How are relations in our parishes, in our communities? [On forum boards?] Do we treat one another as brothers and sisters? Or do we judge one another, speak badly of each other, each caring for their own turf, or do we care one for another. These are questions of charity!I like Mary because she does not judge. That's going to be her Son's job. She's the perfect person [in fact, the only one that will ever be in her category; human, but sinless] to aid with very troubling situations. Regretful post-abortive mothers can go to Mary with the assurance that she will only love, and the Visitation is the perfect decade to meditate on in this regard. As Pope Francis said, Mary brought Jesus to Elizabeth. And she will do the same for anyone.