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Study: Kids Whose Moms Donít Work Full Time More Likely To Get Into Stanford
The Federalist ^ | August 26, 2020 | Joy Pullman

Posted on 08/26/2020 8:03:48 AM PDT by Kaslin

'After adjustment for demographic and socioeconomic factors, the group most likely to attend selective colleges were students in male breadwinner-female homemaker families.'


Teens whose mothers worked part-time or not outside the home were significantly more likely to be admitted to and attend a highly selective college or university than teens whose mothers worked full time, finds a study out today from the Institute for Family Studies. The study controlled for external factors including family income, parental education, the child’s sex, race, and family composition.

“Students are more likely to be accepted by and attend highly competitive colleges when their mothers are at home than when their mothers and fathers both work full time,” it concluded. The study examined nationally representative, longitudinal federal data about more than 17,000 American ninth graders.

Forty percent of the children studied had two full-time working parents, 57 percent had two working parents with mom either working full- or part-time, and 24 percent had a father who worked full time and a mother who did not work for pay. The children’s education outcomes were highest with the traditional male breadwinner, female homemaker arrangement. Families in which the father worked full time and the mother worked part-time saw comparably high academic achievement among their children.

“The additional time, energy and attention that stay-at-home-mothers were able to devote to supervising their children’s studies and peer interactions and to participating in school-related volunteer efforts seem to have paid off in terms of their offspring’s academic success,” study author Nicholas Zill said in a statement.

The graph below from the study shows children’s selective college attendance by parental work arrangement. The blue bars are the raw outcomes, and the yellow bars are outcomes adjusted for the demographic information mentioned above (family income, parental education, etc.).

“After adjustment for demographic and socioeconomic factors, the group most likely to attend selective colleges were students in male breadwinner-female homemaker families. The odds that students in this group would attend selective colleges were significantly higher than those for families where both parents worked full time (odds ratio of 1.57),” Zill’s study found. “Students whose fathers worked full time and mothers worked part time also had significantly better odds of attending selective colleges. The breadwinner-homemaker group and the full-time working father/part-time working mother did not differ significantly from each other.”

“Highly-selective colleges” in the study “are those whose first-year students’ test scores placed the schools in the top fifth of baccalaureate-granting institutions.” Such institutions include Ivies and highly competitive state schools such as Princeton, the University of California at Los Angeles, Stanford, and Duke.

Also significantly, children whose mothers did not work outside the home achieved at an elite level even though their family income was a median $20,000 less per year than the families in which the mother worked either full or part time. In the study, the families in which both parents worked full time earned the most money (median income $80,000), but parental attention outperformed money at securing children’s education prospects.

Big Societal Benefits When Moms Don’t Have to Work

Research going back decades finds other significant family and public benefits when people, especially mothers, work part-time or not for pay instead of in full-time paid employment. The 2000 bestseller “Bowling Alone,” for example, included original research and summarized other research that finds women who work part-time are significantly more likely than both full-time paid female employees and full-time homemakers to invest time into their communities.

“Women who work part-time, especially those who do so by choice, volunteer more, entertain more, and visit more with friends more than do full-time employees or full-time homemakers,” writes author and sociologist Robert Putman. Volunteering has an obvious social benefit.

The rest of the book also explains why “private” social behaviors such as visiting with friends and inviting people over for dinner are crucial to a well-ordered society. It’s because people are happier and function better when they have strong friendships. Isolated people are more likely to create problems such as idleness, ill health, addiction, and violence that they ultimately force other people to solve, typically through expanded government programs.

Twenty years ago, “Bowling Alone” found massive reductions in community engagement since the 1950s and attendant increases in social disorders that stem from loneliness. The biggest contributor to plummeting relationships in America, Putnam found, was Americans’ screen addictions — then largely television, now mostly our cell phones. Another major factor, however, accounting for up to 15 percent of the massive drop in social connectedness in America, was the increase in full-time working mothers, both single and married.

Women Want Possibilities For Less Employment, Not More

Contrary to the reigning narrative that women want to live similarly to men by investing their major energies into full-time paid employment, Putnam found “virtually all the increase in female employment over the last two decades of the twentieth century was by necessity, not by choice.” Further, “Women who must work full-time are the least likely to visit with friends, to entertain at home, or to volunteer” (emphasis added in both quotes).

