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The Power of Being “Wronged” (vanity)
10/22/17 | Republicanprofessor

Posted on 10/22/2017 12:27:52 PM PDT by Republicanprofessor

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1 posted on 10/22/2017 12:27:52 PM PDT by Republicanprofessor
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To: Republicanprofessor

An exaggerated sense of being “wronged” seems to be driving much politics today.


Which is why I’ve been saying for years that the national motto, In God We Trust, should be changed to, “You Owe Me an Apology.”


2 posted on 10/22/2017 12:36:43 PM PDT by sparklite2 (I'm less interested in the rights I have than the liberties I can take.)
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To: Republicanprofessor

The Culture of Victimhood is toxic.


3 posted on 10/22/2017 12:37:13 PM PDT by ClearCase_guy (Benedict McCain is the worst traitor ever to wear the uniform of the US military.)
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Interesting subject. Hitler rose to power because the Germans felt wronged.
It probably goes back to the dawn of time.


4 posted on 10/22/2017 12:37:32 PM PDT by MNDude (God is not a Republican, but Satan is certainly a Democratt)
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To: Republicanprofessor
There is a difference between true injustice--such as that which motivated our initial revolution in 1776 up through the Civil Rights Movement of the 1960s--and a sense of entitlement going “wrong.” When we look for an insult just so that we can make political points, we are being petty and fake. Such personal, perceived injustices, chips on our shoulders, and the inability to forgive--these actions and positions lead to more entrenched political divisions as easily as such actions in a dysfunctional family.

This is what is wrong with much of our society.

People need to stop being so easily offended.

I guess that's what happens when the level of prosperity that we are currently enjoying comes to fruition.

People aren't so busy making a living and staying alive to that now they can focus on petty stuff like that.

5 posted on 10/22/2017 12:40:20 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith..)
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People need to stop being so easily offended.

When someone says that my opinion offends them, I simply reply, "So what"?

6 posted on 10/22/2017 12:43:06 PM PDT by Simon Green
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It’s a good answer.

Really, so what?

My opinion is my opinion and you don’t have to like it and it’s not a fact or made into a law so it has no effect on your life.

Get over it.


7 posted on 10/22/2017 12:49:03 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith..)
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People need to stop being so easily offended.


Not gonna happen. Thanks to the web, for better or worse,
people are now able to surround themselves with opinions that they are sympathetic to on both an inter-personal online level and by news aggregation of like-minded journalism.

Not having to deal with opposite-thinkers online bleeds over into meat space, where the proud assertion of horse pucky seems more egregious than in the past, and restraint to respond to it is diminished.

The anonymity of online commenting is so natural, we forget that real life confrontation is a different beast.


8 posted on 10/22/2017 12:58:04 PM PDT by sparklite2 (I'm less interested in the rights I have than the liberties I can take.)
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I don’t think they are really offended. They use fake indignation to win an argument. Such as: You need to work for your money and insurance. Response to shut down argument: That’s racist. Because they don’t want to work, welfare and Obamacare is much more fun. So the best response is to screech, “That’s racist!”


9 posted on 10/22/2017 1:27:10 PM PDT by tuffydoodle ("Never underestimate the total depravity of the average human being.")
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To: Republicanprofessor
wouldn’t it be more productive to discuss what is causing the feeling of being “wronged?”

Therein lies the problem, the left do not want to discuss. Instead they always claim the moral high road, and refuse to listen to anything that opposes their beliefs. Just as man being the cause of "climate change" is settled science as far as they are concerned, no further discussion is wanted or allowed. In their mind anyone questioning that "settled science" need to be jailed or worse. The same holds true for any & all of their beliefs. They are right, we are wrong end of discussion that never began in the first place. They will not let you discuss any further. You will be threatened and belittled unless you conform. No wonder they love Islam, as there too is no room for discussion that might oppose their beliefs.

