A close friend of mine just left seminary because of the rampant homosexual activity that is going on there. When he told me the intimacies, I was shocked and disgusted. This might well be the first place to begin. The issue is critical in the "Orders". I was told by another friend who was eventually ordained as a diocesan priest, that it is the "exception" in many of the "orders" to be straight.
Just out of curiosity, was the seminary that he went to generally regarded as conservative or liberal?