Yes kids need fathers too...but not to be yanked back and the every few days. the old shared custody of keeping the school year intact in one place, while summers and shared vacations in then other works best for kids - although it still sucks.
People just need to grow up and make marriage decisions based on more than sexual attraction
>>>People just need to grow up and make marriage decisions based on more than sexual attraction<<<
That’s not the issue as far as I see it when it comes to this stage. Marriage is not what it used to be. One person can end it over the objection of the other. And I’ve heard stats that around 70% of divorces are imitated by women. What is that old conservative dogma about getting more of what you subsidize and less of what you tax? Child support in my state takes off 20% of your gross income for just one child. When women divorce a guy for no other reason than he is boring or she would like something different, I find rewarded her with his income to be incentivizing her to choose divorce. And if ya thing I’m full of it, here is an interesting peek from a therapist. Of course she spins this story in the best possible light for women. But it’s plain enough. She clearly states she sees a lot of women divorcing nice husbands and fathers.
I completely disagree. Sorry.
I did agree with your marriage decision comment.
I will tell you I spent five years with my second wife before marrying her.
Thought I knew her. Thought I could respect and trust her.
” People just need to grow up and make marriage decisions based on more than sexual attraction”
Well, failing this (we failed), now what ?