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How to be a Catholic
National Catholic Register ^ | December 12, 2003

Posted on 12/23/2003 10:21:26 AM PST by NYer

catholic.net How to be a Catholic
by The National Catholic Register
December 12, 2003 / Pope John Paul II outlined a clear program for the future of the Church in his 2001 apostolic letter Novo Millennio Ineunte (At the Beginning of the New Millennium).

His plan is brilliant in its simplicity: promote Sunday Mass, confession, prayer and community service. These four Register How to be a Catholic Guidethings are easy to promote and life-changing.

To help Catholics take up the Holy Father’s challenge The National Catholic Register has produced four guides in Adobe Acrobat .pdf format for you to download, print out and pass on.

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TOPICS: Activism; Apologetics; Catholic; Current Events; Ecumenism; General Discusssion; Ministry/Outreach; Prayer; Religion & Culture; Theology; Worship
KEYWORDS: catholic; children; confession; guides; mass; prayer

1 posted on 12/23/2003 10:21:27 AM PST by NYer
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To: american colleen; sinkspur; Lady In Blue; Salvation; Polycarp; narses; SMEDLEYBUTLER; redhead; ...
We all know someone who is a lapsed catholic. Many of us have been there at some point in our own lives. With Christmas only days away, this might be a good time to invite someone to attend Christmas mass with you. The resources provided on this link are excellent as handouts. The following may be just the inspiration you or a friend needs at this time.

Come home for Christmas!
Invite a friend to visit this page

HollyLine

Won't you come ...In a short time Christmas will be here! Christmas can be an exciting and fulfilling time for us. We know that the holiday season brings certain feelings of loneliness as well. We miss those who have died. We miss those who will not be Home for Christmas.

As Church families we prepare for Christmas as well. We pray in a special way for those who have died. We look forward in a special way to greet family members and parishioners who will be Home for Christmas. We also prepare to celebrate with those who seem to attend  Church only at Christmas and other Holidays.

Statistics tell us that a large majority of those who do not attend Church regularly would return if they were asked. Reasons for staying away are many. Some simply have gotten out of the habit of attending and a little extra sleep is nice. For others there might be misunderstandings of Church teachings and policies. Some might feel they are unwelcome to attend due to invalid marriages or other similar issues. Others might have been hurt by the Church, a parishioner or our parish family. Some might have a fear of the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Others might have struggles with their faith and may not know how to come for help. Some might feel embarrassed to return after a period of absence. Lack of attendance does not mean they no longer think of the Church or that they do not wish to return. Sometimes they simply need to know they are missed and have a graceful opportunity to return.

Part of our Christian Mission is Evangelization. We are to reach out in faith and welcome others. I would like us to consider an Evangelization project. I'm sure you know of someone who no longer attends Church or does so infrequently. Perhaps you have heard someone speak of faith difficulties they might be having. Certainly, the best thing to do is to approach that person and let them know what you are feeling. Tell them you miss them and would welcome their return. Offer to attend Church or a Parish Activity with them. Help them to obtain any assistance they might need from the Church.

Take a few minutes to consider those you "miss" when you attend Church. Let's keep them in your prayers. Consider how you might invite them to return. You might invite them by adapting part of this letter, sending an e-mail, making a phone call or any of a number of creative ways of letting them know you'd be happy to see them come Home for Christmas.

Perhaps you yourself have become more distant from the Church. Let me apologize for anything the Church may have done to harm you. Feel free to contact me too, to help you start the kind of dialogue that can heal the wounds. Consider attending a Church near you this Christmas! Last year a number of our "cyber-parishioners" expressed gratitude for our group and the fact that they read the Christmas readings and homily at our Web Site and "felt" like they belonged to a Church for the first time in a long while. That makes me so happy!  It's even nicer though, to gather with our sisters and brothers and praise and thank God together. Perhaps many of us will do that this year!

