financial perspective, marriage between a man and a woman, the only coupling that can truly form a family. The family is then the bedrock unit of a strong society that the government should be, and in fact should only be, interested in helping to development.
This perspective is ludicrous.
We can’t trust people to make contracts with one another, we need an all-knowing, sanctified, governmental apparatus to care for us. Something might go wrong. What about the children? /s
The goal is the same as it’s been stated since the red diaper doper baby days “SMASH THE PATRIARCHY”.
Subversion of the institutions, not “acceptance”.
Actually queers don’t want legal marriages. They don’t.
They - like all big gubmint statists - want to eliminate all marriages which results in a greater Welfare State. And they’ll use any tactic to accomplish this.
So. For anyone to argue for Civil Unions or argue the government should abandon traditional marriage is just nuts.
The proper role of just governance is to secure the blessings of liberty. The original purpose of Family Law, i.e. government involvement, was to protect the rights of children to be raised properly by the father and mother who conceived them. Children, understandably, are most vulnerable with regard to the security of their endowed rights. Is government too involved in marriage today?. . .no question a slippery slope, however, there is a “just” role for government in securing the rights of children. . .btw, it is children’s rights that suffer the most as a result of the redefining of marriage. No one has an endowed right to have a spouse. . but children born of a father and mother DO have an endowed right to be raised properly by that father and mother.
Which of the following is an evil nation?
1. The US, where people drive on the right.If "all laws boil down to moral issues", then clearly, of these two opposite laws, one must be good and the other must be evil.
2. The UK, where people drive on the left.
Fund’s right, of course, that marriage precedes government. In fact, until the French Revolution after which couples were required to see the mayor before the priest, “formal” marriage was limited to the sacrament of Matrimony or the religious, social, tribal conventions of various groups. Just one of the many, many perversions of the French Revolution that’s leaked into today’s mores.
(backs away slowly looking for the exit)
Both designate a specific side of the road.
You are just trying a red herring.
The designation is there to prevent death.
Marriage is about the institution rewarded by the society for furthering the society.
Children are created by a male and a female not by any “fetish” test.
Worth repeating in larger font....
Marriage is more than a religous committment. It is the foundation for every successfull society since the beginning of time.
As goes the American Family - so goes America.
it can’t be. b/c divorce exists, and it’s conducted through courts. which then sets precedents in law, and then legislatures get involved with making laws regarding marriage and divorce.
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