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How To Make a Good Confession (especially if you haven't gone in years)
OSV ^ | Mike Aquilina and Fr. Kris D. Stubna

Posted on 12/20/2005 11:38:54 AM PST by NYer

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To: NYer

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51 posted on 12/21/2005 4:31:33 PM PST by thegreatbeast (Quid lucrum istic mihi est?)
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To: fortunecookie


Thank you.
Just in time for Christmas.


52 posted on 12/21/2005 8:28:30 PM PST by onyx (Merry Christmas everybody.)
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To: Pyro7480; NYer
"That's a really good list. Thanks NYer. I think most of us are guilty of something under most of these on a regular basis. I know I am."

"Most of us"??

ALL of us -- save for the Perfect One 2000 years ago.

One itty-bitty "sin" is one too many for access to Heaven without the innocent blood of the Lamb of God.

Btw, I second the motion -- that was a great list, NYer.

53 posted on 12/21/2005 8:38:12 PM PST by F16Fighter
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To: F16Fighter
ALL of us -- save for the Perfect One 2000 years ago.

Don't forget the other exception, His Mother.

54 posted on 12/21/2005 8:50:21 PM PST by Pyro7480 (Sancte Joseph, terror daemonum, ora pro nobis!)
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To: NYer
This is the best little booklet on confession that I have found:

This wonderful and practical little booklet explains clearly and thoroughly how to make a good Confession--but in much greater detail than covered in most catechisms. It includes an Examination of Conscience (plus a discussion of lax, scrupulous and doubtful conscience), contrition and its necessary qualities, avoiding the near occasions of sin, the actual Confession of sins to the priest, and the penance given by the priest. This booklet also explains perfect and imperfect contrition and how to make acts of perfect contrition. It then considers sacrilegious Confession, how to rectify a bad Confession and the reasons for General Confession. Confession of venial sins is also discussed, as well as the many, unheralded benefits of frequent Confession.

After these beautiful, clear explanations, the booklet then guides the reader through preparation for a good Confession, including an Examination of Conscience based on the Ten Commandments of God, the Six Precepts of the Church, the Seven Capital Sins, the duties of one's particular state of life, and the Corporal and Spiritual Works of Mercy. Also included are considerations to excite contrition and prayers before and after Confession.

This is truly a most valuable little handbook about Confession, packed with the traditional teachings of the Church on the Sacrament of Penance--a Sacrament which is both the salvation of those in mortal sin and a much-neglected and easy means of growth in holiness for all Catholics.

Published by TAN Books and Publishers

I try to keep a few on hand to give away.

55 posted on 12/21/2005 8:56:54 PM PST by murphE (These are days when the Christian is expected to praise every creed but his own. --G.K. Chesterton)
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To: Pyro7480
"Don't forget the other exception, His Mother."

With all due respect, even Mary was borne in sin. That is why Jesus was borne via "Immaculate Conception" through the Holy Spirit.

Jesus was God in the flesh, and thus the ONLY sinless One.

56 posted on 12/21/2005 9:04:32 PM PST by F16Fighter
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To: F16Fighter
Our Lord Jesus Christ was indeed conceived through the Holy Ghost. However, you are confused in regards to the Immaculate Conception, for she is the Blessed Virgin Mary. I know you were trying not to offend by your words, but you must have known that they are theologically-controversial.

From very early in the Christian era, believers have held that Our Lord took His flesh of the Virgin Mary. If He did, and Mary's flesh felt the corruption of sin, what does this say about Our Lord? Of course, He has the power to preserve Himself, but that's not the way He chose to come into the world. For if the written word of God, the tablets from Mt. Sinai, had to be held in a vessel made of pure materials, then why would God send His Word, Jesus Christ, to be held in an impure vessel?

57 posted on 12/21/2005 9:25:25 PM PST by Pyro7480 (Sancte Joseph, terror daemonum, ora pro nobis!)
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To: F16Fighter

The Immaculate Conception doesn't refer to the conception and birth of Jesus. It refers to the conception of Mary free from all sin in her mother's womb. This special (and unmerited!) favor was accorded her by God in anticipation of her role as the living ark for the living Word of God. She didn't, strictly speaking, HAVE to have this done for her, but "it was fitting and proper," as the eastern Church says. She needed the salvation of the cross just like everyone else, but the fruit of the cross was applied to her beforehand.


