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They Know Iím Catholic, Right?
Catholic Exchange ^ | May 20, 2010 | Randy Hain

Posted on 05/20/2010 8:01:33 AM PDT by NYer

I gave a talk Sunday morning to the men’s club of a large Atlanta Methodist church at the request of an old friend. When he asked me to speak to this group several months ago, I responded with a question which I would ask him repeatedly every time we got together: “They know I’m Catholic, right?” I engage one-on-one with people of other faiths almost every day and always enjoy the dialogue, but this was very different as I would be going on their turf to deliver a talk. I let nagging self-doubt creep in and began to regret my commitment over the last several weeks.

I speak to groups fairly often and this should not have been a big deal, but speaking to a large group of Protestants was pushing me way out of my comfort zone. How would they respond? Would they ask me questions I couldn’t answer? Would they start quoting scripture and maligning the Church? What if they insulted the Blessed Mother? Would they criticize Pope Benedict? What would I do?!

My friend tried to reassure me with what he thought were encouraging words: “Don’t worry; most of them are former Catholics.” Good grief! Not only was I speaking as a Catholic in a Methodist church, but I was speaking to a group of former Catholics who had left the Church. How nice. It would be just my luck if everyone there had lingering issues which they would love to take out on me. Then I had an epiphany a few days before I spoke and remembered three important things:

  1. I needed to stop worrying and start praying. I needed to give up my fear and anxiety to the Lord, trust in Him and ask for strength and the guidance of the Holy Spirit.
  2. This was an unbelievable opportunity to share the joy of my Catholic faith with my Christian brothers…many of whom were once Catholic.
  3. I know my friend and he would not put me in a negative situation like the one my overactive imagination had cooked up. I needed to have faith and trust in our friendship and his good intentions. I needed to avoid giving in to unfair stereotyping, which I would resent if it was directed at me.

Before I share with you what happened at the talk, let’s take a brief time out and reflect a little on giving witness and ecumenical outreach. Do you recognize that I just illustrated the fear and anxiety many Catholics feel about sharing their faith? I have heard countless times that we must be careful here in the “Protestant South.” We may get questions about the Virgin Mary, or why we have priests hear our confessions or why we pray to saints. There is a fear that they could pounce on us by using Scripture to attack our beliefs. My caution to all of us is that a fearful and insecure Catholic often becomes a quiet Catholic, but Jesus expects more from us. If we only share our faith and witness with other Catholics or worse, keep it to ourselves, how will the Church grow and spread Christ’s message of love? “The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field” (Matthew 9:37-38).

In my professional life, I encounter new people every day. Since my conversion to the Church in 2006 I have been very open and transparent with others about my faith. In all of my numerous encounters with people of different faith backgrounds, I have had very few negative experiences. I find people to be curious about Catholicism, not adversarial. I am not naïve and I recognize there are people who have strong negative feelings towards the Church, but they may be doing so out of misguided intentions, misunderstandings or a lack of know.

We have an opportunity during these encounters to explain our Catholic Faith, dispel the rumors and refute the myths. So many times in these conversations I have observed that we are more aligned than either of us realized and that often language and misunderstandings are the biggest barriers to agreement. But, first we must know our Catholic Faith before we can explain it to anyone else: “Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have, but do it with gentleness and reverence, keeping your conscience clear, so that, when you are maligned, those who defame your good conduct in Christ may themselves be put to shame” — 1 Peter 3:15-16.

Now, back to that talk at the Methodist church. The prayers worked and the Lord gave me the peace and strength I needed. The group could not have been more kind or welcoming (is there a lesson here?). I actually felt very comfortable when I rose up to speak and trusted in the Holy Spirit to convey the right words. I started out by sharing my faith journey into the Church before launching into a talk titled “Priorities and a Life Filled with Meaning” where I outlined my life priorities and the practical actions I was taking to ensure that I stayed on the right path. They heard quotes from saints and popes and lots of Scripture and Catechism references. I hoped they would see me as a father and husband struggling with the same things they did and how keeping my focus on serving Christ and putting Him first in my life kept me on the right path. The audience applauded loudly when I finished and many of them came up after to say that I really connected with them. They asked for a copy of the talk which I was glad to provide them. Many others asked if we could have coffee in the weeks ahead to discuss why I was so joyful about my Catholic faith as they were eager to learn more.

I didn’t do anything extraordinary and I am not a particularly gifted speaker. The Holy Spirit worked through me, a Catholic, to reach these Protestant men in their church on a Sunday morning. Many of us will likely have numerous encounters in our lifetimes with people of different faiths. We are blessed as Catholics to possess the truth and the fullness of the faith. All it takes is our willingness to share our joy, a little courage, humility, transparency, and prayer to give a powerful witness for our Lord. Consider the words of Frances Fernandez from In Conversation With God:

On our part we are called upon to be good channels through which His grace will flow and to facilitate the action of the Holy Spirit in ourselves, in friends, relatives, acquaintances and colleagues…If our Lord never gets tired of giving His help to everybody, how can we who are only instruments ever become discouraged? Once the carpenter’s hand is firmly placed on the wood, how can the tool ever have any reservations about doing its work?

