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Does anyone dress or show up for Church on time any more? (Vanity)
NoKoolAidForMe | 07-23-12 | NoKoolAidForMe

Posted on 07/23/2012 12:09:39 PM PDT by NoKoolAidforMe

Yesterday at mass, a man came in with two girls (both of an age where each could stand and speak on their own.) ten minues after the liturgy began.

He stood along the side aisle wearing shorts, an advertisement tee shirt, and sneakers and leaned one foot against the wall of the church while standing. There were seats available.

When we stood for the gospel, he then decided to sit down. He did not pray with the girls nor follow along with the missal. He held one girl up for the entire mass, talking throughout with her feet on the top of the pew in front of him, even through the announcment that asked parishioners to show up on time and dress appropriately for mass and set a good example for our children. He bounced her up and down, kissing her repeatedly throughout the entire liturgy.

I write this diatribe because I am not sure if I am being unreasonable in expecting people to show up on time for mass, dress in attire that does not look like you are going to play baseball in the park, and behave in a respectful manner (you know, don't talk in church.)

Whatever happened to manners? Does anyone else notice this?


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1 posted on 07/23/2012 12:09:49 PM PDT by NoKoolAidforMe
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To: NoKoolAidforMe

Ann Barnhardt notices.

http://barnhardt.biz/


2 posted on 07/23/2012 12:12:51 PM PDT by DuncanWaring (The Lord uses the good ones; the bad ones use the Lord.)
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To: NoKoolAidforMe
Funny you should ask! Last evening we were late for 6pm service and dressed casually, as all do who attend that service. We were not sloppy, just no suit and tie for him or stockings and hi heels for me.
3 posted on 07/23/2012 12:14:13 PM PDT by Ditter
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To: NoKoolAidforMe

Notice this readily at Mass - I too could do more in my attire. My guess is this guy is a single Dad and is attending Mass for the kid’s sake only.


4 posted on 07/23/2012 12:15:09 PM PDT by lesko
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To: NoKoolAidforMe

Thankfully, in our church (Greek Orthodox, in Southern California), people show up mostly on time and dress appropriately, with the exception of some of the teenage girls. They are dressed well......for a Friday night out on the town.


5 posted on 07/23/2012 12:15:51 PM PDT by Adams (Fight on!)
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To: NoKoolAidforMe

Not ideal; but at least he got them there.


6 posted on 07/23/2012 12:17:33 PM PDT by HereInTheHeartland ("The writing is on the wall - Unions are screwed. reformist2 10:04 PM #27")
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To: DuncanWaring

I, too, have noticed, NoKoolAid. Nothing quite as egregious as you witnessed but slovenly and inappropriate dress, especially shorts and especially men, at almost every mass. Just another sign of our cultural decline, I fear.


7 posted on 07/23/2012 12:17:36 PM PDT by Robwin
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To: NoKoolAidforMe

It’s not just church - the outfits I see people wearing to work are just as bad as you describe.


8 posted on 07/23/2012 12:18:26 PM PDT by iceskater (The clock is ticking....November's coming.)
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To: NoKoolAidforMe

The talking was out of line, but He cares more about what’s on the inside than the outside.


9 posted on 07/23/2012 12:19:01 PM PDT by jeffc (Welcome to the United Socialist States of America)
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To: NoKoolAidforMe

I grew up AofG. To this day I cannot go in a church, even to drop off my child for VBS, without a skirt on. I always envied my Catholic cousins who got to wear pants to church. BTW, what happened to the hats? I remember Catholic church ladies always wearing hats, or at least a kleenex.


10 posted on 07/23/2012 12:19:23 PM PDT by sportutegrl
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To: NoKoolAidforMe

I’m sure Jesus would have been appalled.


11 posted on 07/23/2012 12:20:21 PM PDT by BO Stinkss
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To: NoKoolAidforMe

On many levels I agree with you. Personally, if I can’t make the effort to honor God and the church body by dressing and acting appropriately, I don’t go to church (I am not Catholic). However, I don’t think Jesus wants me to miss church either.

