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Help! My Priest Admires Parents of Gays and Lesbians (Vanity)
me | 8/27/05 | me

Posted on 08/27/2005 8:24:10 PM PDT by Bush2004

During the homily at Mass today, our new priest was preaching about being "counter-culture" (what that had to do with the readings is beyond me), and said that he admires parents of gays and lesbians.

I was so astonished that he would expose pre-adolescent children to the concept of homosexuality that I had to walk out with our three kids. It's against everything I was always taught, and against Truth and Meaning of Human Sexuality by the Pontifical Council for the Family (which says that homosexuality should not be addressed with children who are not adolescents - age of innocence).

Plus, I immediately thought that he was telling my kids that if they wanted their priest to admire my husband and I, then they should become homosexuals.

Am I wrong in doing this? I value the opinions of my fellow FReepers on this. Does anyone have useful suggestions on how to deal with this priest?


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Please help.
1 posted on 08/27/2005 8:24:23 PM PDT by Bush2004
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To: Bush2004

Call your bishop


4 posted on 08/27/2005 8:28:05 PM PDT by bnelson44 (Proud parent of a tanker!)
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To: Bush2004

Call your bishop


5 posted on 08/27/2005 8:28:09 PM PDT by bnelson44 (Proud parent of a tanker!)
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To: Bush2004

I would send a note to the Bishop and ask if he is aware of the kind of things this priest is teaching.

I would also change churches. It's better to drive a few extra miles, than to belong to a church headed by a priest who is not following the Church's teachings.


6 posted on 08/27/2005 8:28:36 PM PDT by FairOpinion
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To: Bush2004
Am I wrong in doing this

not at all.

7 posted on 08/27/2005 8:28:54 PM PDT by LoneRangerMassachusetts (Some say what's good for others, the others make the goods; it's the meddlers against the peddlers)
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To: Bush2004
He should of said
he admires prays for parents of gays and lesbians
8 posted on 08/27/2005 8:29:14 PM PDT by PaulaB (Shine On Your Crazy Diamond...)
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To: William Creel

I want to fight him, so his filthy indoctrination doesn't harm anybody else.


9 posted on 08/27/2005 8:29:22 PM PDT by Bush2004
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To: Bush2004
I was so astonished that he would expose pre-adolescent children to the concept of homosexuality that I had to walk out with our three kids.

Awesome. You did the right thing.

Let's hope he hasn't been exposing other things to pre-adolescent children.

11 posted on 08/27/2005 8:30:42 PM PDT by Texas Eagle (If it wasn't for double-standards, Liberals would have no standards at all.)
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To: Bush2004

Sounds like a creepy thing to bring up. My personal experience as a kid was that I never listened to what the priest was saying anyway... of course our church was huge and had a bad sound system.


12 posted on 08/27/2005 8:30:50 PM PDT by operation clinton cleanup
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To: bnelson44

Thanks. I'll start the process of getting in contact with him about this tomorrow. There are certain channels that prove most effective.


13 posted on 08/27/2005 8:30:54 PM PDT by Bush2004
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To: Bush2004

He is probably getting ready to come out of the closet himself.


14 posted on 08/27/2005 8:30:56 PM PDT by television is just wrong (http://hehttp://print.google.com/print/doc?articleidisblogs.blogspot.com/ (visit blogs, visit ads).)
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To: Bush2004; NYer; BulldogCatholic

Have the men of the village exercise him. Else maybe one of the pinged has a suggestion.


15 posted on 08/27/2005 8:31:17 PM PDT by spunkets
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To: Bush2004
Well, I think if the subject of the homily made you uncomfortable with young children around, it was perfectly fair to leave.

As for thinking he was telling your kids that if they wanted their priest to admire you and your husband, then they should become homosexuals, I don't think that's what he was doing and you might be overreacting there.

If it bothers you, make an appointment to talk with the Padre and talk with him about it. My personal method is to ask direct questions and politely press for answers.

For example, in your case, I would build to the question "How do you reconcile your decision to discuss homosexuality in light of the Truth and Meaning of Human Sexuality by the Pontifical Council for the Family?"

I always ask process questions, since most people are not prepared to answer them at all and look very bad doing it. Press him along those lines, and his process in coming to his decision will come out, even if it's totally whacked.

I was born and raised Catholic, lapsed for a bit, and then returned and now practice. Even as a child I wouldn't let the clergy get away with stuff I didn't think was right, and I would challenge them. Nothing wrong with that - that collar or habit isn't a shield from criticism.

Many of the nicest folks I have ever known have been in the church. Several of the most loathsome have been, too. They are just men and women, that's all.
16 posted on 08/27/2005 8:31:32 PM PDT by HitmanLV
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To: PaulaB

I spent the remainder of Mass praying for him.


17 posted on 08/27/2005 8:32:09 PM PDT by Bush2004
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To: Bush2004
Okay, here's your answer........