If you've been sent to this Web Page by a friend, we hope you aren't offended.  I hope you don'thome for Christmas? see it as meddling, but as a simple loving invitation.  It's often not easy, even for family members and friends, to talk about topics like this one.  I hope you consider their effort a positive and loving gesture.  Perhaps their invitation and your visit can open a conversation that can be nice for both of you.  

Please don't be judgmental of anybody or pressure others to do what they don't want to do. Just provide a welcome and an open door if that seems appropriate. Let them know when Services are held as well.  Christmas is always nicer when everybody's home. Let's pray that many may come "Home for Christmas!"

Christmas Eve Masses here at Holy Family are at 5:15 PM, 8:00 PM and at Midnight. Masses Christmas Day are at 8:30 AM and 10:30 AM.  May God continue to bless you and those you love, and keep you safe!

Visit our new Evangelization Web Site, too:

Sincerely,

Father Pat



2 posted on 12/23/2003 10:31:25 AM PST by NYer (Keep CHRIST in Christmas!)
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To: NYer
Is the instruction "Hold nose through Mass except when receiving the Host" found therein? Or "One must genuflect before plugging your ears with your fingers to suppress the Oregon Catholic Press heresy being sung during the offertory"? How about "Be sure to suppress urge to beat the snot out of the heretic priest who says that gay marriage is OK until Mass is over"? Or maybe "Say five hail Maries to purge the urge to beat the bishop with his own crozier for allowing a child rapist to be your pastor"?

I'm a Roman from the cradle, but I very much appreciate the sign in front of the Springfield Church (where Homer Simpson attends): "Welcome p---ed-off Catholics". Unfortuately for a true Roman there is truly no where else to go.
3 posted on 12/23/2003 10:32:38 AM PST by Ronly Bonly Jones
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To: NYer
***We all know someone who is a lapsed catholic. Many of us have been there at some point in our own lives. With Christmas only days away, this might be a good time to invite someone to attend Christmas mass with you.***

Thanks for the invite. After three days in FR Purgatory Sensitivity Training (earning a 3rd degree) I am feeling so ecumenical. And it would look good on my resume come conclave time.

Have a wonderful Christmas celebrating the birth of the Savior.

- Pope Piel I
4 posted on 12/23/2003 10:44:31 AM PST by drstevej
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To: drstevej
After three days in FR Purgatory Sensitivity Training (earning a 3rd degree) I am feeling so ecumenical.

Welcome back Dr Steve.

5 posted on 12/23/2003 10:46:02 AM PST by NeoCaveman (The only thing found in the middle of the road are yellow streaks and roadkill)
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To: dubyaismypresident
Thanks Dubya. You will definitely be a Cardinal in the future!
6 posted on 12/23/2003 10:47:28 AM PST by drstevej
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To: Ronly Bonly Jones
What state do you live in? Their may be a indult Tridentine mass in your area.
7 posted on 12/23/2003 11:08:07 AM PST by NeoCaveman (The only thing found in the middle of the road are yellow streaks and roadkill)
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To: dubyaismypresident
I am currently in the Archheresiarchy of Detroit, where Trids Need Not Apply. Alas.
8 posted on 12/23/2003 11:12:04 AM PST by Ronly Bonly Jones
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To: Ronly Bonly Jones
I don't understand why the Vatican simply can't translate the Tridentine Rite into proper English (not New Living Bible English). If the Medieval Rites, which were replaced by the Tridentine, could be translated into respectable English (see Book of Common Prayer) so can the Tridentine.
I have heard rumors of Catholics experimenting with the 1928 BCP. The Orthodox are already occasionally sanctioning its use (mainly for congregations that convert to Orthodoxy as a whole).
9 posted on 12/23/2003 11:24:22 AM PST by bobjam
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To: bobjam
I don't understand why the Vatican simply can't translate the Tridentine Rite into proper English (not New Living Bible English). >>>

Because the heresiarchs would be admitting defeat. It's more important to damn the innocent then reveal the guilty.
10 posted on 12/23/2003 11:25:28 AM PST by Ronly Bonly Jones
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To: NYer
Thanks for posting this, NYer.

