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Schools, Kids and Whippings
Sierra Times ^ | Dorothy Anne Seese

Posted on 05/20/2002 9:54:04 AM PDT by Sir Gawain

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To: ThomasJefferson
Why is paddling worse than sending a child home so that his mother loses her income to keep him at home and he gets behind in school? Is expelling a child better than paddling them?

You are gagging on a gnat and swallowing a camel.

41 posted on 05/20/2002 12:41:30 PM PDT by AppyPappy
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To: WileyC
Private schools would eliminate the problems raised by you in your post #39.
42 posted on 05/20/2002 12:43:17 PM PDT by Protagoras
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To: riley1992
I am not at the school and the school does not tell me everything.

Let's use an example: My son was attacked by two students. The normal punishment is suspension but they couldn't suspend the children because the parents refused the suspension because they worked. They tried to take away their recess but the teachers didn't have anyone to watch them in the classroom. So they told the kids not to do it again and told my son to stay away from the kids. They attacked another student. Same treatment. The school has no real way of punishing kids. If you know any good methods, they would love to hear it.

43 posted on 05/20/2002 12:49:14 PM PDT by AppyPappy
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To: AppyPappy
Why is paddling worse than sending a child home so that his mother loses her income to keep him at home and he gets behind in school? Is expelling a child better than paddling them?

Private education would make this a mute point. Each parent gets to make the choice of how their children are educated in a free society.

I choose to have other things happen which do not involve physical touching on my children. You are free to choose otherwise.

Perhaps you would like a system which would allow parents in government schools the ability to formally cede their parental rights to physical punishment to government employees on a person by person basis. Merely speculation.

You are gagging on a gnat and swallowing a camel.

I have no idea what this phrase means.

44 posted on 05/20/2002 12:49:53 PM PDT by Protagoras
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To: AppyPappy
My son was attacked by two students.

This is called assault.

If you know any good methods, they would love to hear it.

It should be refered to the police for criminal action.

45 posted on 05/20/2002 12:53:34 PM PDT by Protagoras
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To: ThomasJefferson
You object to small things while ignoring the big things
46 posted on 05/20/2002 12:53:57 PM PDT by AppyPappy
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To: Sir Gawain
Spare the rod - spoil the child! It was true in the 1700's and it's still true today.
47 posted on 05/20/2002 12:54:23 PM PDT by sandydipper
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To: AppyPappy
Okay, I have no idea if that was a hypothetical situation or not but assuming it wasn't, your child needs to be placed in a school that is able to function with some modicum of responsibility then. You cannot force others to parent their children the way you want them to (even though God knows we all wish we could at times). Your responsibilty is to your child and if that is the sort of school he is in, it should be your top priority to get him out.
48 posted on 05/20/2002 12:54:27 PM PDT by riley1992
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To: ThomasJefferson
The police don't care what happens in kindergarten.
49 posted on 05/20/2002 12:54:29 PM PDT by AppyPappy
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To: riley1992
No no no. I paid for that school. Why should I run away? It's not my fault it happened. It seems more logical to me that the school should fix the situation.
50 posted on 05/20/2002 12:56:05 PM PDT by AppyPappy
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To: AppyPappy
You can consider it running away when it is your safety at stake. When it is your child's safety, it is not called running away. It is called responsible parenting.
51 posted on 05/20/2002 12:58:18 PM PDT by riley1992
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To: ThomasJefferson
If you have personally never spanked your children then you are indeed lucky....or they are...LOL.

All I know is that yes, I have spanked my progeny with my hand and will continue to do so for the foreseeable future. When I was in public school until the great busing pograms began in 1970, corporal punishment was swift and sure and the schools were better for it. Nowadays, public school teachers I know lament the lack of control in the classroom and of course have no discipline but detention and suspension. Private schools I attended had serious corporal punishment and there was no exception unless in a wheelchair or something of that nature or being a girl.

52 posted on 05/20/2002 1:00:07 PM PDT by wardaddy
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To: riley1992
It's not a safety issue. It's a discipline issue. He is perfectly safe.
53 posted on 05/20/2002 1:00:24 PM PDT by AppyPappy
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To: ThomasJefferson
The problem is that the single mothers can't met out dicipline.

The boys run rough-shod on them... and the teachers at school.

The parents should be the one to met out punishment, not the schools.

If the child is warned to be quiet and behave... and does not, he/she should be removed from school.

2 bad kids left to disrupt a class will stop the learning process for all.

It's a no-brainer and had worked for over 100 years... prior to the last 20.

54 posted on 05/20/2002 1:01:41 PM PDT by johnny7
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To: AppyPappy
You object to small things while ignoring the big things

We don't agree on what things are big and what things are small it seems. I think you have it precisely backwards.

My children's rights to be secure in their person and my rights to raise my children without other people physically assaulting them are big things IMO.

55 posted on 05/20/2002 1:03:00 PM PDT by Protagoras
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To: johnny7
I agree with all the things you said. None of them require corporal punishment.
56 posted on 05/20/2002 1:04:25 PM PDT by Protagoras
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To: AppyPappy
Your son was attacked and the kids who did it received little or no punishment and yet you are saying it is not a safety issue? I suppose then you must have received a signed and notarized statement from the two angelic little attackers promising to never do it again since they are certain to have changed their ways without receiving so much as detention?

You already said they turned around and did it to another student yet you are saying it is not a safety issue?

57 posted on 05/20/2002 1:06:13 PM PDT by riley1992
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To: AppyPappy
The police don't care what happens in kindergarten.

Neither do I. So I can surmise that you also think that I should cede to some government employee the right to HIT MY KINDERGARTENER? That is what this is all about, the right to hit 5 yr olds? They used to make us wear dunce caps and sit behind the piano.

58 posted on 05/20/2002 1:09:11 PM PDT by Protagoras
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To: Sir Gawain
This entire article is a mishmash of sob-story anecdotes. Why not just come out and say, "I don't believe in corporal punishment because I've had sucky experiences with it." Geezus.

"Okay so I don't have kids of my own"

Okay another ditzy dame...
I don't got no anklebiters either but I know what a hellraiser I was when I was young enough to hold down, and I for damn sure deserved every a$$-whack I got. Any kid o' mine is going to get the almighty devil beaten outta him when occasion dictates. That's the only way most kids learn.

Every anti-spanker I've met seems to have one of the following rationales:
1. History of abuse in immediate family.
2. Some liberal hoity-toity white-linen idea that inflicting pain to get your point across is uncouth, violent and primitive.
3. "Spanking??! What kind of kinky b@st@rd ARE you! [SMACK]" ;)

59 posted on 05/20/2002 1:10:00 PM PDT by maxwell
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To: ThomasJefferson
They aren't going to HIT your delicate little 5 year-old. Geez, put the hyperbole down.
60 posted on 05/20/2002 1:13:25 PM PDT by AppyPappy
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