While politicians of both major parties focus largely on making it more possible for mothers to work full time away from their children through redistributing taxpayer money into programs such as paid leave, a substantial portion of working mothers work more than they want to. Many would prefer to invest more attention into their families and communities. Lots of working moms feel trapped, and most politicians promise to throw a pillow into the cage rather than opening its doors to set women free to better balance relationships and money.

As Putnam noted 20 years ago, “We found that part-time workers are typically more involved in community activities than either full-time employees or people who are not employed at all. Not everyone wants a part-time job, of course, but many do, and America’s public, nonprofit, and private institutions have only begun to address the challenge of restructuring work to meet that demand.” This situation hasn’t measurably improved since.

Kids Need and Want Their Moms’ Attention

Research also confirms the obvious fact that receiving lots of their mothers’ attention is crucial for children’s development. As Erica Komisar writes in 2017’s “Being There,” “the most recent research has shown that a mother’s unique presence is critical to the emotional development and mental health of her children in their early years.”

It’s not just the early years where a mother’s presence is important to children’s growth, either. A Stanford University study of 66,000 children in Norway found that an increase in stay-at-home parents for older children increased their academic achievement. While early childhood is obviously a crucial time for emotional and brain development, so are, say, the middle school years.

Children simply need their parents, no matter their age, and benefit from increased parental attention. This isn’t rocket science. Anyone could tell you this. The reason more people don’t is that it has become a political statement to say the obvious, because some people and factions are financially, emotionally, socially, and politically invested in separating parents from children. Thus the manufactured social pressure for women to turn off their instincts to nurture and tie sex to marriage.

There’s more tax and lobbyist money to be made on subsidized daycare and dual incomes, after all. At least until increasingly parent-deprived generations of children accumulate less and less emotional and intellectual capital to power our economy and society. That is already happening, but it doesn’t have to continue.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial
KEYWORDS: academia; employment; family; feminism; highered; highereducation; moms; motherhood; mothersparenting; parttime; parttimework; sahm; stayathomemoms; stayathomemother; work; workingmoms; workingmothers
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1 posted on 08/26/2020 8:03:48 AM PDT by Kaslin
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To: Kaslin

Does collecting WIC, SNAP, AFDC, and Section 8 while having multiple bastard children count as “working full time”?


2 posted on 08/26/2020 8:12:18 AM PDT by BenLurkin (The above is not a statement of fact. It is either opinion or satire. Or both.)
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To: Kaslin

After sitting in the parents’ section of the Stanford football players of 2012 - 2016, including 3 Rose Bowls, I’ve learned that Stanford moms kick butt!


3 posted on 08/26/2020 8:13:13 AM PDT by LittleBillyInfidel (This tagline has been formatted to fit the screen. Some content has been edited.)
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To: Kaslin

Maybe my ideas don’t jibe but being a mom is an eighteen year job. It’s hard doing both. I’ve seen women busting their butts trying to raise a family and get a degree. Not many succeed in both. Just personal observation I’d suggest a woman needs to pick one or end up failing at both( most)


4 posted on 08/26/2020 8:15:10 AM PDT by Karliner (Heb 4:12 Rom 8:28 Rev 3, "...This is the end of the beginning." Churchill)
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To: Kaslin

While obviously true, this idea is fundamentally anti-feminist, anti-leftist and anti-post-modern.

Except for a few intelligent parents, American society will plug their ears and ignore such information.


5 posted on 08/26/2020 8:18:16 AM PDT by PGR88
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To: Kaslin
Capitalism may be better than socialism, but capitalism wants women to work.

There needs to be something other than economic pressure to guide peoples' behavior or the demographic transition will depopulate the Earth.

6 posted on 08/26/2020 8:20:19 AM PDT by who_would_fardels_bear
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To: Kaslin

[“The additional time, energy and attention that stay-at-home-mothers were able to devote to supervising their children’s studies and peer interactions and to participating in school-related volunteer efforts seem to have paid off in terms of their offspring’s academic success,” study author Nicholas Zill said in a statement.]


Kellyanne Conway’s issues with her eldest daughter are a case in point. While she is out saving the world, she is raising the enemy within. Unless there are grandparents actively involved on a day-to-day basis, and living in the same household, there is no substitute for active parenting.


