St. Monica, whose feast we celebrate today, is not only a saint. Shes also the mother of a saint, St. Augustine. So what the Church presents to us today for our veneration is a saintly family!
Some of you may be thinking, Thats nice, but it certainly doesnt describe my family. That may be true. But consider this: At one time, St. Monica was an alcoholic. She had a verbally abusive, non-Christian husband who cheated on her. Her son Augustine abandoned his faith as a teenager, defiantly embraced another religion, came home from college with a live-in girlfriend, fathered a child out of wedlock with her, and then later sneaked out of the country in order to get away from Mom.
For his part, St. Augustine suffered from depression at times; he spent many years adrift as he sought meaning and purpose in life; he wasted time and money on silly and immoral entertainment; and he struggled with a sexual compulsion that filled him with shame.
Does that sound a bit more familiar? Sound a bit more like a real family. It even sound a bit like a dysfunctional family. But thats not the entire story, which has a happy ending. Augustine eventually returned to his Christian roots and became a great bishop; Monicas pagan husband changed his ways and became a Christian as well; and Monica recovered from alcoholism and died in the company of her son, whom she had shortly beforehand watched being baptized at the hands of another saint, St. Ambrose.
Their story, I think, should give real hope to real families who struggle with real problems: Hope that now matter how bad things may seem, theres always the possibility for healing, conversion, reconciliation, growth, and freedom. For nothing is impossible with God!
|Saturday, August 27|
|Liturgical Color: White|
Today is the Memorial of St. Monica, patron saint of mothers. For years, St. Monica prayed for the conversion of her ill-tempered husband and undisciplined son, St. Augustine. She lived long enough to see both convert, dying in 387 A.D.