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I Love Talking To Ex-Mormon Atheists
Mormon Coffee (blog.mrm.org) ^ | March 7, 2013 | Aaron Shafovaloff

Posted on 03/12/2013 9:27:52 AM PDT by Colofornian

I did not expect to meet so many atheists when I moved to Utah seven years ago. But I should have known better: America as a whole is secularizing, and Mormonism itself has a “scorched earth policy.” My Mormon girlfriend in high school once essentially said, “If the LDS Church isn’t true, I don’t know that I could ever believe in God.” Mormonism already is a form of atheism: it denies the existence of an all-powerful, all-knowing, first, most high God, and instead teaches a kind of naturalism or materialism: everything is matter, even spirits, and everything is subject to eternal laws of ultimate nature, even the gods. It feeds its people conspiracy theories about the corruption of the Bible, and it scares the heck out of Mormons over non-Mormon churches: if you don’t stay with the One True Church, you’ll have to settle for an abominable evangelical church with a corrupt pastor who is a minister of Satan.

That is a colorful way of putting it, but you get the point.

It is depressing that so many people leave Mormonism only to become agnostics or atheists. Fortunately, atheists have a hard time staying atheists. Their children are probably much more open to the Biblical gospel than Mormons are. I suspect God is up to something — he has multi-generational plans we’ve never dreamed of. If giving people the truth about Mormonism’s history and the truth about the Biblical gospel of Jesus Christ statistically increases the odds of a person becoming a self-confessed agnostic or atheist, then so be it. God is sovereign and I am not here to be a social engineer or to play God. My job as an ambassador of Jesus is to preach the word of truth in love, and let the chips fall where they may. Fortunately, there is the fruit of ex-Mormon Christians to celebrate.

I used to be intimidated to talk to atheists. They are, in my experience, generally confident about their atheism and have tough questions. But over time I discovered that the average atheist hasn’t read a substantive book defending atheism or theism, and gets his intellectual prowess from…image memes and YouTube. Today, I like to start off conversations with atheists by asking, “Have you ever read a good book defending atheism or theism?” Usually they haven’t. “Have you ever heard any good arguments for the existence of God or the resurrection of Jesus?” Usually they haven’t. “What are the strongest arguments for theism or Christianity, and what about them do you find lacking?” Blank stare. “What do you think are some of the most difficult questions for atheism to answer?” Ughhh…

These are great introductory teaching moments. “Would you mind if I shared a few good arguments for the existence of God and for the resurrection of Jesus?” What an awesome opportunity, especially when it culminates in a presentation of the most beautiful (and true) story in the world: God, yes, God, became a man, suffered with us and for us, and paid our penalty on the humiliating and shameful cross, and showed us the best display of sacrificial love there has ever been, simultaneously vindicating the righteousness of God, raising three days letter, showing us that the Lord Jesus Christ has all authority under heaven and earth and infinite power to keep his promises.

My favorite argument for the existence of God is the “moral argument for God.” I push it really hard:

1. If there is no God, there are no objective moral values or duties.

2. There are objective moral values and duties.

3. Therefore, God exists.

The really interesting thing about this argument is that atheists disagree with each other and don’t know it. Some affirm both premises and simply haven’t followed them through to the conclusion. Some affirm premise #1 and disaffirm premise #2, others disaffirm premise #1 and affirm premise #2. Call me a rascal, but when I’m being dog-piled by atheists, I love to get them arguing with each other. The argument is a great way to simultaneously engage someone’s intellect, spiritual intuitions, and suppressed presuppositions, all at the same time.

You can hear more about the moral argument for God here. But don’t let YouTube suffice: read a good book. Some of you are, like me, at times utterly sick of reading about, thinking about, and discussing Mormonism. Take the opportunity to read some good literature that both engages atheism and supports the basics of Biblical Christianity. The ironic thing is that you can take what you learn and share it with not only your atheist neighbors, but also your Mormon neighbors. I dare say that all of the evidences, arguments, and Biblical declarations that atheists need to hear are things that Mormons equally need to hear. Mormons are atheists in embryo. As Mormons are, ex-Mormon atheists once were; as ex-Mormon atheists are, Mormons may be. To quote The Dark Knight Rises out of context: “There is a storm coming.” Mormon parents need to stop asking themselves, “Will my children remain in the LDS Church?”, and start asking, “When my children leave the LDS Church, will they believe in Jesus?” Not if, but when. It’s happening in Utah, and it’s happening fast. Mormons have a hard time imagining what being a Christian theist would be like outside of Mormonism. I want to help start this process of imagination.