Are we willing to let the Carpenter work through us today?


TOPICS: Apologetics; Catholic; Mainline Protestant; Theology
KEYWORDS: catholic; methodist
Randy Hain is the Managing Partner of Bell Oaks, an executive search firm in Atlanta, GA. Randy has been married for over 15 years and has 2 sons. He and his wife converted to the Catholic Church in 2006. He is very active in his parish and the Atlanta community and leads the St. Peter Chanel Business Association, Woodstock Business Conference -- Atlanta Chapter and is a co-founder of the Atlanta Catholic Business Conference. He writes a great deal in his professional life and has had a passion for writing about his faith since joining the Church.  Randy is the Senior Editor and Co-founder of the Integrated Catholic Life eMagazine at www.integratedcatholiclife.org
1 posted on 05/20/2010 8:01:34 AM PDT by NYer
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To: netmilsmom; thefrankbaum; markomalley; Tax-chick; GregB; saradippity; Berlin_Freeper; Litany; ...

Ping!


2 posted on 05/20/2010 8:01:48 AM PDT by NYer ("Where Peter is, there is the Church." - St. Ambrose of Milan)
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To: NYer

Good article.


3 posted on 05/20/2010 8:05:45 AM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: NYer

Catholics and Protestants are rarely as hostile to one another in life as they are on this board. Most Protestants regard Catholicism as simply another Christian denomination no more worthy of hostility than Baptists, Methodists, Lutherans or any other.

We disagree — but, generally speaking, we’re united on the big stuff. The big stuff is all that really matters ... once you’ve achieved Grace, it takes care of any misconceptions on the peripheral stuff.

SnakeDoc


4 posted on 05/20/2010 8:16:30 AM PDT by SnakeDoctor ("The world will know that free men stood against a tyrant [...] that even a god-king can bleed.")
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To: NYer

**reflect a little on giving witness and ecumenical outreach. Do you recognize that I just illustrated the fear and anxiety many Catholics feel about sharing their faith?**

Do we really need to be afraid if we know that the Holy Spirit will give us the words just as the Apostles were empowered with gifts on Pentecost?


5 posted on 05/20/2010 8:17:31 AM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: NYer

**I didn’t do anything extraordinary and I am not a particularly gifted speaker. The Holy Spirit worked through me, a Catholic, to reach these Protestant men in their church on a Sunday morning. Many of us will likely have numerous encounters in our lifetimes with people of different faiths. We are blessed as Catholics to possess the truth and the fullness of the faith. All it takes is our willingness to share our joy, a little courage, humility, transparency, and prayer to give a powerful witness for our Lord. **

Amen!


6 posted on 05/20/2010 8:20:19 AM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: Salvation
Do we really need to be afraid if we know that the Holy Spirit will give us the words just as the Apostles were empowered with gifts on Pentecost?

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Good point, Salvation. We must not lose our trust.

7 posted on 05/20/2010 8:22:52 AM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: NYer

Methodists tend to be liberal pre evangelical people. They usually do not know Scripture, they are usually do not hear the gospel preached from the pulpit and if they happen to get saved they usually leave that old line church.

One FEMALE methodist pastor I know (and like) thinks there are many ways to God and the important thing is that you belong to a church..

So this was probably the most “spiritual” talk they had ever heard..
No call for women’s rights, the right to abort or anti war and God was actually mentioned .

Poor John Wesley is probably turning over in his grave over what became of his gospel ministry


8 posted on 05/20/2010 8:31:44 AM PDT by RnMomof7
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To: Salvation

If a Catholic is uninformed about his faith, unable to explain accurately what we believe, let alone why, he’s likely to find even the most basic questions intimidating.


9 posted on 05/20/2010 8:57:50 AM PDT by Tax-chick ("Amateurish," agreed Janet Napolitano, the White House amateurishness czar.)
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To: RnMomof7

I have attended the Methodist weddings of two friends in two different states. They were nice and the preachers were well spoken, but in each there was only one mention of God, and that was in the only prayer-the Lord’s Prayer.


10 posted on 05/20/2010 1:58:38 PM PDT by Jeff Chandler (Judas Iscariot - the first social justice advocate. John 12:3-6)
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Poor Wesley, he was so ardent for the gospel ...

I have Methodist friends, nice folks.. but no understanding of the gospel


11 posted on 05/20/2010 2:00:56 PM PDT by RnMomof7
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To: NYer

One of my favorite young priests said he knew he needed to start living differently when he told people he was considering a vocation and they reacted with surprise because they hadn’t known he was Catholic.

He felt we need to live in a way that, every day, everyone around us knew we were Catholic. If everyone around us doesn’t know, we’re doing something wrong.


12 posted on 05/20/2010 9:01:33 PM PDT by Melian ( God is even kinder than you think. ~St. Teresa)
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