Merry Christmas


11 posted on 12/23/2003 11:27:44 AM PST by Victoria Delsoul (Freedom isn't won by soundbites but by the unyielding determination and sacrifice given in its cause)
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To: NYer
How did I know you would post this!???
12 posted on 12/23/2003 11:28:31 AM PST by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Ronly Bonly Jones
I was wondering if you were joking or not here........
13 posted on 12/23/2003 11:30:01 AM PST by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: bobjam; Ronly Bonly Jones
Is this just a bad "Catholic" Day for both of you?

Or is your glass of living only half empty?

Where is your gratitude that your two feet even hit the floor this morning? I'm dismayed by your comments.
14 posted on 12/23/2003 11:32:33 AM PST by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Salvation
I wish I were joking.

But I remain a Catholic, a believing Catholic, in spite of the excrement Christ's servants have daubed on the Church in His name.
15 posted on 12/23/2003 11:35:50 AM PST by Ronly Bonly Jones
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To: Ronly Bonly Jones
Thanks for your reply.

And in return, let me ask this question:

What are you doing to make things better in your parish?
With your pastoral council? Are you giving them feedback so that they might be alerted to some problems (Abuses of the GIRM for example?)
Your diocese? (Believe me, write a letter, and you will be heard!)
16 posted on 12/23/2003 11:50:43 AM PST by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Salvation
And in return, let me ask this question:

What are you doing to make things better in your parish? >>

At this instant? Attempting to keep my four year old from howling during the Consecration, and keeping my two year old from running up the aisle, while my beloved spouse keeps the seven year old in a hammerlock for the duration of the liturgy. I'm sure you know what it's like to have a basketful of puppies in church.

With your pastoral council? Are you giving them feedback so that they might be alerted to some problems (Abuses of the GIRM for example?) >>>

We are currently attending an Eastern Rite parish, which is less rank than most in the Detroit area, but still pretty heretical (our first Sundah there the priest told us that the Miracle of the Loaves consisted of a crowd of people choosing to share lunch). But since it's Eastern Rite, if you're not one of the Old Families, forget about serving on the parish council.

Your diocese? (Believe me, write a letter, and you will be heard!)
17 posted on 12/23/2003 11:55:21 AM PST by Ronly Bonly Jones
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To: Ronly Bonly Jones
Your diocese? (Believe me, write a letter, and you will be heard!)>>

Letter-writers is why God invented shredders. The unexorcised spirit of John+ Cardinal Dearden still hangs over Detroit like a pall.
18 posted on 12/23/2003 11:56:54 AM PST by Ronly Bonly Jones
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To: Salvation
Your diocese? (Believe me, write a letter, and you will be heard!)

C'mon, this is outrageous, and you must know it if you have ever written to the diocese. Clearly it is a complete waste of time to write to the diocese. None of my letters have even been acknowledged, none the less answered. I used to live in the Boston diocese where I wrote several letters to Cardinal Law that were never acknowledged. Once after I wrote a follow-up saying, "At least you could acknowledge receipt of my previous letter, it wasn't anonymous," I got back a form letter saying "Your concerns have been forwarded to your local deanery." But I didn't even get the form letter until I complained.

And it wasn't only me. Just a couple weeks ago the priest who refused to implement the outrageous program "Talking about Touching" said that none of his letters to the chancery were ever even acknowledged. And he's a PASTOR! The new archbishop finally responded after the story was making headlines in the Boston newspapers and Michael Rose was reporting on it.

19 posted on 12/23/2003 12:21:42 PM PST by Maximilian
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To: Ronly Bonly Jones
What are you doing to make things better in your parish?

If you live in a typical New Mass parish, there is only thing you can do to "make things better": leave! Go someplace where you will be given the true Catholic faith. The alternative is to stay and watch the faith of your children be insidiously destroyed. There is nothing you can do in that situation to improve things other than leaving, because the only solution is grace, and there is no grace to be gotten in a parish that is making a mockery out of the Catholic faith.

