[steve-b]

Well, forgive me, but how do you know you're homosexual if you haven't acted on your feelings in some way?

What a moron. One might as well ask how you know Anna Kournikova is hot if you haven't stalked her.

[xzins]

Actually, all you describe is that people like to have sexual release.

Now....there's a revelation.

Some will decide to accomplish that with anything. Others will accomplish that according to natural order.

Until you act out a behavior, you simply haven't yet chosen the unnatural route. Whether men with men, men with animals, men with rubber dolls -- the question is whether their sense of control will permit release with anything they can get their hands on.