I write for Catholics. I don't know what you are, but, to answer your post:
By the time God decides, it's too late! I am not "deciding", I am warning from Catholic doctrine, the truth, no adulterer will be saved. If you choose to ignore the Church, that is your problem, the Church has spoken CLEARLY. When you go before God, you will not be able to say, Lord, but no one told me clearly.
"Among adults there are few saved because of the sins of the flesh....With exception of those who die in childhood, most men will be damned". (St. Remigius of Rheims)
If you only knew the women who will go to Hell because they did not bring into the world the children they should have given to it. ( St. John Vianney)
Dude. I guarentee ya you don't have even a 0.000001% understanding of God.
I am a former crack user, a man who has done all sorts of heinous crimes, some of which I dare not put down on paper for fear of legal ramifications.
And I still know God loves me and that I will always be accepted into His Kingdom.
Church, smurch. Church ain't God.