58 posted on 12/22/2005 5:54:07 AM PST by magisterium
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To: magisterium
"The Immaculate Conception doesn't refer to the conception and birth of Jesus. It refers to the conception of Mary free from all sin in her mother's womb...as the eastern Church says."

I appreciate your explanation, but could you kindly cite any Scripture to support your assertion?

59 posted on 12/22/2005 6:01:39 AM PST by F16Fighter
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To: Pyro7480
"From very early in the Christian era, believers have held that Our Lord took His flesh of the Virgin Mary. If He did, and Mary's flesh felt the corruption of sin, what does this say about Our Lord?...

[And] why would God send His Word, Jesus Christ, to be held in an impure vessel?"

Doesn't Scripture tell us ALL who came after Adam and Eve are tainted with "original sin"? Even now...

Yes, Christ was indeed born of the flesh virgin Mary -- though NOT "conceived" through sin.

But what this says about Our Lord was that He is a man as well as God, as only a sinless man of the flesh could redeem us.

We can not know all the mysteries of God, but one can only refer to Scripture for support -- rather than "church tradition."

60 posted on 12/22/2005 6:15:14 AM PST by F16Fighter
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To: F16Fighter
Doesn't Scripture tell us ALL who came after Adam and Eve are tainted with "original sin"? Even now

By that reasoning, that would make Jesus a sinner, since He was born after Adam and Eve. But we all know that can't be right.

61 posted on 12/22/2005 6:23:14 AM PST by Pyro7480 (Sancte Joseph, terror daemonum, ora pro nobis!)
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To: Pyro7480
"By that reasoning, that would make Jesus a sinner, since He was born after Adam and Eve. But we all know that can't be right."

True...

Except that Christ wasn't "conceived" from man's seed, but God's.

62 posted on 12/22/2005 6:30:48 AM PST by F16Fighter
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To: murphE

Amen!! That little booklet has been a Godsend for my spiritual growth!


63 posted on 12/22/2005 6:31:51 AM PST by Pyro7480 (Sancte Joseph, terror daemonum, ora pro nobis!)
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To: F16Fighter

Well, I would say first that your question presupposes that Scripture is the only authentic source of revelation in Christianity, and that would be wrong from the Catholic point of view. The issue has been discussed at *great* length :-O on FR by myslf and many others before, so I won't belabor it much now. Suffice to say that we Catholics, who gave birth, as it were, to the New Testament canon directly through both Tradition and the magisterium of the Church (the "other two" sources of revelation), consider the concept of Mary being conceived without sin and preserved in grace to remain sinless throughout life to be a "settled matter" going back to the early Church.

Anyway, there IS supporting Scripture for the concept. Mary was greeted by the angel Gabriel as being "full of grace," in the present tense. Since this event clearly took place before Calvary, and, especially at the time, it would be impossible for any human being to be addressed in this way without a singular grace being accorded to the person by God, it follows that something singular was involved in Mary's circumstances.

The last verse of Revelation 11 talks about the ark of God's covenant appearing in God's temple in heaven; the first six verses of chapter 12 clearly represent Mary. Remember, there were no chapter and verse divisions in the original text; they are often rather arbitrary. Here's a perfect example. The ark and the "woman clothed with the sun" are one and the same. The ark of the covenant was the holiest object in Israel. Its elaborate embellishment was meant to attempt to make it worthy of the emblems of God, wrought by His hand in the case of the tablets and the manna. Both the ark and its contents were prefigurements to Mary and the One that she was a living ark to for nine months. How much more worthy would she be to house the Word of God Himself, instead of things that were mere things that prefigured Him?

Again, I understand that you likely aren't too impressed with an argument based on Tradition as authority. But the early Church was. You have to ask yourself by what authority was the principle of Sola Scriptura (itself not specified in Scripture)enacted at the expense of other sources of authority known by the Church from the beginning.