Addendum: Ten Discussion Questions for Atheists and Agnostics

Is there anything you reasonably believe to be true, yet can’t empirically demonstrate?

Are there any objective moral values or duties?

Is torturing babies for fun morally objectively wrong?

Does atheism have a ‘problem of evil’?

Does every effect have a sufficient cause?

Do you trust your cognitive faculties?

To what extent and why?

Is an infinite regress possible?

Is it possible that God exists?

Is truth important for its own sake?

Is the question of God’s existence important?

Do you feel angst or sorrow over the absurdity of life?

What do you think of the person of Jesus?

Have you ever heard of the “trilemma”?

Philosophical discussion important, but secondary and supplemental to direct preaching. People are not only emotional and spiritual beings, but also intellectual beings, so I consider it a respectful and loving thing to engage a person intellectually.

We are all fools for something. I choose to be a fool for Jesus. “If any of you think you are wise by the standards of this age, you should become ‘fools’ so that you may become wise.” (1 Corinthians 3:18) Be a “fool” with me and preach the ridiculous gospel of Jesus Christ. Self-confessed atheists are no different than the rest of us inadvertent “practical atheists” who sin as though God does not exist. We need to repent of trusting ourselves and cry out to Jesus in brokenhearted, child-like faith.

God is good, and Jesus has risen,

Aaron


TOPICS: Apologetics; Ministry/Outreach; Other non-Christian; Theology
KEYWORDS: atheists; exmormon; inman; lds; mormon; mormonism
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To: svcw
When Paul preached in Athens, the people rioted.......they were so offended.

Welll, here's the Bible's description of the "riot" in Athens.

Acts 17: 32 When they heard about the resurrection of the dead, some of them sneered, but others said, “We want to hear you again on this subject.” 33 At that, Paul left the Council. 34 Some of the people became followers of Paul and believed. Among them was Dionysius, a member of the Areopagus, also a woman named Damaris, and a number of others.

According to the Bible, Paul caused a number of riots, notably in Ephesus and Jerusalem. But not in Athens.

121 posted on 03/12/2013 7:45:19 PM PDT by Sherman Logan
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To: albionin
It is by denying that there is a standard and just doing whatever one feels like that is the cause of evil.

There's no such thing as evil.

One man's trash is another man's treasure.

122 posted on 03/12/2013 7:45:45 PM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: albionin
I disagree.

We get this; but WHY?

123 posted on 03/12/2013 7:46:37 PM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: albionin
I would still have a purpose.

Right!

To get back home someday and deliver that package!

124 posted on 03/12/2013 7:47:48 PM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Elsie

are we rushing to the number ???

:)


125 posted on 03/12/2013 7:50:51 PM PDT by Tennessee Nana
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To: Colofornian
Mormonism is indeed a form of atheism

That is a powerfully clarifying insight.

126 posted on 03/12/2013 7:52:28 PM PDT by Tau Food (Never give a sword to a man who can't dance.)
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To: Greetings_Puny_Humans
Everyone else gets sorted into the lower heavens, where “hell” is essentially to be eternally envious of the Mormons who were good and obedient enough to become gods.

Never understood that one, as I have absolutely no desire to be God, or even a god. Don't understand those who do have this desire.

For those who think I'm a Mormon apologist, that's far from the case. I've had a number of rather HWrws discussions with Mormons who are heavily into the "Mormon persecution" meme, which is a distortion of history IMO.

The real truth is that 19th century Mormons had a disastrous habit of starting and losing wars, then claiming religious persecution. 19th century western America had quite a large number of weird religious groups running around. For some obscure reason the Mormons were the only ones consistently involved in religious persecution.

One Mormon I had an extended discussion with claimed hundreds or thousands of Mormon deaths in the Missouri mob attacks. Tried for weeks to get him to document these claims. Actual numbers are probably well under 100, probably about half that.

Which means Mormons killed more in the single Mountain Meadows atrocity, the greatest atrocity committed in peacetime by American whites on American whites in our entire history, than Mormons were killed by the mobs.

