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Sexual abuse victims describe frank meeting with pope
CNN ^ | April 18, 2008

Posted on 04/18/2008 12:10:19 PM PDT by NYer

WASHINGTON (CNN) -- Three victims of the sexual abuse scandal that rocked the RC Church described an emotional, frank and ultimately hope-filled meeting with Pope Benedict on Thursday. They were part of a small group of people abused by clergy who were asked to share their stories with the pope in a Washington chapel. "They prayed with the Holy Father, who afterwards listened to their personal accounts and offered them words of encouragement and hope," said the Rev. Federico Lombardi, a papal spokesman.

The exchanges were frank and unscripted, according to some of the victims. "I told him that he has a cancer growing in his ministry and needs to do something about it," Bernie McDaid said in an exclusive interview with CNN. But McDaid said he came away from the meeting feeling that there was real hope that this time the problem would be addressed, with action to follow.

"I don't go to Mass, but today I went with my mother, and his sermon there and his apology about the sexual abuse blew me away, and I had tears in my eyes that I wasn't ready to have. It was an incredible moment for me."

Another victim said his hope was also restored after meeting Benedict.

"He first apologized," Olan Horne said. "He seemed to intrinsically understand what we were talking about."

Horne said the victims were allowed the time necessary to say what needed to be said, which impressed him.

"I'm from Missouri, 'show me,' and today I saw," Horne said.

(Excerpt) Read more at cnn.com ...


TOPICS: Catholic; Ministry/Outreach; Moral Issues
KEYWORDS: abuse; b16; benedictxvi; catholic; coverup; homosexualagenda; papalvisit; pedophiles; pedophilia; pope; priests; scandal; sexualabuse

1 posted on 04/18/2008 12:10:19 PM PDT by NYer
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To: Salvation; narses; SMEDLEYBUTLER; redhead; Notwithstanding; nickcarraway; Romulus; ...
Faith Johnston said she was praying for the strength to say the right thing to the pope, but when the time came, emotions took over.

"I didn't end up saying anything. I got up to him, and I burst into tears. But I don't think any words I could have said; I think my tears alone spoke so much."

2 posted on 04/18/2008 12:11:10 PM PDT by NYer ("Where the bishop is present, there is the Catholic Church" - Ignatius of Antioch)
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To: NYer

Who the heck is Frank?


3 posted on 04/18/2008 12:11:27 PM PDT by WayneS (Respect the 2nd Amendment; Repeal the 16th)
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To: NYer

BTTT


4 posted on 04/18/2008 12:18:57 PM PDT by kellynla (Freedom of speech makes it easier to spot the idiots! Semper Fi!)
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To: WayneS

Present.

Frank Sheed


5 posted on 04/18/2008 12:37:56 PM PDT by Frank Sheed (Fr. V. R. Capodanno, Lt, USN, Catholic Chaplain. 3rd/5th, 1st Marine Div., FMF. MOH, posthumously.)
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To: Frank Sheed

So, did you meet the Pope?

And if so, why don’t YOU tell us about it instead of having these other people describe it?


6 posted on 04/18/2008 12:50:06 PM PDT by WayneS (Respect the 2nd Amendment; Repeal the 16th)
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To: NYer
Pope Benedict needs to make it clear to those bishops who choose to persist in their disobedience that the February 1961 ban against ordaining homosexuals is still in effect and if they don't want to toe the line and comply they can be easily replaced and dismissed from the clerical state.

Advancement to religious vows and ordination should be barred to those who are afflicted with evil tendencies to homosexuality or pederasty, since for them the common life and the priestly ministry would constitute serious dangers.

7 posted on 04/18/2008 12:55:31 PM PDT by A.A. Cunningham
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To: NYer
I pray the Holy Father and Clergy and those in the healing professions will begin to acknowledge that a person who has been sexually abused has sufferred an injury that never heals and is as if he has lost his legs and will never grow new ones.

I want them to stop talking as if they can be made whole again with therapy. But G-d does heal some who ask.

8 posted on 04/18/2008 1:07:31 PM PDT by tommix2
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To: NYer

Pope Benedict is a kind and compassionate man of God. I believe he did the right thing in having this meeting. Time will tell if it has an affect on those who did suffer.


9 posted on 04/18/2008 1:11:23 PM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: Frank Sheed; WayneS

Frank, this WayneS seems annoyed at you. Have you been at the Guinness before noon again?

Btw, “Herding Cats” wine is $2 off this week!


10 posted on 04/18/2008 3:32:52 PM PDT by Tax-chick ("It's hard to be stressed out over your spouse while you're in a bathtub drinking wine together.")
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To: Tax-chick

He asked who Frank was and I said “Present.”

No, no Guinness today. I’m off to have some now while watching an uplifting movie from Netflix. That wine sounds like a real deal. Could you get me 20 cases and put it on my tab?

;-o)


11 posted on 04/18/2008 4:34:41 PM PDT by Frank Sheed (Fr. V. R. Capodanno, Lt, USN, Catholic Chaplain. 3rd/5th, 1st Marine Div., FMF. MOH, posthumously.)
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To: Frank Sheed
Could you get me 20 cases and put it on my tab?

No, but I could get a few bottles and serve it to you when you visit me! What's your favorite variety?

Enjoy your movie. DP and I were going to stroll around the neighborhood, but he's having a Garage Cleaning Frenzy.

Vlad and his kitteh send regards!

12 posted on 04/18/2008 4:40:57 PM PDT by Tax-chick ("It's hard to be stressed out over your spouse while you're in a bathtub drinking wine together.")
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To: Tax-chick

My Romanian is rusty, but do your best at returning to Vlad a Transylvanian response.

A bientot, ma cherie!

Francois


13 posted on 04/18/2008 4:43:09 PM PDT by Frank Sheed (Fr. V. R. Capodanno, Lt, USN, Catholic Chaplain. 3rd/5th, 1st Marine Div., FMF. MOH, posthumously.)
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To: Frank Sheed

Y tu!


14 posted on 04/18/2008 4:44:43 PM PDT by Tax-chick ("It's hard to be stressed out over your spouse while you're in a bathtub drinking wine together.")
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To: NYer

bumpus ad summum


15 posted on 04/18/2008 7:42:28 PM PDT by Dajjal
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