Posted on 05/02/2013 7:26:48 PM PDT by SeekAndFind
On April 1, 2013 Dr. Phil aired a show titled: "Shocking Mom Revelations." As a part of this episode, he interviewed a mother whose daughter identified as a lesbian. During the episode, the mother shared about her disapproval of her daughter's "lifestyle choice" and expressed a desire for her daughter to see a counselor to get help in exploring her same-sex attraction.
In shockingly un-therapeutic fashion, Dr. Phil flat-out shut the mother's opinion down, along with her Christian values, in favor for the simple explanation that "this is who her daughter is" and she should just accept it. Below is an excerpt from the letter we sent:
Dear Dr. Phil,
While we do not condone this mother's belief that homosexuality is simply a "choice" per se, science has recognized, through 100 years of peer-reviewed research, that homosexuality is in fact fluid for some individuals. For example, a recent study published in the prestigious Archives of Sexual Behavior journal titled: "Stability and Change in Same-Sex Attraction, Experience, and Identity by Sex and Age in a New Zealand Birth Cohort" (Dickson, van Roode, Cameron, and Paul, 2013) showed the experiences of same-sex attraction significantly decreased among women and men with increasing age. Similarly, prior research has shown that exclusive opposite-sex attraction is approximately 17 times more stable than exclusive same-sex attraction for men and 30 times more stable than exclusive same-sex attraction for women (Whitehead & Whitehead, 2011).
There is an abundance of scientific peer-reviewed research that shows homosexuality is not an enduring and immutable characteristic, thus proving the very statement that Dr. Phil said at the end of the episode: "I don't believe there is any such thing as an 'ex-gay'" as categorically false, unscientific, and defamatory to the thousands of former homosexuals, persons with unwanted same-sex attractions, and their families.
Further, Dr. Phil's comment to the mother: "Your thought is, if she sees a competent counselor, they will unravel all this confusion for her and the false sense of security she has in romantic relationships with women and this will be clear to her that she's straight as a string and get on with her life" is an overly-simplistic statement for an esteemed psychologist such as Dr. Phil to make.
Finally, Dr. Phil went onto say to the young woman: "given that you have been molested, that really changes who you are. It causes you to think about things differently, and when it happens at a very young age, it can create some cognitive patterns that are just inaccurate and program you to make some bad choices in your life, it creates a wound that needs healing, and you really do need help with that."
It is entirely possible that this young woman's feelings of same-sex attraction is a result of this childhood abuse, yet, Dr. Phil completely left this theory out for a politically-correct explanation to the mother that "this is who she is" – implying that her daughter was born a lesbian.
Please allow me to remind Dr. Phil what the American Psychological Association said in 2008 regarding the etiology of homosexuality:
"There is no consensus among scientists about the exact reasons that an individual develops a heterosexual, bisexual, gay, or lesbian orientation. Although much research has examined the possible genetic, hormonal, developmental, social, and cultural influences on sexual orientation, no findings have emerged that permit scientists to conclude that sexual orientation is determined by any particular factor or factors. Many think that nature and nurture both play complex roles; most people experience little or no sense of choice about their sexual orientation."
"There is no consensus among scientists about the exact reasons that an individual develops a heterosexual, bisexual, gay, or lesbian orientation. Although much research has examined the possible genetic, hormonal, developmental, social, and cultural influences on sexual orientation, no findings have emerged that permit scientists to conclude that sexual orientation is determined by any particular factor or factors. Many think that nature and nurture both play complex roles; most people experience little or no sense of choice about their sexual orientation."
For Dr. Phil to not explore ALL the possible reasons why this young woman may be experiencing homosexual feelings is to directly contradict the best evidence from scientists, and thus, mislead the general public. I am certain that he would not do this intentionally. Therefore, Voice of the Voiceless respectfully requests that Dr. Phil:
1) Publicly apologize to the ex-gay community for implying that "we do not exist" 2) Set the record straight on a future broadcast that his statement about former homosexual and the etiology of homosexuality was his opinion, not scientific fact 3) Invite myself and other former homosexuals and ex-gays, and their families, on a future episode of the Dr. Phil show so that we may tell America about our lives.
After weeks of attempting to speak with the show's producers, legal representatives, and media relations spokesperson, all we received was the following statement: " Thank you for sharing your opinions with us. Dr. Phil and his producers stand by the statements he made on this show."
This "response" is a slap in the face to the tens of thousands of former homosexuals, persons with unwanted same-sex attraction, and their families. Further, Dr. Phil's complete lack of respect for this mother's Christian values is defamatory towards the entire faith-based community who hold to traditional Biblical beliefs regarding homosexual behavior.
On the Web: www.ComingOutLoved.com/drphilpetition
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Christopher Doyle, M.A. is the Co-Founder and Acting Director of Voice of the Voiceless. For more information, visit us online at: www.ComingOutLoved.com/VoiceoftheVoiceless
His BOSS is a lesbian.
CC
Dr Philistine
Didn’t Dr. Phil attended the DNC? I thought I saw him when camera were scanning the audience. I swore I thought I saw him clapping.
Thanks for the gif, which I just stole from you.
CC
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And you are actually incorrect...he has an earned PhD in clinical psychology and did in fact practice for a number of years. His license was retired in 2006
CC
ooops sorry I responded to your post before reading all other entries....a fault I have that bites me in the butt every now and agin
Not surprising. Even Dr. Laura has embraced this line of thought which I find more disappointing since she had a different opinion before.
CC
Actually Dr.Phil is a republican.
That doesn’t mean much these days.
‘Doctor’ Phil is a boring, monotonic, long-faced simpleton who should be the poster boy for the Homosexual (and Lesbian) Agenda.
Just a few decades ago it looked like the Communists were taking over America and the world. Now it’s the queers.
They operate a lot alike, actually; both have a tendency to colonize and cozy up to sycophants like ‘Doctor’ Phil.
Where you find one homosexual or lesbian on television or in the movies, you usually find a baker’s dozen swishing around.
Homosexuals ‘bend over backwards’ and are overfriendly. They do say no occasionally. When a fairy says no he almost throws his back out of joint.
The poor darlings, as they sometimes call themselves, are everywhere in politics, fashion and show business. The theater, like television and the movies, is infested with them and it’s beginning to show the effects. The New York theater is dying; it’s being killed by limp wrists.
Ah, that explains it.
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