20 posted on 12/23/2003 12:28:21 PM PST by Maximilian
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To: Ronly Bonly Jones; Maximilian
I placed three phones calls to the diocesan office last week regarding an urgent matter. The secretaries have been very nice and one even wrote up a memo for the intended.

I've still received no response.
21 posted on 12/23/2003 12:33:13 PM PST by Canticle_of_Deborah
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To: Ronly Bonly Jones
--I am currently in the Archheresiarchy of Detroit, where Trids Need Not Apply. Alas.--


I share your sentiment. I've started going to the Tridentine mass in Windsor at St. Michael's. Its only a couple miles from the bridge.

here is a webpage for St. Michael's
http://www.birdata.com/latin/home.htm

maybe you've already been there?
22 posted on 12/23/2003 12:41:28 PM PST by marcus29
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To: Ronly Bonly Jones

Try a visit to Assumption Grotto in Detroit.
23 posted on 12/23/2003 1:45:01 PM PST by RFT1
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To: Maximilian; Ronly Bonly Jones; Salvation; Victoria Delsoul; sandyeggo; Akron Al
Clearly it is a complete waste of time to write to the diocese.

WRONG! Perhaps you were not on my ping list last year when I shared my letter asking for feedback on an impending abuse by my pastor. At the time, at my pastor's own request, I was teaching a Confirmation class. One night, the DRE (Director for Rel. Ed.), opened the classroom door, stuck her head in and asked for 'volunteers' to perform a liturgical dance on the feast of St. Lucy. That same week, our diocesan newspaper ran a full page story on another diocesan parish where liturgical dance had grown so popular with the youth that they were planning to videotape their performances and export these to parishes across the US.

Long story short, I spoke with the DRE and gave her a copy of the bishop's directives that banned liturgical dance. She was stunned! (hint ... the pastor had planted this idea in her head). I thought the self-explanatory documents had ended the situation. Not so. The following week, she once again stuck her head through the door to call out the volunteers from the previous week. I went to the pastor. He spoke about the Srs. of St. Joseph in the Provincial House (where he is their spiritual director) and how they dance at all the masses. It was now my turn to be shocked.

The following week, the 'confirmandi' were brought to confession in preparation for Christmas. When some hesitated, I got in line ... with the pastor. When it was my turn, I made my confession which included my shock at him 'using' catholic youth to promote a practice that was banned by the USCCB. He smiled and suggested that perhaps a better term was 'liturgical movement'. That was it! I wrote to the Diocesan Office for Liturgy and Divine Worship. Before doing so, I gathered together all documentation pertinent to the topic and quoted it in my letter. In their response, the diocese initially supported the pastor, citing some arcane document on 'multi-culturalism'. Undeterred, I wrote back. Latham NY is far removed from anything even remotely resembling a multi-cultural community. More specifically, I cited Vatican II documentation to support my argument and sealed the final paragraph by quoting Canon Law - "Every catholic is entitled to a valid mass".

In their response, they tried to "wiggle" their way out of their initial admission. Final determination - NO liturgical dance at my parish! My pastor was fit to be tied but cancelled the 'planned' liturgical dance at the Christmas Eve vigil mass. I'm not done with him! There are still two other abuses to be addressed, one of which renders the Sunday masses illicit.

KNOW YOUR FACTS! Document everything - dates, times, names - leave nothing out. Next, refer to this link and use those resources in your letter. Trust me, you will grab attention. And, if that doesn't resolve the issue, go higher. If you must contact the Vatican to deal with abuse, then write to:

Cardinal Francis Arinze
Prefect - Congregation for Divine Worship
Piazza Pio XII, 10
Vatican City (Europe) 00120

IS YOUR MASS VALID? LITURGICAL ABUSE

Need help writing a letter that grabs attention, DO NOT HESITATE to ask me. I will be more than happy to help you out. Cardinal Arinze has been a guest on EWTN's "World Over Live" with Raymond Arroyo. He has no qualms about taking bishops and/or priests to task for denying catholics their rights, under Canon Law.