My church gives everyone permission to “come as you are”, be late, etc. and many do. When things become a tad distracting, leadership brings it to our attention and everyone makes an effort to improve.

While this approach may not appeal to you, it does successfully draw the unchurched, seekers and those needing a little more grace.

Lastly, in this day and age, I am encouraged that a father still brings his young daughters to church! Perhaps you might befriend them and your “modeling” can help them learn the appropriate ways of worship.

Praying for the dad and daughters. And, you! :)


12 posted on 07/23/2012 12:22:56 PM PDT by freeagle
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To: NoKoolAidforMe

When we go to honor and worship God, we seem to have made it about us. We don’t really honor God and His Son but think of ourselves or our children. The created on a par with the Creator.


13 posted on 07/23/2012 12:24:56 PM PDT by winkadink (During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act. George Orwell)
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To: NoKoolAidforMe

Less than 17% attend Church regularly and that percentage is declining. Christians should not be checking a dress code when they are attending to Jesus command to “go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them ina the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.” (Mat 28)

As far as being late, God is thankful for everyone that shows up to work.

The Parable of the Workers in the Vineyard

“The workers who were hired about five in the afternoon came and each received a denarius. 10 So when those came who were hired first, they expected to receive more. But each one of them also received a denarius. 11 When they received it, they began to grumble against the landowner. 12 ‘These who were hired last worked only one hour,’ they said, ‘and you have made them equal to us who have borne the burden of the work and the heat of the day.’

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+20%3A1-16&version=NIV


14 posted on 07/23/2012 12:25:55 PM PDT by Raycpa
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To: NoKoolAidforMe
I do.

To me it shows disrespect for our LORD to come in our growdy clothes. There are exceptions, a person that does not have any clothes that are not tattered and torn. The point being God knows the heart. We are to be in Awe of our God, and He knows the heart of everyone attending, praying and bowing down before Him.

Our whole society is falling apart bit by bit.

15 posted on 07/23/2012 12:26:27 PM PDT by geologist (The only answer to the troubles of this life is Jesus. A decision we all must make.)
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To: NoKoolAidforMe

IMO, if they’re worshipping the Lord and hearing and taking to heart His Word... the type of attire (so long as it isn’t profane or provocative) isn’t an issue.


16 posted on 07/23/2012 12:27:08 PM PDT by ScottinVA (Buying Drain-O requires photo I.D... yet voting doesn't???)
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To: NoKoolAidforMe

What is “appropriate” is a purely human convention and that convention is changing as it has done continuously for all of human history.

Throughout the ages people have attempted to freeze the costumes people wear in church and in a few generations they just look silly.

God sees what’s in their hearts of they people whose costumes you don’t approve of and you don’t.


17 posted on 07/23/2012 12:28:45 PM PDT by DManA
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To: BO Stinkss

I am not trying to sound elitist. I know that making the effort to attend is what counts.

My gripe is that people just do not make a strong effort to be undistracted—their cell phones go off all the time or the kids cannot sit for an hour without eating or drawing in a coloring book or walking up and down the aisle. Some women dress in tank tops with exposed bra straps and daisy mae shorts.

It’s been so significant at this church that the pastor makes an announcement each week and posts a notice in the bulletin each week about how to act.


18 posted on 07/23/2012 12:28:55 PM PDT by NoKoolAidforMe (I'm clinging to my God and my guns. You can keep the change.)
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To: lesko

I dress up in my formal whites, reds, and sandals. Because I am a Catholic Shintoist.


19 posted on 07/23/2012 12:31:13 PM PDT by GraceG
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To: NoKoolAidforMe

As others have said, it matters what’s in the heart.

I am 25 and most of the time I wear jeans. Sometimes I wear khakis. Last week I wore a suit and tie (I don’t know why). With the pants, I always wear either a polo or button down. No T-shirts, no shorts. Not because I think they look bad, I just don’t have a desire to wear them to church.

As another person said. As long as it’s not revealing or provactative, then it is fine.


20 posted on 07/23/2012 12:33:37 PM PDT by justice14 ("stand up defend or lay down and die")
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