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The worst argument for abortion: Will you take care of these children after they are born?
Christian Post ^ | 05/29/2019 | By John Stonestreet and G. Shane Morris

Posted on 05/29/2019 8:50:19 AM PDT by SeekAndFind

If pro-lifers are going to oppose the killing of unborn children, we are told over and over again, then we must be willing to take care of these children and their families even after they’re born. And since we don’t, it’s widely assumed and repeated, we have no right to oppose abortion.

As if this line of argument wasn’t repeated enough, it’s become especially popular in the wake of the new anti-abortion laws in Alabama, Georgia, Ohio, and now Missouri.

For example, a recent political cartoon by Nick Anderson depicts pro-lifers gazing in awe at a pregnant woman’s belly and promising the child, “We’ll do whatever we can to protect your life.” In the next frame, the very same pro-lifers scream at the newborn, “Now you’re on your own!” “Get a job, moocher!”

Apparently believing this same caricature of uncaring abortion opponents led Times of Israel journalist Sarah Tuttle-Singer to tweet out a challenge last week: “Dear Pro-Life friends: what have you personally done to support lower income single mothers? I’ll wait.”

Well, at last count, she received some responses—over 13 thousand of them, in fact, answering her rhetorical question. I doubt they were what she and other pro-abortion activists were expecting. A Twitter user named Barbara wrote back: “Great question! Since I am unable to foster, I often babysit for my friends who do. I donate regularly to a foster closet. We help pay bills for people in crisis situations, & my oldest kids help when they are able.”

Another user named Joshua wrote: “[We] became foster parents, which led to adoption. Intentionally worked to build relationship with and support our son’s birth mother. Helped her with buying furniture & more when she got out of prison…We were part of a movement of 30+ foster/adopt families from our church doing the same, with a network of hundreds in our church supporting us in tangible ways.”

A pastor named Hans replied: “Started a non-profit that gives free clothing, diapers, etc…to those in need. Fostered a teen mom. Fostered another mother’s three children while she got her life back on track. Found them housing. Gave them Jesus. Gave them a church family who helps and supports them.”

The stories went on and on. The thousands of replies are more than just anecdotal answers to a journalist’s misfired question. Pro-lifers really have put their money, time, and love where their mouths are.

Think of the nation’s pregnancy care centers—which offer supplies and training and parenting classes to mothers and continue doing so despite being maligned as “fake clinics.” They currently outnumber abortion mills three-to-one, and are overwhelmingly run and staffed by women—most of whom are volunteers. Alabama alone has more than seventy of these centers, all of which rely on the private support of people who believe in their mission.

And that’s not all. Alabama’s governor, Kay Ivey—who just signed that state’s newest abortion restriction into law—announced back in November that families in her state set a new record for adopting children out of the foster system.

Is there more to be done? Of course! Could pro-lifers specifically do more? Of course! But here’s an important question asked back to our pro-abortion opponents: Why should an unborn child’s right to life depend on how many social programs, charities, or adoptive parents are available after he or she is born? Think about what’s being implied here: that needy babies are better off dead—that the kindest thing we can do is kill them—and that if you’re unable to take in every single unplanned child, you have no right to speak against abortion.

This is barbaric nonsense. As some have pointed out, it’s kind of like saying you can’t oppose killing homeless people unless you turn your home into a shelter. And it misses the single most crucial fact in the entire debate: that abortion doesn’t prevent a baby. It kills one. Which is why, of the two sides in our current, intensifying debate, it’s clear who is most deeply invested in the lives of unplanned children—those who think they first and foremost deserve to live.


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1 posted on 05/29/2019 8:50:19 AM PDT by SeekAndFind
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To: SeekAndFind
The argument is a form of "special pleading" that assumes that the unborn child is not a person deserving of life.

If I see my neighbor beating his 5-year-old to death, am I morally unable to do anything to stop it unless I'm willing or able to adopt the child? Of course not, and (almost) every pro-abort would agree. The only reason they see abortion differently is that they refuse to acknowledge the humanity of the unborn child.

2 posted on 05/29/2019 8:54:30 AM PDT by Campion ((marine dad))
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To: SeekAndFind

Yes. This is why we have food stamps. This is why we have the WIC program. This is why we have Medicaid... to help with the birth and life...not create death.


3 posted on 05/29/2019 8:55:19 AM PDT by rhombus10
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To: SeekAndFind

Wow, she didn’t even have to wait.


4 posted on 05/29/2019 8:57:21 AM PDT by \/\/ayne (I regret that I have but one subscription cancellation notice to give to my local newspaper.)
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To: SeekAndFind

Kaitlin Bennett (Liberty Hangout) encountered this very question when she was interviewing pro-abortion people in Austin just a few days ago. It’s on YouTube, and it’s too painful to watch again, so this is one of the few times I’m not going to add a link. Morgana might have posted it.


5 posted on 05/29/2019 8:58:27 AM PDT by real saxophonist (One side has guns and training. Other side's primary concern is 'gender identity'. Who's gonna win?)
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To: SeekAndFind

Unwanted pregnancies are merely a symptom of a bigger problem. The sexual revolution has been lost. If people are not in the position to bring a child into the world and properly raise him/her, then they should NOT be engaging in the act that causes this to happen. Simple as that.


