Posted on 10/24/2013 7:26:48 AM PDT by Morgana
of course not...people in their 70's have sex and have no problems.....as long as you are open to sex without the express intent to avoid pregnancy and avoid artificial methods of birth control you are in good shape with the church and with God.....who, after all, made the rules.
obviously you aren't completely up to date on your Catholic history.....an annulment requires proof that a valid marriage had not taken place originally......you discovered that she was your sister adopted at infancy.....obviously no valid marriage....she had been married before, validly, but hadn't had that marriage annulled.....she is still married,....she advises you after the marriage, that she doesn't want any kids...period..., no valid marriage...she disc overs that you are impotent and cannot physically consumate the marriage....invalid....a bunch of reasons but there must be a valid one to anull the marriage.
absolutely...theirs is a blessed relationship, they have no intention of doing anything artificial to prevent pregnancy....they just happen to be in the large percentage of people who don't get pregnant.......sometimes life can be very enjoyable at that time!!!!!!!!!
he didn't, God did.....and Hea makea the rules!!
not if there was no marriage contract in the first place....big difference!!
my very Catholic wife is the oldest of 15 children........not much birth control there!!!!
While adoption certainly is an option, I would also say a (married) couple must also want to adopt before doing so. This should be obvious. In other words, while I am no expert on the subject, I do not believe the church teaches that married couples who are, for whatever reason infertile MUST adopt. They simply must remain open to life in the sacramental bond.
“The Code states in Canon 1069: For matrimonial consent to exist, the contracting parties must be at least not ignorant that marriage is a permanent partnership between a man and a woman ordered to the procreation of offspring by means of some sexual cooperation.
Note, this says “...procreation of offspring by means of some sexual cooperation”. This doesn’t necessarily include adoption.
What I’m trying to make clear and I believe I’m failing at doing so, is to say of course any married couple that has a desire for children should seek out adoption should “normal” means fail, but if a couple marries late in life, they shouldn’t feel as though they “have to” adopt. They only “have to” remain open to life, and all that entails.
After all, if God wills a couple have a child they will. Look at Sara for example.
I just wanted to make that point clear, not that anyone was implying anything else.
Well you did get three gifts from God.
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Yup, sure did.
Well, I guess that includes the mentally ill homosexuals that just LOVE little boys. /s
In case you missed it, ping! (Some of the comments reflect complete ignorance of God’s plan for man and woman in marriage).
Valid but not ratified, provided that precisely the right attitude is present at the beginning of the marriage, which would include an openness to ratifying/consummating initially, though both parties can then agree to forgo, provided that each freely embraces the choice. Such marriages are true marriages—both parties have given rights over the body to the other, and then, for the greater good, returned them. Because they are non-consummated, they may be dissolved via what is called the “Petrine privilege” (not to be confused with the “Pauline privilege” which deals with a consummated non-sacramental marriage).
Kennedys, and another JFK.
Hey, you’re welcome. :)
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