24 posted on 12/23/2003 5:15:48 PM PST by NYer (Keep CHRIST in Christmas!)
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To: NYer
Keep up the good work. I remember the post. Our diocese is now adhering to the new GIRM.
26 posted on 12/23/2003 7:38:19 PM PST by Coleus (God is Pro-Life & Straight & gave us an innate predisposition for protection and self preservation)
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To: 2ndMostConservativeBrdMember; afraidfortherepublic; Alas; al_c; american colleen; annalex; ...
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27 posted on 12/23/2003 7:38:33 PM PST by Coleus (God is Pro-Life & Straight & gave us an innate predisposition for protection and self preservation)
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To: NYer
"Give thanks to the Lord for He is good. You respond: "For His mercy endures forever." The priest will then conclude with: "The Lord has freed you from your sins. Go in peace."

What is this scat?

These vile catamites of Satan have taken us from "Ego te Absolvo" through "I absolve you" to "The Lord has freed you."

Next, no doubt, is "If it feels good, do it, and for your penance, I want you to relieve the sexual tensions of ten of your brothers and sisters."
28 posted on 12/23/2003 9:06:48 PM PST by dsc
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To: NYer
I'm reminded of the story of the dance-averse Bishop (there are a few, amazingly) who went to a parish for his annual visit. In the middle of Mass, a 'liturgical dancer' traipsed up the aisle and dropped a rose at his feet as he stood before the Altar.

The Bishop looked at the Priest. "If she wants your head on a platter, she'll get it."
29 posted on 12/24/2003 6:38:34 AM PST by Ronly Bonly Jones
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To: Ronly Bonly Jones
The Bishop looked at the Priest. "If she wants your head on a platter, she'll get it."

ROFL!! That eliminates two bishops who are good friends here in NY - Albany bishop Howard Hubbard and Rochester bishop Matthew Clark. There is an active competition between them insofar as who can wreak the most damage.

Hubbard is proud to have unleashed one of his priests, Fr. Dr. Richard Vosko, a/k/a "the wreakovator". Vosko has just been awarded the 2003 award from the Georgetown Center for Liturgy in Washington, DC for contributions to the liturgical life of the church. He was cited for his "visionary, courageous and influential work" in assisting american parishes with building and renovating worship spaces. Here is an example of "his vision". (He practiced in the Albany diocese before extending his wrecking ball across the US and the world). This one is tame by comparison to his more recent "inspiratioins".

Assumption/St. Paul Church,
Mechanicville, New York


Before Renovation


After Renovation

Not to be outdone, bishop Clark in Rochester has set the souls of many catholics on fire with his ongoing renovations throughout the diocese, especially Sacred Heard cathedral, where Bishop Sheen once preached. (I will try to post some pictures. For some reason, these pix don't always translate into FR land.)

"The Rite of Rededication of the Church and Annonting of the Altar" by Bishop Matthew H. Clark, Sunday 2/18/01, St. Ambrose Church, Rochester NY


The altar table cloth was then danced down the aisle by two "vestal girls". (an alternative term for liturgical dance?)


Having spread the "gleeful news" up and down the aisles, the "vestal girls" gathered in the center aisle and "joyfully" twirled their way to the baptismal font. where they deposited their incense at the font, which was a "focal point" of this "rededication"


The rededicated "many a buck" baptismal font, where the babbling brook of chlorinated water flows. NBC reported cost of $800,000 to move tabernacle, remove relics, round pews, and build "daily Mass chapel" where baptistry was. Somebody said we could have spent that on scholarships for inner city kids to attend Catholic schools. She was told to "lighten up".

The source web site was constructed by one very angry catholic who has made it his mission to document ALL the events in the Rochester diocese. A must visit

DOMUS DEI

30 posted on 12/24/2003 8:13:57 AM PST by NYer (Keep CHRIST in Christmas!)
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