Don't post personal vanities to news, don't ever post personal religious stuff to news, and call your Bishop and complain.

18 posted on 08/27/2005 8:32:45 PM PDT by nopardons
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To: Bush2004
You have been getting some advice to report him to the Bishop. Don't, at least not yet. You have a problem with him, handle it like an adult and take it to him.

Nobody liked the kind of kids who would run to teachers, and nobody likes the type of adults who run to supervisors. Challenge him directly, and if unsatisfied, report it on up.
20 posted on 08/27/2005 8:33:00 PM PDT by HitmanLV
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To: PaulaB; Texas Eagle

(I returned with the kids after his homily was done.)


21 posted on 08/27/2005 8:33:50 PM PDT by Bush2004
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To: Bush2004

The priest is probably a fag himself.


22 posted on 08/27/2005 8:34:57 PM PDT by clee1 (We use 43 muscles to frown, 17 to smile, and 2 to pull a trigger. I'm lazy and I'm tired of smiling.)
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To: Bush2004

Tack up on the front door:

The Truth and Meaning of Human Sexuality by the Pontifical Council for the Family


23 posted on 08/27/2005 8:35:09 PM PDT by ncountylee (Dead terrorists smell like victory)
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To: operation clinton cleanup; television is just wrong

I heard tonight from a friend that he is/was good friends with a former archbishop who is a known homosexual.

I want him OUT!


24 posted on 08/27/2005 8:35:34 PM PDT by Bush2004
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To: Bush2004

I'm sure you weren't alone in your reaction. There's power in numbers. Take action.


25 posted on 08/27/2005 8:35:40 PM PDT by Hildy (a fact to a liberal is like Kryptonite to Superman.)
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To: Bush2004

A few years ago, a visiting priest started off Mission Week by saying "I'm a FEMINIST"!! It ws all I could do not to flee!! When I told the pastor, he said "So what".....Yikes.....I guess every big organization has some really bad apples.


26 posted on 08/27/2005 8:36:28 PM PDT by Ann Archy (Abortion: The Human Sacrifice to the god of Convenience.)
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To: Bush2004

Exactly the reason for the vast majority of church splits and differences over the approximately 2000 year history of the church - teaching/preaching that varies from the Word of God.

It sounds to me that Satan has found an open door into your church. Time to exit with your family and all others who CARE if the Truth is what's taught in the church.


27 posted on 08/27/2005 8:36:34 PM PDT by TheBattman (Islam (and liberalism)- the cult of Satan)
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To: William Creel
I suspect he may be a closet pedophile.

A reasonable suspicion. Fr. Paul Shanley was one of the founders of NAMBLA, and several of the priests caught up in the sex abuse scandals had ties with Dignity.

28 posted on 08/27/2005 8:37:08 PM PDT by Loyalist (Raphel mai amech zabi almi.)
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To: Bush2004
I heard tonight from a friend that he is/was good friends with a former archbishop who is a known homosexual.

One of Rembert Weakland's friends, eh?

29 posted on 08/27/2005 8:38:06 PM PDT by Loyalist (Raphel mai amech zabi almi.)
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To: Bush2004

let me guess, you're in the Milwaukee diocese? If so, my deepest sympathies.


30 posted on 08/27/2005 8:39:06 PM PDT by sassbox
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To: Bush2004
I heard tonight from a friend that he is/was good friends with a former archbishop who is a known homosexual.

I would like to say I am shocked.... but I am not.

31 posted on 08/27/2005 8:39:12 PM PDT by operation clinton cleanup
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To: HitmanNY

"...They are just men and women, that's all..."



Men and women who are sinners, as we all are... Great post, Hitman...


32 posted on 08/27/2005 8:39:41 PM PDT by Hand em their arse
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To: HitmanNY

You have mail!


33 posted on 08/27/2005 8:41:48 PM PDT by pbear8 (Laus Semper Deus)
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To: HitmanNY

I dialogued him about another homily that offended us--he was talking about the evil in the Catholic Church and how the priests sexually abused children and the sexual predators in the State---another subject I felt did not need to be explicitly addressed during a church homily. Our parish is very young with hundreds of young children. He replied that I would not convince him that his homily was inappropriate and that he felt it was important to talk about sex during church.

I frankly think that talking to him would yield the same beating head against brick wall result. No matter what documents I bring to back up my position, he'll just ignore them and do what he referred to as a matter of his "personal choice." (he omits the penitential rite because he just doesn't feel like including it)


34 posted on 08/27/2005 8:42:43 PM PDT by Bush2004
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To: Bush2004

I did the same thing about seven years ago at my Catholic Church when the priest was preaching BS on another topic and doing a Michael Moore immitation. But instead of just walking out, I yelled out that "this is supposed to be a church, not a political talk show."

At least one other family walked out also. I have yet to be back at church since then, except for two cousins who got married and that was at different Catholic churches in different cities.