If you would like a full treatment of the subject from a Catholic perspective, I would suggest the following website: http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/07674d.htm


64 posted on 12/22/2005 7:36:20 AM PST by magisterium
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To: magisterium
Thank you for your thoughtful and informative reply...

"I would say first that your question presupposes that Scripture is the only authentic source of revelation in Christianity, and that would be wrong from the Catholic point of view....

I understand that you likely aren't too impressed with an argument based on Tradition as authority. But the early Church was. You have to ask yourself by what authority was the principle of Sola Scriptura (itself not specified in Scripture)enacted at the expense of other sources of authority known by the Church from the beginning."

If we both accept the premise that Scripture is "God's Word," how then can the "tradition" of man be as reliable a source of truth?

Man (and papal edicts) and "tradition" have changed in the past and still do, whereas the the Word never changes.

"We Catholics... consider the concept of Mary being conceived without sin and preserved in grace to remain sinless throughout life to be a 'settled matter' going back to the early Church."

Having been raised a Catholic, I understand the doctrine.

While the term "full of grace" or preservation of "sinlessness" throughout her life is not provable, nor scripturally specific, Mary was indeed "blessed amongst women."

65 posted on 12/22/2005 8:01:49 AM PST by F16Fighter
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To: Marcellinus
"Mary was the only person in the Bible to whom an angel was sent by God who was addressed by title and not by name. This is significant."

Indeed significent....

"As to the Early Church Fathers, who are the source of Catholic Tradition: the Early Church Fathers were those who were taught by the first disciples and/or their direct followers. One can't read the Patristic readings of these early fathers of the Church and not see that the Tradition was not one of man, but of that handed down by word of mouth before the gospels were written, some 80 years after the death of Christ."

The conundrum of the "handing down" of "traditions" of man still remains a valid consideration in discerning the unadulturated truth, rather than from the written Word and instruction destined and decreed from the Holy Spirit to be "officially" sanctioned through the Old Testament, Gospels and the Apostles.

"As for the Immaculate Conception of the Virgin Mary: if the Sacred Sciptures are read only from the literal point of view, one might ask if there is a Scriptural basis for it. But Sacred Scripture is understood in the Four Senses of Scripture which are literal, moral, allegorical and anagogical. The belief in Mary's place in salvation history, she who is 'full of grace', can be explained with both faith and reason if all the four senses of Scripture are used as they should be.

"Anagogical is defined as "mystical interpretation"; "Allegorical" is still subject to subjectiveness, hence "Sola Scriptura" can be the only reliable source of truth.

One last word -- hadn't God the power and will to insert and inject ANYTHING he thought faith and spirit-worthy within the Bible?

67 posted on 12/22/2005 9:21:30 AM PST by F16Fighter
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To: F16Fighter

There are two types of tradition, one with a small "t," and one with a capital "T." The small "t" tradition treats generally to disciplinary or rubrical practices, and can change. An example is clerical celibacy. It is not mandated by Scripture, although it is recommended by it. As a result, the Eastern Rite Catholics allow for a married clergy while the Western Catholics do not. Theoretically, the requirement for celibacy in the West could be abrogated tomorrow (though I seriously doubt it!), because it is a mere "tradition." So are other things, such as certain fasting rules, for example. These, too, could be changed or abolished tomorrow. They are not doctrine. But the Church still has authority in even these matters, and it should be obeyed in them because to it alone has the power of the keys been entrusted.

However, some other things involve Tradition with a capital "T." These things DO involve doctrine, and cannot be changed. They are part of the original Deposit of Faith, which comes down to us from the Apostles and the Church of the apostolic era. The canon of Scripture is a case in point. The Church was entrusted by God with the writing, compilation, vetting and canonizing of the contents of Scripture over the course of an over 350 year period. We believe that the Holy Spirit, promised by Jesus to guide the Church, does as advertised. The Church is called the "pillar and bulwark of the truth" in 1 Timothy 2:15. In order for it to be accurately described that way, the Holy Spirit clearly must guide it, preserving it from error in teaching. Were such protection not granted to the Church, we wouldn't have the Bible as we know it today, since no authority could have otherwise settled on the canon. The canon was a settled matter by the early 5th Century NOT because it was self-editing, and its contents were inherently manifest, but because the authority of the Church, guided by God to properly discern its Tradition in the matter, was able to *authoritatively determine* the canon of Scripture.

