Its only stressful because the Remoaners have refused to carry out the democratically expressed will of the people thus breaking their word in the process, because the people made a choice the Remoaners did not approve of.
The people were given a choice leave or remain. 52% chose leave. Mays deal was a bad deal but a leave deal it was.
No one bothered to ask the people what type of deal they wanted and in fact before the referendum a no deal was ruled out (Boris, Nigel et al all said the EU would beg the UK for a deal)
If you want leave at any cost then there is Mays deal.or agree to a customs union for Northern Ireland only and you solve the problem.