True - not far from.
The 'trouble' is that using it they way BM said it is what the devil will USE against one who was tempted:
"Well; ya THOUGHT it - ya may as well DO it!"
You’re right, I should have phrased it better.
My point was that if someone is self-identifying as gay, even if they’re not engaging in the acts, then they’re still embracing the lust, rather than rejecting it. It must be a pretty big part of their psyche, or they wouldn’t be adopting that identification.
I mean, if I had a gambling problem, but got it under control, I wouldn’t go around telling people “I’m a gambler”, and professing support for “gambler rights”, or accusing people of being intolerant to gamblers. If I did, it would clearly be a sign that I hadn’t really rejected that behavior.