The authority of the Church, through Tradition and the teaching office (magisterium) competent to interpret both Scripture and Tradition, predates New Testament Scripture and has, indeed, given life to it. Catholics deny that *everything* that Jesus taught directly or through the Apostles as worthy of belief is contained in Scripture alone. The Immaculate Conception, at issue here, is another case in point. Direct Scriptural "proof-texting" is not something that lends itself well to the issue. But, from the earliest days, the Church has maintained the Tradition that Mary was sinless every moment of her existence. This wasn't even particularly contested by anyone until the 1500's. Exact definitions and understanding of the nature of how this came to be were lacking until Pius IX defined the matter in 1854, but he was acting to define a doctrinal point that the Catholic Church had "always and everywhere" believed. Ecumenical Councils, in conjunction with papal authority, act in a similar way in defining things that are, at some point in time, contested. Many of these things, found nowhere directly in Scripture, are nevertheless believed even by Protestants by default- the nature of the Trinity and the hypostatic union of Christ are examples of this. These things, too, are products of Tradition handed down through time and codified and defined as the need arises.

The Church has, does and always will understand itself in the context of having this authority. No one really denied the concept until the 1500's. One has to ask: "by what authority" did those men feel justified to leave the Church, deny what everyone had previously accepted, and even sever the logical connection to the justification of the Scripture they retained as the sole authority to be acknowledged? 1500 years into the Christian era, they were far more into "innovation" than any Catholic might be in any possible misapprehension of Tradition and the Magisterium.

That Protestants do not understand or accept the role of Tradition in Church teaching may be understandable, but it is so because they have cut themselves off from the roots of the Faith for nearly 500 years. Naturally, their own developing traditions do not adhere to Tradition as any valid source of authority. Their collective memory has lost the concept. But that's not our problem as Catholics. To those who honestly inquire about this and other matters that divide the body of baptized believers we can only say: "He who is able to receive this, let him receive it" (Matthew 19:12), and to the rest, we pray that their bias can be overcome, or that, failing that, God will be merciful in not holding them to account for things they were "invincibly ignorant" about.

Catholics do not need to be defensive when some things the Church teaches might not be clear from Scripture. But Protestants need to justify how they can ignore it when such a stance only saw the light of day over 1400 years after the death of the last apostle, when the deposit of faith was sealed.


68 posted on 12/22/2005 9:44:52 AM PST by magisterium
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To: Jerry Built; biblewonk
Mary was the only person ... the Early Church Fathers ... the Tradition ... the Immaculate Conception of the Virgin Mary ... the Sacred Sciptures ... the Four Senses of Scripture which are literal, moral, allegorical and anagogical.

Regarding your recent FReepmail, it's now clear why you said you don't miss biblewonk.

Oddly enough, although you've been on FR since 2002, neither one of us had ever heard of you before today. Did you ever post to him? If not, that's a shame, because it's likely rare you'll get to meet someone who knows the Scriptures as well as biblewonk does.

70 posted on 02/07/2006 5:47:15 AM PST by newgeezer (fundamentalist, regarding the Constitution AND the Holy Bible. Words mean things!)
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To: newgeezer

*- Not paying attention or participating at Mass*

This should include *allowing your children to interfere with the attention or participation of others at Mass.* There are a certain group of small fry in my former parish whose behaviour verges on the terroristic; the priest uses a microphone and one child attempts to scream louder than he can talk — another throws toys and food (bribes from his Murmuring Parents to try to quiet him) — others scream and struggle to get down and run around ... I once had to get up and move to another seat because of a two year old who kept trying to climb over the pew in front of me ... and then there was the Christmas Eve when one little darling kept relentlessly slamming the gate to the pew, over and over and over and over and over ... while her parents pretended not to know who she was.

If more parents would examine their consciences as to whether or not their offspring were spoiling the worship of others in the congregation, perhaps this kind of behaviour would stop.


71 posted on 05/10/2009 4:58:12 AM PDT by Appleby
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