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My Pregnant Wife II: Unexpected issue in the Culture War - Circumcision.
Immient Arrival ^ | 19 May 2005 | Gobucks

Posted on 05/19/2005 5:39:11 PM PDT by gobucks

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To: PFKEY
As far as aesthetics are concerned I say a circumcised member looks better.

That question was posed on Seinfeld. The character Elaine says, 'it had no face, no personality.'

Looks like a Corvet (sp?) to me. Sort of like those manufactured in the 70s or later.

41 posted on 05/19/2005 7:29:52 PM PDT by AlbionGirl ('Conscience is a mother-in-law whose visit never ends.' - H L Mencken)
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To: Leapfrog
Okay, my network seems to be working now, but I cannot find any relevant reference in Galatians.

I'm not sure how to respond other than by questioning your honesty.

Please provide chapter and verse.

I do not believe your request is honest, but I'll nevertheless provide it for the benefit of lurkers who might be genuinely ignorant.

5:2-6.

42 posted on 05/19/2005 7:33:30 PM PDT by A.J.Armitage (http://calvinist-libertarians.blogspot.com/)
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To: TheWriterTX
If you don't circumcise, your son can experience fusion of the uncircumcised skin to the penis. Just this past year, my son wanted to bathe like a big boy (he's 5 years old);

Before you screw up your son's penis forever, perhaps you should look into this a little more.

An uncircumcised penis is not supposed to be retractable until sometime between age 5 and age 15. There is absolutely nothing wrong with your son. I'm natural, and mine didn't partially retract until I was 8, and didn't fully retract until puberty. This is a perfectly natural condition and there is nothing wrong with it. DON'T TRY TO FORCE IT BACK! You'll only damage the penis. Just leave it alone. The foreskin is there to protect the glans from contamination during youth, when it has no sexual function.

We are consulting with a pediatric urologist about having it done

Get a second opinion! There is nothing wrong with your son! Your doctor is a quack who doesn't know what he is talking about!

Get it done while he's a little one, can't mess with it, and is far too young to remember the pain of it.

Your son will regret it forever if you circumcise him.

43 posted on 05/19/2005 7:36:03 PM PDT by Hermann the Cherusker
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To: Leapfrog

I don't know about the medical or aesthetic considerations. Apparently, a lot of people and professionals believe that circumcision is healthier and most women say they prefer it (although I'd bet most sexually active women have never had sex with an uncircumcised male so they wouldn't really know the difference, just what they're told).

But I can tell you from a standpoint of faith, circumcision is not a requirement and it doesn't mean anything with regard to one's Christianity. I don't know how Paul could have made this more clear. Christians are circumcised in the HEART. It is not that circumcision is done away with, but from the Christian standpoint, it is the REAL circumcision of the HEART that counts. Apparently, this was a major problem in the early congregation, as Jewish converts frequently tried to make Gentile converts get circumcised. They had a hard time grasping that circumcision was always a symbolic representation. Requiring physicial circumcision is requiring that the Law be followed, and not the law of love. If you require physical circumcision then you have to require everything else.

In fact, Paul said that uncircumcised persons who didn't know about the law but were still righteous (i.e. Abel, Noah, Enoch, etc.), then they would be counted as circumcised. Therefore, the same with Christians. Circumcision is a great example of how Jesus came, not to do away with the Law, but to FULFILL it. For Christians, circumcision is deeper than a physical act, and requiring the physical act would be an attempt to obey a Law we cannot fully obey.

Romans 2:25-28: "Circumcision is, in fact, of benefit only if you practice law; but if you are a transgressor of law, your circumcision has become uncircumcision. If, therefore, an uncircumcised person keeps the righteous requirements of the Law, his uncircumcision will be counted as circumcision will it not? And the uncircumcised person that is such by nature will, by carrying out the Law, judge you who with its written code and circumcision are a transgressor of law. FOR HE IS NOT A JEW WHO IS ONE ON THE OUTSIDE, NOR IS CIRCUMCISION THAT WHICH IS ON THE OUTSIDE UPON THE FLESH. BUT HE IS A JEW WHO IS ONE ON THE INSIDE, AND HIS CIRCUMCISION IS THAT OF THE HEART BY SPIRIT, AND NOT BY A WRITTEN CODE. The praise of that one comes, not from men, but from God."


44 posted on 05/19/2005 7:37:08 PM PDT by DameAutour
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To: TheWriterTX
Jimminiy cricket! Your doctor's are total idiots!

Well, we did as we were instructed, and the fusion problem first occurred when my son was 18 months old. It was discovered when a different pediatrician retracted him completely and he howled in pain. The foreskin swelled and was red for two days (my poor baby). Still, the fusion problem had already started.

The foreskin is not meant to retract in young children. It is a sexual organ meant to function when a boy is ready for sex, at puberty, and not before then. Retracting it in infants and toddlers scars the glans and foreskin and makes them both bleed and possibly fuse to each other in attempting to heal. You don't need to clean under the foreskin of an infant or toddler or young child. Just leave it alone!

45 posted on 05/19/2005 7:40:36 PM PDT by Hermann the Cherusker
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To: cyborg
No son of mine is getting that barbaric procedure. Why get it done if a person isn't Jewish or Muslim?

Well, a lot of the Jewish law's proscriptions and instructions had very valid medical purposes. For example, forbidding the consumption of shellfish prevents the possibility of food poisoning, and cleanliness requirements help stop the spread of disease (e.g. food, medical care). At this point in time, we do not know what medical benefits circumcision provides. This does not mean, however, that no benefits exist and will be discovered in the future. Thus, it may be a good idea to "play it safe" and obtain the procedure.
46 posted on 05/19/2005 7:41:11 PM PDT by hispanichoosier
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To: Hermann the Cherusker
It is the equivalent for males of the barbaric procedures in Africa where little girls have their clitoris and vulva (the vaginal lips) cut off.