127 posted on 03/12/2013 7:58:09 PM PDT by Sherman Logan
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To: Sherman Logan
Seems to me my attitude is somewhat closer to that of Peter than yours is. Since it’s obviously a great deal harder to give your answer with “gentleness and respect” if you are greatly offended by the question.

Do not make this thread "about" individual Freepers. That is also a form of "making it personal."

Discuss the issues all you want, but do not make it personal.

128 posted on 03/12/2013 7:59:15 PM PDT by Religion Moderator
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To: Elsie

To make your collection of 19th century religious rhetoric somewhat more comprehensive, you might want to look up how some 19th century American Protestants and Catholics talked about each other, not to mention what they had to say about Mormons.

If you go back a little farther 16th and 17th century “Christians” of various flavors reached a peak of denunciatory fervor that may never be reached again. Luther was a champ in this area.


129 posted on 03/12/2013 8:04:05 PM PDT by Sherman Logan
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To: Sherman Logan
Tried for weeks to get him to document these claims


130 posted on 03/12/2013 8:09:13 PM PDT by Tennessee Nana
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To: Religion Moderator

Okay. Was using “you” in the somewhat less than fully grammatical sense of “one,” which always seems a little awkward to me.

But if I’ve given offense, it was unintentional.


131 posted on 03/12/2013 8:12:26 PM PDT by Sherman Logan
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To: Sherman Logan

HWrws = heated.

No idea where that came from.


132 posted on 03/12/2013 8:14:47 PM PDT by Sherman Logan
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To: Sherman Logan

Paul preached and people rioted.........bottom line.
Your “lets all get along to get along” falls flat...bottom line.


133 posted on 03/12/2013 8:18:44 PM PDT by svcw (Why is one cell on another planet considered life, and in the womb it is not.)
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To: Elsie

Apparently.....that is true.
Fortunately, Jesus The Christ took the big one for us, so no need to worry.


134 posted on 03/12/2013 8:19:55 PM PDT by svcw (Why is one cell on another planet considered life, and in the womb it is not.)
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To: Sherman Logan

And yet, you defend mormonism.....weird at its face.


135 posted on 03/12/2013 8:21:56 PM PDT by svcw (Why is one cell on another planet considered life, and in the womb it is not.)
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To: stormer
You do realize that natural language is not actually bound by Aristotelian logic, don't you?

My favorite proof of this is the undoubted fact that saying a woman is "not unattractive" is not equivalent to saying she is attractive.

In many contexts in the natural use of English, just as in intuitionistic logic, NOT(NOT P) is weaker than P.

136 posted on 03/12/2013 9:34:31 PM PDT by The_Reader_David (And when they behead your own people in the wars which are to come, then you will know...)
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To: The_Reader_David
I'm sorry, but words mean things. And I disagree with your contention regarding the "not unattractive" woman. It is equivalent with saying she is attractive.
137 posted on 03/12/2013 9:52:00 PM PDT by stormer
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To: albionin

“That is the problem. I am coming from a completely different metaphysics and epistemology than a Christian would have to hold to hold the beliefs he or she holds.”


It doesn’t take metaphysical, epistemological, blahblahizicalmological anything to understand your own nature. Even Nietzsche understood the blackness of despair, and his own inability to live up to his own philosophy. His philosophy was aimed not at those who were there now existing, but of a Overcomer who would come later, in another time. Ironically, the only people who will be able to live up to those standards is the Christian in his Resurrection body.

If you say that you yourself are not corrupt, then give me your code of moral conduct. Give me its dictates, what defines good behavior. How do you handle lust? How do you handle lies? How do you handle any of the problems you yourself face or think you face. And then tell me, after all of that, if you even keep your own standards. Or if, like a blind man, you are always grasping for them and failing to truly live up to them at all times.


138 posted on 03/12/2013 11:47:05 PM PDT by Greetings_Puny_Humans
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To: Tennessee Nana
are we rushing to the number ???

No; the attrition rate of MORMON apologists available to post these days insures that the thread will fizzle long before then...

139 posted on 03/13/2013 4:43:09 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Sherman Logan
I've had a number of rather HWrws discussions with Mormons who are heavily into the "Mormon persecution" meme, which is a distortion of history IMO.

Speaking of distortion...



The following are the LYING images that MORMONism has produced, KNOWING that they represent something FALSE!!
 
 
   

140 posted on 03/13/2013 4:45:30 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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