7 posted on 08/26/2020 8:21:44 AM PDT by Zhang Fei (My dad had a Delta 88. That was a car. It was like driving your living room.)
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To: Kaslin

AOC would say that’s white privilege!


8 posted on 08/26/2020 8:23:46 AM PDT by sickoflibs (BREAKING NEWS: BLM cures COVID-19, it's safe to go out and protest Trump again.)
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To: Kaslin

The most ideal situation for a human child is to be raised by both of his two living parents until maturity. Mom in the home.

Anything less than that is short of ideal. In that case have to do the best we can. But it’s what we should strive for.


9 posted on 08/26/2020 8:24:52 AM PDT by Persevero (I am afraid propriety has been set at naught. - Jane Austen)
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To: Zhang Fei

It’s amusing to hear men on this site blame Kellyanne Conway for her daughter’s behavior. The kid is a bad seed and her father is obviously a bad role model. Why not blame the father at least equally?


10 posted on 08/26/2020 8:25:00 AM PDT by ladyjane
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To: who_would_fardels_bear

In my unscientific observation families who have mom at home and dad working do very well, capitalistically speaking.

There are great hidden costs to not having mom at home. Like divorce, affairs, childcare, house cleaning, maintenance of everything, support for husband to go get it, driving, cooking, all that.


11 posted on 08/26/2020 8:27:15 AM PDT by Persevero (I am afraid propriety has been set at naught. - Jane Austen)
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To: Kaslin

There was a meta study that came out a couple of decades ago that said the same thing. On all measures of well-being, achievement, etc. mother care produced the best result. The number two position I think was religious orphanages. Third party care including nannies, grandparents and day care were not so good.


12 posted on 08/26/2020 8:29:34 AM PDT by Varda
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To: PGR88

I think most women that are middle class earners want to stay home, unfortunately it is difficult to afford this. I would like to see the federal government provide tax incentives/lower taxes to encourage mother’s to stay home, while Dad goes to work.


13 posted on 08/26/2020 8:29:43 AM PDT by ThisLittleLightofMine
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To: BenLurkin
Black Children Matter: They need stable, 2-parent families. Only the Black community can change the culture.
14 posted on 08/26/2020 8:36:28 AM PDT by ActresponsiblyinVA
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To: ThisLittleLightofMine

***I think most women that are middle class earners want to stay home, unfortunately it is difficult to afford this.***

It is difficult to afford, epecially if you want a new wardrobe every season, more than one car, a house full of stuff, and vacations twice a year.

Otherwise, there are lots of ways to make one paycheck work. It sure isn’t easy, but it’s doable. Been there, done that.


15 posted on 08/26/2020 8:43:00 AM PDT by FamiliarFace
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To: FamiliarFace
It is difficult to afford, especially if you want a new wardrobe every season, more than one car, a house full of stuff, and vacations twice a year.

Yup. We went from two VERY used cars to one new car, Mrs. Sivana shops at Goodwill online for clothes (some great deals!), no vacations in two years, and just a moderate amount of stuff (though I do keep my work computer very up-to-date). Our children are homeschooled, and my wife shares in the sacrifices so she can concentrate on being a wife and mother.
16 posted on 08/26/2020 8:54:50 AM PDT by Dr. Sivana (There is no salvation in politics)
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To: who_would_fardels_bear

No. Greed wants women to work. My buddy one of seven children was raised by a stay at home mom with a working dad because they put raising a family over possessions. They live in a small home have one car and seem to be well raised and happy as clams.


17 posted on 08/26/2020 9:22:13 AM PDT by Mouton (The media is the enemy of the people.)
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To: Kaslin

Water is wet. Story at 11. Kids with attentive stay-at-home parent(s) do better in school. No shit.


18 posted on 08/26/2020 9:22:47 AM PDT by strider44
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To: Kaslin

Woh rich kids get into good schools. Go figure.


19 posted on 08/26/2020 9:25:55 AM PDT by discostu (Like a dog being shown a card trick)
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To: Persevero

Having both parents working results in a lot more expenses, like daycare, needing two cars, etc. Subtract all those extra costs, and you’ll find that unless both work very high paying jobs, it’s not that economically advantageous.


20 posted on 08/26/2020 9:26:17 AM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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