A lot of churches teach “hate the sin, love the sinner.”
At times it is difficult or, as in this case, impossible.
But I a pretty sure that is the driving theology.
You can love the sinner while they’re still alive because there is always hope for repentance, but there is no hope for a sinner who has died an unrepentant sinner.
hate the sin, love the sinner.
That was Christ’s message, tough as that is to put into practice, it is hard to refute the implicit intent of what he said.