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Secrets of a 73-Year Marriage (a wonderful story)
NC Register ^ | July 15, 2010 | Danielle Bean

Posted on 07/15/2010 9:51:54 AM PDT by NYer

Harry and Barbara Cooper, CNN

Here’s a feel-good story in the midst of so much bad these days ...

Harry and Barbara Cooper met in 1937 and were married 4 months later. That means they have been married 73 years. 73 years!

I am so impressed.

On the day of their 72nd wedding anniversary, they leaned toward each other, hands tenderly clasped, as they peered into the camera.
‘It’s a give-and-take situation,” said Harry, as Barbara, giggled. “I give, and she takes.”

The Jewish couple has endured a lot together through the years—most tragically the loss of their two children (both to heart attacks) in 2007. And yet physically and emotionally, they remain healthy and strong. It’s easy to see that when you read their blog.

That’s right, they blog.

They post videos (a series called “Ask Grandma Anything”), restaurant reviews, funny stories, and photos. Oh, and they’re on Twitter and Facebook too.

Obviously a shared enthusiasm for life and adaptability in the face of change is one of the secrets to this couple’s longevity. In browsing through some of their videos, it quickly becomes apparent that at least one other secret to their success is a shared sense of humor. They like tell jokes and laugh together on camera.  I especially loved watching their interaction in this video where they share the “secret” to a long marriage. In it, Harry suggests that for a man, the formula for a happy marriage is only two words long: “Yes, dear.”

I think he might be onto something there.

Congratulations to Harry and Barbara Cooper on their 73rd wedding anniversary ... what a beautiful testimony this couple’s commitment to one another is to their grandchildren and, through the power of the internet, to the entire world. I hope they will enjoy many more years of marital happiness (and blogging!) together.


TOPICS: Current Events; General Discusssion
KEYWORDS: marriage

1 posted on 07/15/2010 9:51:59 AM PDT by NYer
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To: netmilsmom; thefrankbaum; markomalley; Tax-chick; GregB; saradippity; Berlin_Freeper; Litany; ...

Such a wonderful story! I just had to share it with all of you.


2 posted on 07/15/2010 9:52:45 AM PDT by NYer ("God dwells in our midst, in the Blessed Sacrament of the altar." St. Maximilian Kolbe)
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To: NYer

My great-grandparents were married for 76 yrs. Paul Harvey made mention of them on their anniversary. If I did my math right Granny was 15 when they married.


3 posted on 07/15/2010 9:58:41 AM PDT by abigailsmybaby ( I'm not going to buy my kids an encyclopedia. Let them walk to school like I did. Yogi Berra)
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To: NYer

Compatible sexual desires is pivotal...no question of that.


4 posted on 07/15/2010 9:59:55 AM PDT by wardaddy (I am not in favor of practical endorsements in primaries, endorse the conservative please)
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To: NYer
Congratulations to Harry and Barbara Cooper on their 73rd wedding anniversary ... what a beautiful testimony this couple’s commitment to one another is to their grandchildren and, through the power of the internet, to the entire world. I hope they will enjoy many more years of marital happiness (and blogging!) together.

Hear! Hear! Thanks for posting this terrific and uplifting story. I'm sure it brightened many days...including mine!

5 posted on 07/15/2010 10:04:54 AM PDT by Captain Rhino (“Si vis pacem, para bellum” - if you want peace, prepare for war.)
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To: NYer

Nice. God bless them.


6 posted on 07/15/2010 10:45:52 AM PDT by Bigg Red (Palin/Hunter 2012 -- Bolton their Secretary of State)
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To: NYer

My parents, 93 and 89 yrs. old, celebrated their 70th anniversary just yesterday.


7 posted on 07/15/2010 10:46:52 AM PDT by Anima Mundi (My shadow is my graffiti)
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To: NYer
First of all, congratulations.

However, I couldn't help recalling this recent story.

Seniors In Love

An elderly senior couple were invited to an old friends home for dinner one evening. She was impressed by the way her lady friend preceded every request to her husband with endearing terms such as: Honey, My love, Darling, Sweetheart, Pumpkin, etc. The couple had been married almost 70 years and, clearly, they were still very much in love.

While the husbands were in the living room, the host leaned over to her friend to say, 'I think it's wonderful that, after all these years, you still call your husband all those loving pet names.

The elderly friend hung her head. 'I have to tell you the truth,' she said, 'His name slipped my mind about 10 years ago, and I'm scared to death to ask the cranky old bastard what his name is.

8 posted on 07/15/2010 10:50:42 AM PDT by MosesKnows (Love many, Trust few, and always paddle your own canoe)
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To: NYer

What a wonderful story!


9 posted on 07/15/2010 11:03:32 AM PDT by Sunshine Sister
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To: NYer

“The Jewish couple”....oh great....probably Obama voters.../sarcasm I surrrre someone will bring it up and be serious!


10 posted on 07/15/2010 11:29:39 AM PDT by blasater1960 ( Dt 30, Ps 111, The Torah is perfect, attainable, now and forever)
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To: Anima Mundi
My parents, 93 and 89 yrs. old, celebrated their 70th anniversary just yesterday.

Beautiful!! You should click on the link to the story above and share that with Danielle Bean, who wrote this story.

11 posted on 07/15/2010 1:14:18 PM PDT by NYer ("God dwells in our midst, in the Blessed Sacrament of the altar." St. Maximilian Kolbe)
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To: NYer

Thank you for this. God bless


12 posted on 07/15/2010 8:16:34 PM PDT by spetznaz (Nuclear-tipped Ballistic Missiles: The Ultimate Phallic Symbol)
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To: wardaddy

How serious are you, seriously? In what way. Thanks WD.


13 posted on 07/15/2010 8:36:39 PM PDT by spetznaz (Nuclear-tipped Ballistic Missiles: The Ultimate Phallic Symbol)
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To: spetznaz

LoL.

He’s serious.

Without that element, it’s only a financial partnership subject to dissolution without notice.


14 posted on 07/15/2010 8:47:05 PM PDT by primeval patriot
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To: NYer

I’d have to live to be 93 to match that, doubt we’ll make it!!


15 posted on 07/15/2010 8:53:35 PM PDT by dalereed
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To: wardaddy
Compatible sexual desires is pivotal...no question of that.

So true....

Yer gonna get some of the resident mommies all riled up with that remark.

It's like discussing money around Bluebloods. You just don't talk about it. It's not polite.

*snicker*

16 posted on 07/15/2010 8:57:41 PM PDT by primeval patriot
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To: NYer

Thanks for sharing.


17 posted on 07/15/2010 9:28:44 PM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: All
 
Marriage: One Man -- One Woman

18 posted on 07/15/2010 9:29:04 PM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: primeval patriot

my wife is a mommy too

a number of times over

and she agrees


19 posted on 07/15/2010 10:42:41 PM PDT by wardaddy (I am not in favor of practical endorsements in primaries, endorse the conservative please)
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To: NYer
In it, Harry suggests that for a man, the formula for a happy marriage is only two words long: “Yes, dear.”

: D

20 posted on 07/15/2010 10:47:17 PM PDT by thecodont
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