6 posted on 05/29/2019 8:59:42 AM PDT by JudyinCanada
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To: SeekAndFind

Dear Pro-Life friends: what have you personally done to support lower income single mothers? I’ll wait.”

You don’t have to wait I can answer now. Paid my Taxes Federal State and Local. Donate to churches that help. Voted for Donald Trump who in turn brought more and better jobs to the scene. Push my representatives to do immigration reform and get the wall built so the illegals stop draining the system set aside to help those single mothers!


7 posted on 05/29/2019 9:08:05 AM PDT by 48th SPS Crusader (I am an American. Not a Republican or a Democrat)
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To: SeekAndFind

Actually I heard a Republican woman say that. In the 1990s. She wants all blacks, poor, Latinos, etc to be aborted because it costs too much to care for them. I was shocked.


8 posted on 05/29/2019 9:08:21 AM PDT by buffyt (Not a Choice, it's a CHILD in the womb. We may have aborted the person with the cure for cancer!)
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She is also a Freeper. Shocked me. She’s very active n Republican politics. I wonder how many people agree with her, R and D.


9 posted on 05/29/2019 9:09:40 AM PDT by buffyt (Not a Choice, it's a CHILD in the womb. We may have aborted the person with the cure for cancer!)
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To: 48th SPS Crusader

Amen, Crusader!


10 posted on 05/29/2019 9:10:31 AM PDT by buffyt (Not a Choice, it's a CHILD in the womb. We may have aborted the person with the cure for cancer!)
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To: \/\/ayne

That “I’ll wait” at the end of the post is so sarcastic. Like, “I know none of you will have an answer to this question. Gotcha!”


11 posted on 05/29/2019 9:10:45 AM PDT by Nea Wood
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To: SeekAndFind

Yes! All that needs to be done is to change the laws so it’s as easy for Christians to adopt those babies as it is for homosexuals.


12 posted on 05/29/2019 9:13:40 AM PDT by Texas Eagle (If it wasn't for double-standards, Liberals would have no standaurds at all -- Texas Eagle)
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To: SeekAndFind

Be willing to take care of them and their families? Are you kidding me? The number of taxpayer funded social services programs is staggering.


13 posted on 05/29/2019 9:18:43 AM PDT by Texas Eagle (If it wasn't for double-standards, Liberals would have no standaurds at all -- Texas Eagle)
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To: SeekAndFind

This argument is an attempt to shift responsibility from the person directly involved in the decision to have unprotected sex to those who decry what they perceive as a murderous act to shed that responsibility.

What if the argument is extended to a mother who gives birth but later decides children are too much of a responsibility and wants to shed herself of the child. Post birth abortion up to the age of legal personhood of the child (18 years in most states)? Or to simply abandon them to the state or private adoption of some kind?? If the latter, I think the parents should be taxed to pay some portion of the cost of raising the child by the state or private adopters.


14 posted on 05/29/2019 9:23:05 AM PDT by wildbill
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To: SeekAndFind
If pro-lifers are going to oppose the killing of unborn children, we are told over and over again, then we must be willing to take care of these children and their families even after they’re born.

To what extent do women use abortion as a form of birth control? Their failure to use birth control to prevent pregnancy, is a factor. The irresponsible mothers want someone else to take care of their babies. Being pro choice, said mothers want someone to kill the baby for them, so they are not inconvenienced.

Mother Theresa said "give them to me."

15 posted on 05/29/2019 9:31:33 AM PDT by olezip
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To: SeekAndFind

How many of the abortion pimps have taken in mothers who claim they murder their children because of financial problems?


16 posted on 05/29/2019 9:34:02 AM PDT by DPMD
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To: SeekAndFind

It’s not my job to take care of your unwanted children, but I’ll not let them starve in the streets.


17 posted on 05/29/2019 9:38:29 AM PDT by JimRed ( TERM LIMITS, NOW! Build the Wall Faster! TRUTH is the new HATE SPEECH.)
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To: buffyt

actually if you are getting government handouts, birth control should be mandatory. I’m a big fan of “if you can’t feed them, don’t breed them”
Now i said birth control, not abortion.


18 posted on 05/29/2019 9:50:10 AM PDT by ronniesgal (so I wonder what his FR handle is????)
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To: SeekAndFind

That’s a very satisfying Twitter thread.

https://twitter.com/TuttleSinger/status/1128739808178843649?s=20


19 posted on 05/29/2019 10:00:46 AM PDT by Incorrigible (If I lead, follow me; If I pause, push me; If I retreat, kill me.)
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To: SeekAndFind

THE question is whether or not all humans have a right to life. Once you start to bring into the argument all the potential consequences, such as bad parents or economics, you have muddied the waters. No child should be killed because of the sins of the parents.


20 posted on 05/29/2019 10:05:53 AM PDT by Ullus (Scripture Alone Determines Christian Doctrine)
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