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How to Raise a Feminist Son
The New York Times ^ | June 2, 2017 | Claire Cain Miller

Posted on 06/02/2017 4:50:26 AM PDT by Trump20162020

We’re now more likely to tell our daughters they can be anything they want to be — an astronaut and a mother, a tomboy and a girlie girl. But we don’t do the same for our sons.

Even as we’ve given girls more choices for the roles they play, boys’ worlds are still confined, social scientists say. They’re discouraged from having interests that are considered feminine. They’re told to be tough at all costs, or else to tamp down their so-called boy energy.

If we want to create an equitable society, one in which everyone can thrive, we need to also give boys more choices. As Gloria Steinem says, “I’m glad we’ve begun to raise our daughters more like our sons, but it will never work until we raise our sons more like our daughters.”

That’s because women’s roles can’t expand if men’s don’t, too. But it’s not just about women. Men are falling behind in school and work because we are not raising boys to succeed in the new, pink economy. Skills like cooperation, empathy and diligence — often considered to be feminine — are increasingly valued in modern-day work and school, and jobs that require these skills are the fastest-growing.

(Excerpt) Read more at nytimes.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: boy; boys; castration; feminism; feminist; god
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1 posted on 06/02/2017 4:50:27 AM PDT by Trump20162020
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To: Trump20162020

Here is the problem: I like John Wayne more than Don Knotts. My neighbor and I were walking and discussing how we don’t like submissive men. Pleasers. Don’t much care for submissive women either. How about raising people that can think for themselves?


2 posted on 06/02/2017 4:56:38 AM PDT by yldstrk (My heroes have always been cowboys)
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To: Trump20162020

The transgender thing is just a physical manifestation of the weird psychological thing they’ve been doing for decades.

Let’s just pretend that there is no psychological or physical difference between men and women. They are exactly, 100%, the same.

Madness.


3 posted on 06/02/2017 4:57:37 AM PDT by ClearCase_guy (Abortion is what slavery was: immoral but not illegal. Not yet.)
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To: Trump20162020

The women responsible for what has been inflicted on boys and men in our society are disgusting harpies who have committed crimes against humanity. Men are men and women are women, with separate but complementary natures and characteristics; they are not interchangeable.


4 posted on 06/02/2017 5:00:26 AM PDT by Bigg Red (Vacate the chair! Ryan must go.)
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To: yldstrk

Or that learn the way God thinks? There are some overlaps between what men and women can do, but their general created fortes differ. Vive la difference.


5 posted on 06/02/2017 5:00:51 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
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To: Trump20162020

“If we want to create an equitable society”

That says it all. Liberals don’t want people to be free or think for themselves. Liberals want to control society and force their thinking on everyone else.


6 posted on 06/02/2017 5:02:24 AM PDT by djpg
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To: HiTech RedNeck

well when you get that figured out, let me know. I am also wary of people who claim to know the mind of God because that is unknowable.


7 posted on 06/02/2017 5:04:30 AM PDT by yldstrk (My heroes have always been cowboys)
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To: Bigg Red

Certainly you cannot teach men to care more by teaching them to be wincing flinching wimps. That is a harpie lie. Men robbed of power have no wherewithal with which to carry out the care. What good would be a Jesus who wept but could not save a soul?


8 posted on 06/02/2017 5:05:31 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
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To: Trump20162020
...social scientists....

What garbage.

9 posted on 06/02/2017 5:05:43 AM PDT by onedoug
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To: Trump20162020
A feminist son? What in God's name is *that*? When I was a kid my Dad taught me,by word *and* deed,to respect my mother,sister and aunts...IOW,women.
10 posted on 06/02/2017 5:06:33 AM PDT by Gay State Conservative (Deplorables' Lives Matter)
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To: yldstrk

That is foolish talk. Are we to ignore what the bible makes manifest, out of false modesty?


11 posted on 06/02/2017 5:07:08 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
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To: Trump20162020

How to Raise a Feminist Son?

Simple, send him to a public school.


12 posted on 06/02/2017 5:07:08 AM PDT by The_Republic_Of_Maine (politicians beware)
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To: Trump20162020

Message to the NY Slimes: My twin grandsons will be raised to be men, good to women, children but ready to accept the challenges of being a man and protecting all that is important to them when necessary and providing for their families as well. You raise your boys to be soft fem metrosexuals and then turn them loose on the world so they can spread their self hate and doubt.


13 posted on 06/02/2017 5:07:45 AM PDT by Uncle Sam 911
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To: HiTech RedNeck

spare me from your know it all act


14 posted on 06/02/2017 5:09:46 AM PDT by yldstrk (My heroes have always been cowboys)
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To: yldstrk

And I might mention that a lot of men learned what it took to be good cowboys from the Holy Book. Don’t sneer at the examples of your heroes.


15 posted on 06/02/2017 5:10:32 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
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To: Gay State Conservative
A feminist son? What in God's name is *that*?


16 posted on 06/02/2017 5:11:31 AM PDT by maggief
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To: yldstrk

Spare me from same! You assert a presumptuous negative.


17 posted on 06/02/2017 5:12:11 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
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To: Trump20162020

I don’t usually comment unless I read the entire article. This time though, the excerpt is enough to see where this is going . . . and the NYT is unworthy of an internet hit. Liberal stupidity knows no bounds.


18 posted on 06/02/2017 5:13:25 AM PDT by oldplayer
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To: HiTech RedNeck

Yes. West is best. Judeo-Christian society has much to recommend it.


19 posted on 06/02/2017 5:13:25 AM PDT by yldstrk (My heroes have always been cowboys)
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To: ClearCase_guy

Sounds like they are science deniers.


20 posted on 06/02/2017 5:13:34 AM PDT by nhbob1
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