Why would you think to say something so silly?

47 posted on 05/19/2005 7:44:42 PM PDT by A.J.Armitage (http://calvinist-libertarians.blogspot.com/)
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To: hispanichoosier

I understand that but the evidence isn't convincing enough to me to subject my son to that.


48 posted on 05/19/2005 7:45:01 PM PDT by cyborg (Serving fresh, hot Anti-opus since 18 April 2005)
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To: Hermann the Cherusker
It is the equivalent for males of the barbaric procedures in Africa where little girls have their clitoris and vulva (the vaginal lips) cut off.

Regardless of whether I am pro or con, that statement is a gross exaggeration.

To be "equivalent" to a cliterectomy, the male circumcision would require excision of the entire glans penis (head of the penis).

49 posted on 05/19/2005 7:45:41 PM PDT by Polybius
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To: hispanichoosier

The circumcision procedure originally practiced involved snipping off only the very tip of the foreskin.

The Pharisees changed this into the full circumcision of the foreskin around the time of Christ, done by cutting it off with a specially sharpened fingernail.

It had nothing to do with cleanliness, and there is absolutely zero evidence that circumcision does anything for a male except make him more susceptible to venereal diseases and deviant sexual practices like anal sex. The six countries with the highest rates of AIDS are Zimbabwe, Congo, Malawi, Kenya, Chad, and the US - all circumcising nations, and with AIDS rates of 16 to 97 per 100,000.

OTOH, non-circumcising nations like Japan, the nordic Countries, and Germany, have AIDS rates of 0.2 to 2.2 per 100,000.

Hardly a coincidence.

"Common speculation tends to link American circumcision practice to AIDS ... [examination of American males] discloses a very significant incidence of persistent suture holes, micro-sinuses, skin tabs and bridges, irregular scaring [near the circumcision scar, and subject to tearing from abrasion]" (Dr. John Swadey, New England Medical Journal, 1987)


50 posted on 05/19/2005 7:48:35 PM PDT by Hermann the Cherusker
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To: A.J.Armitage
Why would you think to say something so silly?

The function of the foreskin in the male sexual organs is the same as the vulva and clitoral tip in the female - it protects the main sexual organs from dirt and contamination and retains fluids and natural lubrication around them (the glans or the vagina) and it serves a locus of sexual pleasure nerves (the foreskin and the vulva and clitoris).

Its only silly to the ignorant circumcised, who have no idea what they are missing.

51 posted on 05/19/2005 7:50:51 PM PDT by Hermann the Cherusker
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To: Polybius
Regardless of whether I am pro or con, that statement is a gross exaggeration.

To be "equivalent" to a cliterectomy, the male circumcision would require excision of the entire glans penis (head of the penis).

Not at all. The glans is the functional equivalent of the female urethra and vaginal opening. The clitoris is functionally equivalent to the male frenulum (which is also cut off in modern circumcision and is a locus of nerves intensely stimulated in sexual activity).

52 posted on 05/19/2005 7:53:24 PM PDT by Hermann the Cherusker
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To: Hermann the Cherusker

Are you a doctor?


53 posted on 05/19/2005 7:54:03 PM PDT by bonfire (dwindler)
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To: A.J.Armitage

Please see Galatians 5:1 to understand the tone of the reference you provided, or indeed the rest of the book.

How about if I ask Moses to ask you to circumcise your heart?

What will you make of that?


54 posted on 05/19/2005 7:54:45 PM PDT by Michael Goldsberry (an enemy of islam -- Joe Boucher; Leapfrog; Dr.Zoidberg; Lazamataz; ...)
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To: John Locke



Thats very unusual since every woman I've known since I was a teenager prefers a cut man. They look, feel and smell better. I have never known any woman to prefer the uncut version.

I had both my sons cut and would recomend it for all boys.


55 posted on 05/19/2005 7:55:22 PM PDT by SouthernFreebird
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To: Hermann the Cherusker
While I appreciate your concern, this is very different from a simple retraction problem; this is the inside of the foreskin fusing to the penis and making retraction impossible. When it was first detected at age 18 months, the foreskin has fused to the lower half of the head of the penis. Thankfully, through gentle pressure, repeated over weeks, we were able to naturally separate the skin without surgery. It may not be possible in this case.

Sadly, this can also happen to little girls. The skin of their opening fuses together. My girlfriend had this happen to her daughter and they had to surgically separate the skin. This was not a circumcision, but a medical procedure to open her up, particularly to ensure the passing of urine.

This doctor IS our second opinion.

As to regretting it, I have two neighbors who had to undergo circumcisions later in life (on at age 12 and one at age 48) due to infections. They both regretted NOT having it done as babies. Despite their situations, we initially decided not to have it done on our son, to leave him as God made him; however, this has not worked out for him.

56 posted on 05/19/2005 7:55:35 PM PDT by TheWriterTX (Proud Retosexual Wife of 12 Years)
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To: bonfire
Are you a doctor?

I am a knowledgeable and experienced uncircumcised male with an uncircumcised son.

57 posted on 05/19/2005 7:55:55 PM PDT by Hermann the Cherusker
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To: SouthernFreebird

The only women who could have valid opinions on such a matter of preference are those who have actually experienced both.


58 posted on 05/19/2005 7:56:42 PM PDT by Hermann the Cherusker
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To: Hermann the Cherusker
i>Your son will regret it forever if you circumcise him.

Why do you think that?

59 posted on 05/19/2005 7:57:41 PM PDT by PFKEY
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To: Hermann the Cherusker

Interesting.


60 posted on 05/19/2005 7:58:28 PM PDT by bonfire (dwindler)
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