I have no plans of ever going back to church again.


35 posted on 08/27/2005 8:42:53 PM PDT by Dont_Tread_On_Me_888 (Bush's #1 priority Africa. #2 priority appease Fox and Mexico . . . USA priority #64.)
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To: Bush2004

GTFO out of that "Church" right now.

The best church is your own conscience, no one needs an "organized religion"

Would kinda put it like this:
Jesus had real problems with the organized religions of his day.

Thats why they killed him....


36 posted on 08/27/2005 8:43:25 PM PDT by 76834 (There's nothing wrong with sobriety in moderation.)
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To: Bush2004
Just a simple question? As a Christian, would you want your own son 'out' (as in shunned from society) if he told you he was gay? Would you never speak to him again?

I'm just interested to know your response...as a Christian.

37 posted on 08/27/2005 8:43:51 PM PDT by Happygal (liberalism - a narrow tribal outlook largely founded on class prejudice)
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To: Bush2004

There is an email for the Pope here somewhere. I'm just not finding it today.

http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/benedict_xvi/index.htm


38 posted on 08/27/2005 8:45:02 PM PDT by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Bush2004

What diocese are you in?


39 posted on 08/27/2005 8:46:07 PM PDT by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Loyalist

"...A reasonable suspicion. Fr. Paul Shanley was one of the founders of NAMBLA, and several of the priests caught up in the sex abuse scandals had ties with Dignity...


Absolutely, I mean hell, he may even be a rapist, or even a serial killer as well... And, I'll guarantee you he has boatload of unpaid parking tickets as well, No Doubt!! ///sarcasm now off


40 posted on 08/27/2005 8:46:33 PM PDT by Hand em their arse
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To: Bush2004
What Diocese are you in?
41 posted on 08/27/2005 8:46:52 PM PDT by NavySEAL F-16 (Proud to be a Reagan Republican)
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To: Dont_Tread_On_Me_888

Pope JP II (God rest his soul) spoke as a pacifist, and spoke against the War in Iraq. Could that be considered a Micheal Moore-esque mantra? I guess it depends on the ears it falls upon.


42 posted on 08/27/2005 8:47:00 PM PDT by Happygal (liberalism - a narrow tribal outlook largely founded on class prejudice)
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To: Bush2004; Religion Moderator

Could this be transferred to the Religion forum?


43 posted on 08/27/2005 8:47:42 PM PDT by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Loyalist

You are very smart to figure that out. He still includes Weakland during the eucharistic prayer (where we pray for the current pope and archbishop).

I was told tonight that he worked very closely with R.W. as a proponent of a sexual eduction program for 6th, 7th and 8th graders, which ended up on a segment of Frontline in 1985? and brought much criticism to R.W., which resulted in abandoning that particular sex-ed program. Anybody remember that Frontline or have access to it?


44 posted on 08/27/2005 8:48:00 PM PDT by Bush2004
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To: Bush2004

lol, he might not be coming out like you are expecting. I'd be disgusted too.


45 posted on 08/27/2005 8:49:20 PM PDT by television is just wrong (http://hehttp://print.google.com/print/doc?articleidisblogs.blogspot.com/ (visit blogs, visit ads).)
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To: Salvation
You WANT people to e-mail the Pope over a homily given by a priest, given on heresay evidence from a single parishioner?

If THAT is the case, PLEASE take me OFF your ping list.

46 posted on 08/27/2005 8:49:29 PM PDT by Happygal (liberalism - a narrow tribal outlook largely founded on class prejudice)
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To: Bush2004

I frankly think that talking to him would yield the same beating head against brick wall result."

It will. The SOB has an agenda.


47 posted on 08/27/2005 8:50:45 PM PDT by philetus (What goes around comes around)
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To: nopardons

Thanks. All I posted to, I thought, was culture/current events. How can I just post to religion?


48 posted on 08/27/2005 8:50:52 PM PDT by Bush2004
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To: Bush2004
The Seminaries have been under the subjugation of the Pin Mafia for a long time. My sister went to The U of St Thomas in Houston and she said half the seminarians were gay.

Your pastor may wear a pink collar himself. At the very least you can bet he went to seminary with outspoken homosexuals.

Pray for a cleansing.

49 posted on 08/27/2005 8:52:02 PM PDT by keithtoo (Howard Dean's Democratic Party: Traitors, Haters, and Vacillators)
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To: Dont_Tread_On_Me_888
I have no plans of ever going back to church again.

Though the priest be an idiot (and a few are) in the end we worship Jesus alone, sometimes in spite of the officiants.

Educate yourself and find a real Catholic Church with a holy priest (they do exist). The Real Presence is worth suffering for, this priest you speak of made you suffer, offer it up. Don't use this as an excuse. Pray with all of us.

50 posted on 08/27/2005 8:54:45 PM PDT by pbear8 (Laus Semper Deus)
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