10 posted on 10/22/2017 2:08:50 PM PDT by Robert DeLong
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How offensive. 8>)


11 posted on 10/22/2017 2:10:14 PM PDT by Robert DeLong
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There is a difference between true injustice--such as that which motivated our initial revolution in 1776 up through the Civil Rights Movement of the 1960s--and a sense of entitlement going “wrong.”

Look at this quote from The Russian Revolution by Alan Moorehead 1958 and see if it sounds familiar.

…but the fact remained that this was a predatory state which the Czar and a small group of noblemen and bureaucrats ruled for their own exclusive benefit. The peasant was a serf who could not have any ambition other than to die early and peacefully, or survive with a minimum of work, taxes, hunger and beatings. The ruling group owned all the wealth, enjoyed all the privileges and monopolized all the political power, and it did not intend to give up any of its prerogatives. It considered the peasants (some 95 percent of the population) to be little better than animals who could not be trusted with the slightest responsibility.

12 posted on 10/22/2017 2:27:09 PM PDT by libertylover (Kurt Schlicter: "They wonder why they got Trump. They are why they got Trump")
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Therein lies the problem, the left do not want to discuss. Instead they always claim the moral high road, and refuse to listen to anything that opposes their beliefs.

Exactly right! Please read my comment #12.

13 posted on 10/22/2017 2:30:12 PM PDT by libertylover (Kurt Schlicter: "They wonder why they got Trump. They are why they got Trump")
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My neighbor’s white kids were on the high school basketball team with three blacks. The five of them were almost always together. I’d talked to all of them and they seemed okay. One day the three blacks stopped to collect a drug debt. The man told them to pound sand. The team captain pulled out a gun and shot him dead. Apparently it was, “pound sand,” followed by “bam!” The captain’s reason for shooting the man was, “He dissed me. I had to.” When I talked to the two white kids they nodded their heads in unison and said, “Yup. He had to.” Part of what we are seeing in politics today is a slightly more civil version of the same bad cultural tick we see in blacks. I read an FBI study, which I have been unable to find since, unfortunately. It was of black and Caucasian cops. The study concluded that black cops were far more likely to kill a black suspect than a Caucasian cop because they knew how dangerous their culture was. (It didn’t put it in those terms but that was the gist of it.)

We are seeing more and more black culture cross-pollinating into Caucasian culture due to exposure in schools, TV, movies and music. Black culture isn’t good for blacks and it’s much worse for Caucasians, who are raised in one culture and forced to interact in a different, and more violent one.


14 posted on 10/22/2017 2:45:55 PM PDT by Gen.Blather
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We Canadians apologize before we’re asked. Sorry about that.


15 posted on 10/22/2017 2:51:09 PM PDT by USFRIENDINVICTORIA
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To: libertylover

If that portrayal is accurate, no wonder the Czar was overthrown. But is it accurate? I personally do not know as I have never really studied Russian history. The liberal especially those in power, treat everyone else like peasants, including those who put them in power. Your only as good until you vote. Then you can be ignored until the next election cycle. Sadly many establishment Republicans have adopted that attitude as well.


16 posted on 10/22/2017 3:41:18 PM PDT by Robert DeLong
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I call it the Power of Victimhood. It’s founded on the notion that suffering somehow confers on the sufferer some vague, unimpeachable moral authority.


17 posted on 10/22/2017 4:08:04 PM PDT by IronJack
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To: Simon Green

There was a time in this country, where “So what” was followed up with “wanna fight about it?”

And if someone said the offensive things that are said these days, they got punched in their mouth and nothing was said to or by the police.


18 posted on 10/22/2017 5:14:32 PM PDT by Molon Labbie (Destroying the vestiges of the First Civil War is ensuring the Second.)
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That’s why my grandparents emigrated.


19 posted on 10/22/2017 6:51:29 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith..)
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To: Gen.Blather

Interestingly, I found out about this website today.

Walking While Black - L.O.V.E. is the Answer.

The founder, AJ Ali, has the goal of racial reconciliation.


20 posted on 10/22/2017 6:53:09 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith..)
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