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Oklahomans react to law requiring classes for divorcing parents
KOCO ^ | 06/11/2014 | Brian Shlonsky

Posted on 06/12/2014 10:24:43 AM PDT by Responsibility2nd

OKLAHOMA CITY —Oklahomans filing for divorce will now have to go through an extra step if they have kids.

Gov. Mary Fallin signed a bill last week that requires married couples who have children younger than 18 to pay for and attend classes before they can split.

Those classes will cost anywhere between $15 and $60 and will teach parents about the impact divorce will have on the kids.

Many Oklahoma residents have mixed feelings about the new law.

“I don’t think it’s a bad idea, but I just don’t agree with people have to go to classes,” Linda Fuller said.

“If I know we’re not in love anymore, I don’t feel like I should go to any class, just move on with our lives,” Davon Shepherd said.

The law goes into effect on Nov. 1.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Front Page News; Government; US: Oklahoma
KEYWORDS: divorce; moralabsolutes; oklahoma
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Interesting. Is this a classic example of the Nanny State interfering in our marriages and our lives?

Or a natual result and benefit of conservatve efforts to stem the destruction of the Welfare State by upholding marriage?

1 posted on 06/12/2014 10:24:43 AM PDT by Responsibility2nd
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Obviously you CAN legislate morality. The question has always been - Whose morality? The left or the right?

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2 posted on 06/12/2014 10:27:28 AM PDT by Responsibility2nd (NO LIBS. This Means Liberals and (L)libertarians! Same Thing. NO LIBS!!)
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To: Responsibility2nd
Is this a classic example of the Nanny State interfering in our marriages and our lives?

Just a reminder that kids count too.

Divorce used to be hard to get.

3 posted on 06/12/2014 10:29:43 AM PDT by itsahoot (Voting for a Progressive RINO is the same as voting for any other Tyrant.)
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To: Responsibility2nd

During a recent child custody case I was involved with, all parties to the lawsuit were required to take this type of class.


4 posted on 06/12/2014 10:31:00 AM PDT by thackney (life is fragile, handle with prayer)
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To: Responsibility2nd

“If I know we’re not in love anymore, I don’t feel like I should go to any class, just move on with our lives,”

Homeboy shows why we’ve lost the Sodomite “marriage” debate. When Marriage is just about two people being in love, getting married to make sex more convenient, how can we keep the fudgepackers out?


5 posted on 06/12/2014 10:32:05 AM PDT by demshateGod (The fool hath said in his heart, There is no God.)
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To: Responsibility2nd

I think it should be harder to get married than divorced.


6 posted on 06/12/2014 10:32:46 AM PDT by Veggie Todd (The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants. TJ)
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To: itsahoot

Divorce used to be hard to get.

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It SHOULD be hard to get. It should be harder for the idiot parents to get divorced than it will be for the innocent children after the parents get one.


7 posted on 06/12/2014 10:34:04 AM PDT by Responsibility2nd (NO LIBS. This Means Liberals and (L)libertarians! Same Thing. NO LIBS!!)
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To: Responsibility2nd

THANK GOD!

As a high school teacher, divorce is frequently the difference between the kids in regular and honors classes.

Parents rarely think about kids when they divorce, but the kids rarely think about anything else.


8 posted on 06/12/2014 10:34:43 AM PDT by struggle
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To: demshateGod; All

Answer??? (in the form of a question)

“What are “Chastity belts” worn backwards?”

[Ohhhh, I know I’m going to hell for this one!!!]

;-)


9 posted on 06/12/2014 10:37:37 AM PDT by stevie_d_64 (It's not the color of one's skin that offends people...it's how thin it is.)
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To: Responsibility2nd
It's certainly not a case of "interference" when a divorce -- by definition -- involves one or both parties seeking the eradication of a legal relationship that was established under the recognition of the State.

Once you get Caesar involved, you play by Caesar's rules.

10 posted on 06/12/2014 10:37:57 AM PDT by Alberta's Child ("What in the wide, wide world of sports is goin' on here?")
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To: Veggie Todd

Yes.

Make them watch Kramer vs Kramer like we had to watch the gory crash videos in driver’s ed.


11 posted on 06/12/2014 10:38:38 AM PDT by TurboZamboni (Those who make peaceful revolution impossible will make violent revolution inevitable.-JFK)
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“If I know we’re not in love anymore, I don’t feel like I should go to any class, just move on with our lives,”

Yeah. Just move on. And leave your children to struggle and fail, because after all - you're not in love anymore.

12 posted on 06/12/2014 10:39:07 AM PDT by Responsibility2nd (NO LIBS. This Means Liberals and (L)libertarians! Same Thing. NO LIBS!!)
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To: Responsibility2nd

Yes.


13 posted on 06/12/2014 10:39:57 AM PDT by tanknetter
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Parents rarely think about kids when they divorce, but the kids rarely think about anything else.

You are correct. I was the exception that's all I thought about. I stayed in a bad marriage for 18 years because of them but the stress of the marriage was driving me insane and the kids could feel the tension. Anyone who stepped in our house could. It pained me to leave but I had to. I am extremely sad not being with my kids everyday but being in that marriage was impossible.

14 posted on 06/12/2014 10:41:30 AM PDT by Hyman Roth
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To: Responsibility2nd

Fallin=the Dominion branch of Christianity. With the Huckster. Wrapped around Character First and Bill Gothard.


15 posted on 06/12/2014 10:47:41 AM PDT by DariusBane (Liberty and Risk. Flip sides of the same coin. So how much risk will YOU accept? Vive Deco et Vives)
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Ahh. Blame the Christians. Is that it?


16 posted on 06/12/2014 10:49:15 AM PDT by Responsibility2nd (NO LIBS. This Means Liberals and (L)libertarians! Same Thing. NO LIBS!!)
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To: struggle
Parents rarely think about kids when they divorce, but the kids rarely think about anything else.

You can say that again. I know I've said this before, but I STILL can't get over my mother saying, 'Why don't you want me to be happy?' when I protested her divorcing my father. As if she was the only one whose feelings mattered.

17 posted on 06/12/2014 10:50:09 AM PDT by Luircin
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To: Responsibility2nd

We’ve had these classes in our county for twenty plus years. If the parents file too many motions, then there’s a sixteen week course they can end up having to attend. (one night a week)


18 posted on 06/12/2014 10:50:48 AM PDT by Mercat
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To: Responsibility2nd

The Christians? Dominion is The Christians? Nah. If i were blaming The Christians, i would blame myself. I oppose this measure. As a small non interventionist conservative Christian. Sorry.


19 posted on 06/12/2014 10:53:50 AM PDT by DariusBane (Liberty and Risk. Flip sides of the same coin. So how much risk will YOU accept? Vive Deco et Vives)
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To: Veggie Todd

A marriage license should cost $10,000, a divorce 10 cents... with the person requesting the divorce walking away with nothing but the clothes on their back.


20 posted on 06/12/2014 10:56:24 AM PDT by Beagle8U (Unions are an Affirmative Action program for Slackers! .)
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